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it is not nice to stay with someone if you may not have feelings for them. Nothing is defined here, you do not know what you want, and you do not know what your current relationship means. You are afraid of taking a risk with the other guy, becuase you might lose both or one of them. You are being selfish, and you remain in the hole you dug because you are afraid digging a deeper one. Possibly fooling your current bf that you have feelings for him when you may not just because you feel that this merely "suffices" when you think you can make it better. Stop humoring him.
Cheating on your bf was selfish. Get rid of that word from my description of you, and you will begin to bury your hole again and hopefully be able to move on. Cheating on your bf to have a mitigated sense of more, or perhaps the best of two worlds...hmmm i am not going to tell you what to do becuase you have not told us a lot about these guys. But, getting out of that hole would be advisable.
No one can really tell you how to though.
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07-01-2003 08:13 PM
