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Posted by Hyesungu on 08-16-2003 10:18 AM:
I Love this girl
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Posted by Crazydeb8ter on 08-16-2003 10:27 AM:
ah love
I say you missed a very big opportunity. If she loved you, it's my opinion that she should've pushed you in a direction that would've given you a better chance to be successful- namely, modeling in europe.
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Posted by FlavaFLOSS on 08-16-2003 10:50 AM:
Hello Mike.
I'm not a love expert, but I think I can give you a few wordings that might either cheer you up or bring you down. I'm sorry if it's the second one. :(
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But recently she has told me she no longer loves me.
Mike, let me tell you something, if she loves you, she won't just wake up one more and decide not to love you. There has to be reasons.
+ Have you asked her why she claims that she doesn't love you?
If she tells you just because she's bored, that's not a reason. If she tells you that she just doesn't care, it can't be true- considering the fact that you two once loved each other (and that you still do).
- Ask her for a reason, and maybe you can work things out from there.
(I'm going a little off topic here, but I just read this story called "Just One Last Call", and the girl decides to break up with her boyfriend because she discovered that she had cancer. She ran away from him, then when they met again, she pushed him away. Just wanted to share that. :P)
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She was the first person I ever opened up to, the first person to ever hear me cry. I am so tough, but when she is sad or hurt, I cant help but cry.
It's a normal thing. When you love someone, you share in their pain as well. It's okay to cry. There's always a first to everything.
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No matter how much she pushes me away, no matter how much she tells me she hates me. I still want to be there for her.
Have you ever considered giving her space? Maybe she needs time to think things through. Maybe she just haven't discovered how much you mean to her because she knows that you're always going to be there. Give her a little space, and if she claims that she still doesn't need you, it's time to move on. Just like the quote:
"If you love someone, let them go. If they come back, it's destiny. If they don't, it was never meant to be."
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I know I dunt have no pride, but when it comes to her, i dunt care.
Oh the foolish things love makes you do. I don't think anyone has any pride when it comes to love.
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She told me tonight, she was going to have another bf soon.
There are many possibilities behind that statement.
+ She might have been cheating behind your back while she was with you, then she breaks up with you so she can be with him.
+ She's testing you for a reaction. Will you still pursue her? Will you fight for her?
+ She might have said that to make it easier for you to let go.
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Why does love bring such joy yet pain??
If love doesn't bring pain, how will you know what joy is? Love and Pain is a couple. You can't have one without the other.
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Im thinking if I get out of her life for good, she will be happy?
Even if she claims that she doesn't love you anymore, I can honestly say that she won't be too happy. It hurts to let go one thing for another. And for her case, she's letting you go for a her own reason.
The question is not will she be happy, but rather- will you be happy? Will you be able to smile for her if she loves another person? Will a portion of your heart find contentment over pain if you see her smiling for another man?
You ask yourself if you're ready to let go. Ask yourself if you're ready to be happy for her.
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But its so hard to walk away.. Im only 19 years old.. my heart cant take all this no more.
Walking away is always the hardest thing to do in life, but if your heart fight the dark clouds, you'll be able to look back and a rainbow will appear in the sky. It's your time to decide if you're going to fight or stay.
I know you might say this is so cliche, but 19 is such a young age. You might not believe me when I say this, but in the future, you might meet someone who will be able to caress the ache in your soul and heal the hurt in your heart. And then, at that time, you might thank the girl in your memory for giving you the chance to meet the person who truly loves you.
Mike, it's either now or never, put up a final fight and move on with the results, or stay still and drown in your own misery without a concluded ending to a chapter in your love story.
I hope I've helped.
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Posted by Hyesungu on 08-16-2003 10:56 AM:
Thank you Ane. Your advice is greatly appreciated.. I will fight one last time. If she doesnt realize how much I love her, then there will be nothing I can do..
Posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0 on 08-16-2003 08:10 PM:
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Originally posted by Hyesungu
Thank you Ane. Your advice is greatly appreciated.. I will fight one last time. If she doesnt realize how much I love her, then there will be nothing I can do..
