Jusunlee.com Forums - virgin? non-virgin?

Bored? Come in and play at Jusunlee.com Arcade!

Go chat in Jusunlee.com Chatroom (requires AIM)

Jusunlee.com Forums > Relationships > Love and Dating > virgin? non-virgin?

Pages (6): « First ... « 3 4 [5] 6 »

Last Thread Next Thread

Author

Thread

LiL_HyeSung
AnNa [s2] Hi3n

Registered: May 2002
Location: In Hien's Armz
Posts: 158
Status: Offline

ok then..well said..
i'm going for a cry..

member bashing..........
>.<
i have feelings too...
esp when u guys call me a "slut and Whore"
omg.....
its my first time......gosh and u guys talk as if i've fucked every guy on my street
and dont say i will ... coz i wont

__________________

Last edited by LiL_HyeSung on 09-21-2002 at 03:03 PM

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-21-2002 02:54 PM

Click here to Send LiL_HyeSung a Private Message

saranghae
Moderator

Registered: May 2002
Location: cali
Posts: 4994
Status: Offline

we didn't mean to bash u... but we juss wanted to let u knoe sex at 13 isn't good... i knoe its your life and everything... but think about it... is that wut u really want? we juss hope the best for u.

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-21-2002 09:09 PM

Click here to Send saranghae a Private Message

psyTeK ver. 2.0
face the facts kid.

Registered: May 2002
Location:
Posts: 238
Status: Offline

quote:
Originally posted by LiL_HyeSung
ok then..well said..
i'm going for a cry..

member bashing..........
>.<
i have feelings too...
esp when u guys call me a "slut and Whore"
omg.....
its my first time......gosh and u guys talk as if i've fucked every guy on my street
and dont say i will ... coz i wont

you have feelings too? well cry me a river... because i personally don't care. if you came here wanting support for the irrational decisions your making in life, then you definitely came to the wrong place. how can we possibly look upon you, a girl that's only 13 years old, and nod approvingly as you go off to mess around in things you weren't meant to get involved in at such a young age? you may think to yourself that this is only your first time, but believe me. everytime you do it from here on out, you will start to care less and less about the number of individuals you have had sexual relations with.

well whatever, let me just say one thing to you. I would NEVER marry a girl if i found out she WILLINGLY lost her virginity at such a young age. most respectable men wouldn't. i seriously think it's safe to say that respectable men go for girls that have enough common sense in them to avoid making bad decisions like this one.

__________________
�� Face The Facts ��

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-22-2002 01:20 AM

Click here to Send psyTeK ver. 2.0 a Private Message

UnisMuiMui
Fashion Police/Mod

Registered: Apr 2002
Location: CT 860
Posts: 2605
Status: Offline

psytek, could u please talk to my OLDER sister about this sex issue? please slap some sense into her. she's almost 19 but acts like a frikkin 14 year old. she's a frikkin slut.

but newayz....... wow... alot has been said... i wont repeat wat others said.

but as for lil_hyesung, LIVE AND LEARN. learn from the people who are older... take their advice. but if not, LIVE AND LEARN. if u make a mistake and regret it, i hope u learn from it. but dun mind us for saying "i told u so" if anything goes wrong.

__________________
www.unismuimui.tk

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-22-2002 05:01 AM

Click here to Send UnisMuiMui a Private Message

Ladi Jay
OG of JSL

Registered: Mar 2002
Location:
Posts: 4728
Status: Offline

quote:
Originally posted by LiL_HyeSung
ok then..well said..
i'm going for a cry..

member bashing..........
>.<
i have feelings too...
esp when u guys call me a "slut and Whore"
omg.....
its my first time......gosh and u guys talk as if i've fucked every guy on my street
and dont say i will ... coz i wont

bah... don't listen to people who obviously don't know you tell you that you're a slut or whore... juss take what the say into consideration... I found some of their posts to be extremely rude and mean too... don't worry lil hyesung... juss take their advice... save your virginity until you get older... blah blah blah (I don't wanna repeat what they said)

psytek... if you don't mind... quit being so fucking mean. You're such a sadist. She's a little girl who needs to know the truth, and I agree with what you said, buh damn, don't be so harsh.

