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u guyz need to help me....
im drunk so im pretyt much being as honest as i could ever be...
i know i mite get some negative feedback.. but i know tats wat im gonna hab to risk in order to get other people's reactions cos i know i was wrong..

hear me out before u judge me

i basically cheated on my boyfriend... with this guy, let's call him um..... "Ted". Ted basically cheated on his girlfriend too with me. me and ted were pretty much good friends.. and i knew i had feelings for him. once i found out he had feelings for me... i honestly was scared of what i should do. should i risk the relationship i have with my boyfriend... or should i see what happens with Ted.... because i knew i still had feelings for my boyfriend even though we fought like half the time we went out.. and because he was the one i lost my virginity with.

i kept thinking about how good we would be together... because we clicked so well, we had the same group of friends, had lots in common, and because we were actually each other's chutsarangs...

what happened was Ted broke up with his girlfriend.. and a big reason was because i was in the situation... now its my turn to figure out what the hell im gonna do. should i stay with my unsuspecting boyfriend whom i lost my virginity with but always get into fights with............... or should i keep seeing Ted.. and see how things work out.

tat is basically why the fuck im not sober right now... because i feel so guilty... towards both of them. my boyfriend has no idea whats going on. ted and i want to be together but i also still have feelings for my boyfriend.. and y ou guys know its hard for a girl to let go of someone they lost their virginity with. maybe its different for guys... but its way different for girls.

please dont leave remarks saying im a slut...
i already feel bad as it is...
i know i was wrong to do what i did...
give me some help

xP confused

geez louise.




what u should do.

number 1. stop cheating on bfs.
number 2. be honest with yourself and everybody else.
number 3. btw how old are you?
number 4. nobody likes drama in your life.. do you? cuz obviously you got one heck of a drama in your hands.
number 5. chut sarangs are great n all.. but thats what they are.. first loves..
number 6. stop drinking.
number 7. prepare to be slandered by everybody else on this forum.
number 8. cheating is cheating. nobody likesem. how would you like it if your bf cheated on you and your only explanation is "but me n ted get a long so well and we have the same friend and all you n i do is fight."
number 9. realize the utter stupidity of high school drama and move on woman.

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wow u got urself in a mess .. well it was a big mistake to cheat .. i couldnt imagine cheating on my bf .. oh well i guess now that u were with them both u gotta decide who u feel is best for u .. but i dunno if ur bf is still gonna wanna go out with u if he finds out u cheated on him and i think its best u tell him cuz if he finds out from someone else it'll just be worse .. and if u wanna be with the other guy be prepared cuz ur current bf is probably gonna be all depressed .. i dunno u have to decide for urself what u want .. i jus feel bad for ur bf, it sux to be him right now

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you are a cheap person...if you made a commitment, finish it through. but if youre not...then it jus goes to show that you can be "bought" so to speak... or sold, whichever way you prefer to look at it. and drunk girls are so unattractive. so grow up. boys arent the only thing in life.

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Originally posted by marvinOPPA
you are a cheap person...if you made a commitment, finish it through. but if youre not...then it jus goes to show that you can be "bought" so to speak... or sold, whichever way you prefer to look at it. and drunk girls are so unattractive. so grow up. boys arent the only thing in life.

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Originally posted by KeN VeRsUs RyU

what u should do.

number 1. stop cheating on bfs.
number 2. be honest with yourself and everybody else.
number 3. btw how old are you?
number 4. nobody likes drama in your life.. do you? cuz obviously you got one heck of a drama in your hands.
number 5. chut sarangs are great n all.. but thats what they are.. first loves..
number 6. stop drinking.
number 7. prepare to be slandered by everybody else on this forum.
number 8. cheating is cheating. nobody likesem. how would you like it if your bf cheated on you and your only explanation is "but me n ted get a long so well and we have the same friend and all you n i do is fight."
number 9. realize the utter stupidity of high school drama and move on woman.

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you are a cheap person...if you made a commitment, finish it through. but if youre not...then it jus goes to show that you can be "bought" so to speak... or sold, whichever way you prefer to look at it. and drunk girls are so unattractive. so grow up. boys arent the only thing in life.

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wow you can actually go online and type correct when your drunk O.o

anyways i agree with everyone here

you make your bf seem like sucha bad guy cause you keep saying 'he's the one i lost virginity with, fought half the times we met, etc'

it is not nice to stay with someone if you may not have feelings for them. Nothing is defined here, you do not know what you want, and you do not know what your current relationship means. You are afraid of taking a risk with the other guy, becuase you might lose both or one of them. You are being selfish, and you remain in the hole you dug because you are afraid digging a deeper one. Possibly fooling your current bf that you have feelings for him when you may not just because you feel that this merely "suffices" when you think you can make it better. Stop humoring him.

Cheating on your bf was selfish. Get rid of that word from my description of you, and you will begin to bury your hole again and hopefully be able to move on. Cheating on your bf to have a mitigated sense of more, or perhaps the best of two worlds...hmmm i am not going to tell you what to do becuase you have not told us a lot about these guys. But, getting out of that hole would be advisable.

No one can really tell you how to though.

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ill say it for psytek cuz he hasnt got around to it yet... face the facts: you're a whore

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Originally posted by marvinOPPA
ill say it for psytek cuz he hasnt got around to it yet... face the facts: you're a whore

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haha. u signed up just to share u story w/ us. thats greeeaat..


umm.. how old are u?..
You are seriously creating tooo much drama for yourself.. ur life sounds like one of those afternoon drama show. lol

i feel bad for your Bf... i bet if u tell him.. hes going to be hella upset with you and mite just dump u. unless hes one of those guys that dont really care.

y dont u just go out w/ ted?.. i mean u guys have another thing in common...

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Originally posted by niggoreanboi
wow you can actually go online and type correct when your drunk O.o

anyways i agree with everyone here

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