I say you just face the facts, drop your gloves and move on. love comes and goes, and it was ultimately your choice to invest so much in this relationship at such a young age. the end has come, so don't try to stall the inevitable.__________________
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Posted by TAIgrr on 08-16-2003 09:06 PM:
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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
I say you just face the facts, drop your gloves and move on. love comes and goes, and it was ultimately your choice to invest so much in this relationship at such a young age. the end has come, so don't try to stall the inevitable.
there ARE no facts to face .. let him do what he pleases
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Posted by kRypTic_nABi on 08-16-2003 09:06 PM:
maybe she's scared that you're moving closer to her area? maybe in the beginning of the relationship she didn't expect it to be THAT serious and now she's scared?! who knoes =/
Posted by TAIgrr on 08-16-2003 09:09 PM:
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Originally posted by kRypTic_nABi
maybe she's scared that you're moving closer to her area? maybe in the beginning of the relationship she didn't expect it to be THAT serious and now she's scared?! who knoes =/
i think i agree with you..
mike, youre talking about jakey(?) are you not? if yes..
maybe she's taken back that you are taking it REALLY serious,
and what started off with just a cyber-crush and now becoming real with you mocing closer to her.. it might seem awkward..
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Posted by Hyesungu on 08-16-2003 10:22 PM:
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Originally posted by TAIgrr
i think i agree with you..
mike, youre talking about jakey(?) are you not? if yes..
maybe she's taken back that you are taking it REALLY serious,
and what started off with just a cyber-crush and now becoming real with you mocing closer to her.. it might seem awkward..
or something like that
that wasnt the reason. But that does not matter now. Because its over. Its really over. I tried so hard, but im just not good enuff. I messed up severly. Im sorry that I ranted on the forum. Im really sorry, and thank you all for your input. How funny though, Ive finally realized what she means to me, and how much I Love her. That saying is so damn true, you dunt know what you have until its gone.
Posted by meKjOoaNjeLL on 08-17-2003 01:35 AM:
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Originally posted by Hyesungu
its over. Its really over.
yeah its over its really over... you did not keep ur promises.. you said you will never leave me but you did you said you will always be here but you were never here for me.... you always guestioned me if i loved you and the more you ask me dat the farther distance i walked.. i was scared so scared of this relationship cuz i was afraid i wasnt worth ur time.. you pressured me soo much by saying dat i was everything to you and dat you had no one else but me.... this might sound rude/mean watever but you pushed me away.. why cant you see dat.... you scared me away mike.... you have no idea how much i cared about you... heres a tip for you on ur next relationship take things easier... yes you are only 19 so dunt throw away ur hopes and dreams.. having a real true relationship is not all about life. there is more to life then having a gurl in ur life....
Posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0 on 08-17-2003 04:34 AM:
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Originally posted by meKjOoaNjeLL
yeah its over its really over... you did not keep ur promises.. you said you will never leave me but you did you said you will always be here but you were never here for me.... you always guestioned me if i loved you and the more you ask me dat the farther distance i walked.. i was scared so scared of this relationship cuz i was afraid i wasnt worth ur time.. you pressured me soo much by saying dat i was everything to you and dat you had no one else but me.... this might sound rude/mean watever but you pushed me away.. why cant you see dat.... you scared me away mike.... you have no idea how much i cared about you... heres a tip for you on ur next relationship take things easier... yes you are only 19 so dunt throw away ur hopes and dreams.. having a real true relationship is not all about life. there is more to life then having a gurl in ur life....
and on the next episode of "days of our jusunlee lives"...
will Hyesungu have the courage to move on... once he moves literally?
will Jaky reveal her true intentions that she wanted to keep this strictly an internet relationship from the get-go?
will they find out that they are in reality twins seperated at birth?!
ok, enough with the jokes.
