i don't think anyone is misunderstanding you in that you are not against interracial dating, we all got it victor,

anyway, why did you just define the terms again? Again, how are different fetishes different from each other?

Quoting from your post: "that puts more emphasis on the outward being of a person, as opposed to internal qualities, and in this case personality", now how does that possibly not apply to so many other things besides race?

-edit- everyone knows what the words mean, so you don't need to define or clarify them anymore...how do they APPLY to fetishes being different.

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Thanks for clearing things for me over AIM.


Thanks Ladi Jay

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you know, about the language barrier issue. I was so ignorant to come up with that idea.

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you know, about the language barrier issue. I was so ignorant to come up with that idea.

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I did link liberalism to race fetishes. Read the post over again.

I will talk about the difference of fetishes in a follow up post. Right now i have hw :huh:

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Crazydeb8ter
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problem is that it is a valid issue. Most asian parents who do not speak english well prefer their son/daughter to find a relationship with someone that could speak their language. They would rather have a son/daughter in law that they could communicate with easily.
You weren't ignorant before, now you are ignorant because you're not seeing both sides of the issue.


Thanks man. This made me happy. Anyway, what you said above was what i was trying to get across...about parents who want an in law that can be communicated easily with....

crap, im not making sense..im going to bed.

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Drop words on 'em, drop words on 'em....




I guess it's hard for me to have an opinion on this... I have an asian girlfriend, but after reflection, I've never really thought of her as 'asian.' I don't think i have 'yellow fever,' a 'fetish,' or anything of the sort. She's really pretty, but i've never held the shape of her eyes or tone of her skin to mean anything. Admittingly, though, i HAVE taken advantage of her culture...

I LOVE HER MOM'S COOKING

aiya, it's so good

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ive dated a couple of asian girlz during my life, but then again ive dated white girls and black girls too. im white myself but i just find asian girls to be a lot nicer and a lot more open than a lot of some of the others. im not trying to steriotype or anything but im just saying... also ive really only got shit from the girls parents (dirty looks) but everyone seems to be cool with it

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i was going to be sarcastic, but no one ever picks up on it. So...

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I only date Asian girls. After I get out of my current relationship, it'll only be Korean girls. Its just a preference. All I can say about interracial dating is that its not that big of a deal.

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it doesnt bother me to see other people date different races...but personally, i wouldnt do it.... *shrugs* preference i guess...

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nope, no racial preferences here~
dated around and to me it makes not a difference.

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i think i've dated a girl of every race.. i dunno. dont really care, but i cant really date black girls unless they're bright (light skinned).

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I only date Asian girls. After I get out of my current relationship, it'll only be Korean girls. Its just a preference. All I can say about interracial dating is that its not that big of a deal.

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Is anyone else bothered by this quote? After I get out of my current relationship

There's something so...sinister and premeditated about the phrasing.

Anyway. Like some of the other people who responded to this topic, I don't quite understand the purpose of this thread. What? You're against mixing the races? People should stick exclusively with members of their own ethnic background?

Sometimes you just can't pick who you're attracted to. Deal with it.

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i think you have interpreted the entire thread completely wrong.

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oh, well you quoted ilsung's post and i don't think he was advocating that view, he's in concurrence with you exactly i believe. You acted disgusted at his post, and i think you got it all wrong cause he's agreeing with you.

haha, yeah, kpac is kind of the only one who thinks that in the entire thread i think.

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oh, well you quoted ilsung's post and i don't think he was advocating that view, he's in concurrence with you exactly i believe. You acted disgusted at his post, and i think you got it all wrong cause he's agreeing with you.

haha, yeah, kpac is kind of the only one who thinks that in the entire thread i think.

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