younger sisters
I have problems getting them to listen for their own good... I try to be nice about it and every time I do, they don't listen and do it anyways.... so when I yell, they actually listen but then they get all bitchy about it too... what am I supposed to do? let them learn themselves? I can't do that because it could totally ruin their future... that's why I don't let them do it...
Anyways, my younger sister is dating a 19 year old guy... she's 14. know what I mean? I don't like what she's got herself into, mainly because he's legal, and she's not... I tell them and make sure they know I don't approve because it's for their best interest... I really don't like the guy... because he's not a good guy... He drinks every night with his buddies, was a drop out, doesn't have a job, basically a bum... but, it's not mainly because of that... it's mainly because he has gotten my sister into so much trouble over the past 6 months and he hurts my sister all the time... I tell her how I feel but she doesn't care... I've even cried because he's so mean to her... should I even care anymore? she doesn't seem to care about what I have to say... ever since they started dating, we have not gotten along like how we used to... she's secretive now and she's abandoned herself from having conversations with me...
she makes me mad, sad, upset, angry...
she sometimes even says that I'm just jealous... I'm not
am I doing something wrong? am I pushing too much? is it really not any of my business? what should I do?
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