i don't even have to know half of the pathetic details to catch on to what the situation is here. basically, both of you started one of these stupid long distance internet relationships because both of you were pretty lonely in real life. but low and behold, the ultimate twist comes when the boy finds out he's moving to the girl's area. the boy is of course naturally excited, but the girl snaps back into reality at that moment and realizes that this isn't what she wanted to happen. although having an online/phone relationship was a good way to partially fill that lonely heart of hers, it was all mostly for cheap thrills (sorry for lack of a better term) and was used all this time just as an outlet to live out the kind of love life she wanted in real life. besides, she would never even have the possibility of seeing this chum in real life, right? apparently, very wrong.
the girl, to put it bluntly, would not actually settle for the guy in real life, which has become the case that has unfolded in front of all of our eyes.
sorry guy, but my personal opinion is that you were used as an outlet for lonliness and vice versa from the start, but the problem is that she realizes what the true nature of her relationship with you was while you're still left in the dark and very attached.
just face the facts, and find a new girl.
and TAIgrowl, i don't know where that whole Jesus lecture came from, but obviously you're comparing an apple to a field of apple trees.
that's like comparing... hmm let's see,
a real relationship... to an internet relationship. (how clever was that.)
best of luck to the ex-couple in question.__________________
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Posted by J-DraGoNz on 08-17-2003 05:25 AM:
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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
and on the next episode of "days of our jusunlee lives"...
will Hyesungu have the courage to move on... once he moves literally?
will Jaky reveal her true intentions that she wanted to keep this strictly an internet relationship from the get-go?
will they find out that they are in reality twins seperated at birth?!
ok, enough with the jokes.
and TAIgrowl
that's like comparing... hmm let's see,
a real relationship... to an internet relationship. (how clever was that.)
LOL man
hm...well i know how you feel. i was in somewhat of that sort of predicament...__________________
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Posted by AZN Pinoy BOI on 08-17-2003 06:37 PM:
sry 2 hear man, we all got our upz and downs.
it sounds like... ur 2 obsesive with her, like she was everything 2 u, which i said she was but where does urself come into this, at the end, u abused emotion for this doing everything for her but there r times when u have to break the flow and do what u have to. u say she's worth it but y break dreams, she would except them 2 if she loved u that much. but i don't think questioning is his fault, it's hers, it's hear fault 2 for cheating on u and thus u had lack of trust in her. take it slow and easy next time...
stay strong, love feels like heaven but ends like hell, ur only 19, more years to face.
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Posted by rhymester* on 08-17-2003 09:41 PM:
lifes a bitch. move on.
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Posted by Hyesungu on 08-17-2003 11:47 PM:
i see ur guys point. i wrote everything out in the wrong.. words? well it dunt matter no matter. thanks everyone!
Posted by KeN VeRsUs RyU on 08-18-2003 04:59 AM:
i wasn't gonna say anything.. but i'll briefly mention something about this situation.
i went through a pretty similar situation.
here;s the short version
i moved there
she never called me back
i was pissed for a month
got over it
made friends in this new place
enjoyed the place i lived
she actually called me back 8 months later.. and apologized
epiphony... if things continued the way they were and called me back.. it woulda been way different.. bad different. oh well i guess we'll never know.
im not really sur eif i regret moving.. but i like the way things turned out. ima go see her in a couple of weeks. as friends of course.
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Posted by Queeny on 08-19-2003 08:37 PM:
actually people do wake up and can think that they dont "really" love a certain person. people wake up everyday changing like it was planned in their dreams. it could also be a subconscious thing..or maybe since people tend to use "love" as often as they could..it mightve never really been love.
but all i can say is. God works in miraculous ways. if its TRULY meant to be..ur paths will cross again. just wish the best for each other and let things be.
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Posted by J-DraGoNz on 08-20-2003 08:45 AM:
trust me...i know how you feel. all this is goin through my mind again. i was workin on a song bout the girl....but i stopped...but i guess ill start again...its more painful then ever. just thinking about it now...im shedding tears....
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