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Ladi Jay
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HELP ME PLEASE!!!

Okai, I just met this guy and he's 19... a sophomore in college... and really sweet!!! Well, I met him at a rec center and we were playing basketball against each other!!! I got to know him better that night and we started flirting, you know... like the touching, laughing, body language way, and then we went to the Asian Prom together down here... He was really sweet, nice, cute, good dresser, tall, good boy and he even had a nice ride with a nice sound system!!! (Girls, he is as perfect as you can get)! Well, he bought me a rose and everything and he was showing a big interest in me... We had a lot of fun... But... The only thing is, he has a girlfriend... :sad: She lives in the town where his family lives though... I don't know what to do. I can't get him off my mind!!! I'm like !!! AHHH! Help me.... What the hell am I supposed to do...

I asked a couple of my friends and one of them said that it was just a one night stand kind of thing... I was like, it can't be... And then another friend of mine said that he shouldn't have been doing that anyways... Because he has a girlfriend and all... And that got me thinking that what if I dated him and he did the same thing to me? If he did it once, he can do it twice right? And then, all my other friends are like, Oh, I can tell he likes you... If he was all over you like that... Trust me, you two will get together... Ahhh.... Help me!!!

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seung ju
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uh.. i was too lazy to read all of it, but if he has a gf, i say back up off him. if you push the relationship it'll lead to all sorts of drama you dont want.

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Um hes like 19, and your 15? You dont think hes too old for you?

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well, like you said, imagine if you're his gf and he did that sort of thing with another girl.... not too trustworthy.

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KeN VeRsUs RyU
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i bet you twenty bucks his gf is more his age.. right?.. gimme my twenty..

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hahaha..

don't mess around with other people's people

it could get ugly

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tough situation u got there....sounds like a bold and beautiful episode..kekeke jkz.....=p~...hrrmmz....if he's already got a gf..than theres not much point..right..?...just think if u did end up getin together...he'll do the same to u....maybe...but the thought would be there....he = 19 ...u = 15.....a bit of a diff huhz..would it work...really....??..if i was u..i would jus be friends.....than..later..on..wen he doesnt have a gf..and u still want him...u have a chance....right...

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Ladi Jay
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But if he didn't like me, why did he do all those things with me? :huh:

And to me, age doesn't really matter that much... I told myself that he has to be 2 years to 5 yeard older than me... no more, not less...

I do think that it's not right for him to do that... I think I'm just gonna give it some time and see what happens... If nothing happens, I guess I'll be fine... :satisfy: I mean... I can always find a guy like him out there... If there's one... There'll be two.... rite?

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hes a player
i think its his fault :huh:

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well the reason why i was asking is probably because he wants to take advantage of you cuz of your age.. maybe if his gf was your age.. he would feel differently because he's already dating someone your age.. but he's just the type of guy who likes to mess around.. or likes to flirt.. even when he already has a gf.. i hate those people.. and you're the type of people who gives into that.. and dont care... that to me is just as wrong.. sorry..

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His gf if arounf 17-18... maybe even 19... But I know he's not icky like that... I do I know? Just the way he acts. Like... he asked if there were some nasty parts in this movie we were watching and and we told him that there is... Then he got all disgusted about it... Serious... I know he is not like that....

Yeah, and maybe he was playing with me... but also, in a way I doubt it because he is really good friends with this friend of mine also (My other friend is a guy and 19 too) and I know that he knows that if he did anything wrong to me, my other guy friend would be seriously upset and bust him... You know?

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sounds like manipulator to me. and b/c you like him so much you're too blind to see it. sorry.

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quote:
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sounds like manipulator to me. and b/c you like him so much you're too blind to see it. sorry.



hahaha, correct my friend..he's a very good one too, from what she's saying. He knows his homework and he's studied it more than once.

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sounds like manipulator to me. and b/c you like him so much you're too blind to see it. sorry.


I said that I'm backing off and breathing some air... I knew right away when I was writing that, that someone would think and say what you just said... I know when to stop...

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unless he prefers men, why the hell would he get disgusted when there's sex in a movie? he is bullshitting his ass off

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I'm disgusted by the whole sex thingy... Actually, in the movie, it's more like a butt-doing kinda thing... GROSS!!!

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if your confused, and want to not be. Just ask him about it. It's simple. You should consider all possibilities of his motives though without refuting them blindly, yes blindly. :satisfy:

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quote:
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I'm disgusted by the whole sex thingy... Actually, in the movie, it's more like a butt-doing kinda thing... GROSS!!!


doesn't apply to girls but there's no such thing as a prude guy no matter wut they say. if they deny it, they're full of shit

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Ladi Jay
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Sure, I believe you....

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anal sex is nasty.

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