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-23-2002 12:37 PM

Click here to Send Ladi Jay a Private Message

merc
Moderator

Registered: Sep 2002
Location: .:New YorK:.
Posts: 455
Status: Offline

alright, im going to try not to be too caustic.
First off, if your going to post such a controversial topic, expect some bashing.
People will give you advice, and others will bash.
whoever called you a "slut and whore"...you know that's not right and they are just being rude. This is not 1st grade, ignore them.
So if you came here for advice, ignore the rude comments, the bashing, take what you came for.

My advice...?
i honestly think you should wait.
it may seem right to you now, but people change, your mindset will change if you wait.

gl.

__________________
"Truth transcends fact."

"Truth is not determined by how many people believe it."

"All the darkness in the world can not extinguish the light of a single candle."

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-23-2002 03:58 PM

Click here to Send merc a Private Message

WhiteLee
"Oh we totally have to."

Registered: Mar 2002
Location: sitting...in a room.
Posts: 963
Status: Offline

wow. didn't know all this was goin' on. sorry mods!
anyway, here's my opinion, be it wrong, late, or unread:
No one knows when they're truly ready. Even if you think you are, you most likely are not.
All that stuff of ppl calling you a "slut" and a "whore" would/will happen. WE are not calling you that. we're saying that ppl (friends, peers, whatever) probably would.
Sex at a young age is disgusting in my opinion. it's like child porn.
You've just been declared a teen and now you go and lose your viriginity? hmmm...where's the maturity and reasoning?
anyway, all this stuff has been said multiple times. Just addin' to the pile.
Personally, I'm waiting. Unwanted pregnancy, STDs, shame, I don't want it.
People always forget what comes along with sex. Not just an orgasm. possibly other things too, more than just phyiscal. Emotional pain, a false sense of pride, the brand of "slut" across your forehead, and the thought that you won't have anything to actually celebrate on your honeymoon.
It's not worth a little chemical reaction in the long run.

Anyway, I agree with what the others said.
I know you're gone, but what the hell!

__________________

"Before and After" Ayumi Hamasaki

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-23-2002 07:59 PM

Click here to Send WhiteLee a Private Message

KoreanDevil
Member

Registered: Sep 2002
Location: Korea
Posts: 39
Status: Offline

.....wow 9.. thats kind of early??....

did you even know what to do??

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 12:40 AM

Click here to Send KoreanDevil a Private Message

Crazydeb8ter
administrator

Registered: Apr 2002
Location: CA
Posts: 5465
Status: Offline

quote:
Originally posted by Ladi Jay
psytek... You're such a sadist. .

sadism means you get sexual pleasure from cruelty...i doubt he gets sexual pleasure from this

__________________
ni pour ni contre; �a m'est �gal

"The weight of this sad time we must obey,/ Speak what we feel, not what we ought to say./ The oldest hath borne most; we that are young/ Shall never see so much, nor live so long."
King Lear (V.3.300-304)

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 01:28 AM

Click here to Send Crazydeb8ter a Private Message

seung ju
Senior Member

Registered: Apr 2002
Location: texas
Posts: 1289
Status: Offline

quote:
Originally posted by Crazydeb8ter

sadism means you get sexual pleasure from cruelty...i doubt he gets sexual pleasure from this

eh, you never know, japs like to watch ppl eat shit.

__________________

thanx huby40

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 01:37 AM

Click here to Send seung ju a Private Message

Chinezaznboi
sigh...

Registered: Jul 2002
Location: Seattle
Posts: 269
Status: Offline

o....

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 01:54 AM

Click here to Send Chinezaznboi a Private Message

TyGer STyLe
no longer a couch jockey

Registered: Aug 2002
Location: Cerritos CA
Posts: 1225
Status: Offline

oh geebus... is this damn thread still going on??? dang... i think this subject needs to be dropped... me thinks its been over anylized

__________________
Enter My Head!

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 03:33 AM

Click here to Send TyGer STyLe a Private Message

KoreanDevil
Member

Registered: Sep 2002
Location: Korea
Posts: 39
Status: Offline

HAHAHA...i soooooo agree with that.....

so many people are now repeating the same thing

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 03:55 AM

Ladi Jay
OG of JSL

Registered: Mar 2002
Location:
Posts: 4728
Status: Offline

quote:
Originally posted by Crazydeb8ter

sadism means you get sexual pleasure from cruelty...i doubt he gets sexual pleasure from this

no vic.. it does not mean you get sexual pleasure... it means that you get pleasure from mistreating others... like, you enjoy mistreating others...doi!

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 04:04 AM

Crazydeb8ter
administrator

Registered: Apr 2002
Location: CA
Posts: 5465
Status: Offline

ah but if you understand the roots of the word you would realize that it has the sexual connotation.

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 04:11 AM

Ladi Jay
OG of JSL

Registered: Mar 2002
Location:
Posts: 4728
Status: Offline

quote:
Originally posted by Crazydeb8ter
ah but if you understand the roots of the word you would realize that it has the sexual connotation.

does it matter that much??? blah... my definition of sadist is those who get pleasure by mistreating others... not sexual pleasure

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 04:22 AM

Crazydeb8ter
administrator

Registered: Apr 2002
Location: CA
Posts: 5465
Status: Offline

quote:
Originally posted by Ladi Jay
does it matter that much???

It really does. A hint in one direction could change the whole meaning of the phrase or sentence it is contained in, that is why I was puzzled at your choice of words.
The roots of Sadism come from the person and the works of the Marquis de Sade. He was reknown for holding orgies, and capturing women, then torturing and flogging them, experimenting with different tortures, and finally killing them. He believed that this wasthe only method of deriving sexual pleasure.

His works, of which there are several, reflect his disgusting preferences. You can probably find them in a bookstore or maybe a library, but usually it would probably not be permitted, due to its heavy adult/horror nature. :huh:

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 04:30 AM

Ladi Jay
OG of JSL

Registered: Mar 2002
Location:
Posts: 4728
Status: Offline

well well, I learned something new tonight! thanks for the history lesson vic! seriously, I'm gonna go to my english teacher and tell her!

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 04:36 AM

Crazydeb8ter
administrator

Registered: Apr 2002
Location: CA
Posts: 5465
Status: Offline

quote:
Originally posted by Ladi Jay
thanks vic! seriously, I'm gonna go to my english teacher and tell her!

no need to thank me

we are all here to educate each other

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 04:39 AM

psyTeK ver. 2.0
face the facts kid.

Registered: May 2002
Location:
Posts: 238
Status: Offline

quote:
Originally posted by Ladi Jay

psytek... if you don't mind... quit being so fucking mean. You're such a sadist. She's a little girl who needs to know the truth, and I agree with what you said, buh damn, don't be so harsh.

don't even begin to start saying crap like that to me. i know perfectly well what kind of tone accompanies my suggestions and criticism towards the people i direct them to. it's different for every person, and i strongly felt this girl in particular needed a harsh dose of reality. are you gonna tell me other wise? well let's see.
i COULD have just said, "hey kiddo, i really think its not a good idea to have sex at such a young age... just think about it a little, ok?... because it's just a bad thing to do!".
i'm pretty sure that's NOT what she needs, however. she needs to face the facts, and face it in a harsh way, because the situation we see her in is so grave and dangerous. if she keeps constantly making bad decisions like this, there WON'T be people there in real life to comfort her and talk sweetly to her like there are on these forums. i feel my reply demonstrates the nature in which she's going to be criticized and bashed on if she doesn't get her act together, and that's why i attached such a harsh tone in the message i hoped to get across to her.

and one last thing, "lady jay". you better not ever give me crap again about me being some kind of sadist who doesn't have anything better to do than to be "mean" to people. i've told you before why i say the things i do, so i WON'T repeat myself again for you. you should have noticed how i've gotten off your case completely after i said what i needed to say to you in that one thread of yours, and you know i haven't mentioned you once or even quoted a single thing you've said since then. i don't want to concern myself with you any longer because i offered you my criticism and you didn't accept it. FINE, i can live with that. but i will NOT tolerate your replies about me this long after that whole incident took place when im sure most of us know there are no motives behind them except to simply TRY (key word TRY) to make me look bad because you still have beef with me. next time, PM me your pointless attempts to disparage me instead of bringing them into the middle of such important topics like this one.

__________________
�� Face The Facts ��

Report this post to a moderator | IP: Logged

09-24-2002 10:20 PM

All times are GMT. The time now is 04:36 AM.

Pages (6): « First ... « 3 4 [5] 6 »

Last Thread Next Thread

Show Printable Version

Email this Page

Subscribe to this Thread

Forum Rules:

You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

HTML code is OFF
vB code is ON
Smilies are ON
[IMG] code is ON