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Re: Re: Re: >>Getting macked on<<
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Originally posted by RaCeR_LaDi_MoOn
do you have a problem or something??? you are certainly pissing me off...
yes, i do. it is in my honest opinion to say your totally full of yourself and you absolutely do NOT deserve to find any of the love you continuously and immaturely rant on about in this forum.
before i get bashed on for "hating" on you for "no apparent reason", i'm gonna try to justify myself. i've been reading every single one of your replies which u have posted in this forum from start to end, and i have found something completely despicable about nearly every single one. i'm not an ass to you "just because" , but i am because you deserve to FACE THE FACTS, constantly.
this is what i personally believe is wrong with you based on everything youve said.
This is your post: Just wondering... who wants their "one" right now? Who's sick and tired of waiting? LOL... just wondering...
reply in post: but those fish... they don't seem to satisfy me... I want my "one" right now... so at least I know it's true... I wanna do everything with my "one"... I just wanna know so I can feel what it really feels like... LOVE... I want him now... I'm so eager to know who it is...*sighs*
reply in post (after seung ju wisely states young ones shouldn't worry about love so much): Heh seung ju... we know... we are just curious... kids are curious about things like this... especially those of us who are just starting to go through this relationship stuff... hehe
analysis: ok. your ONLY 15. yet you try to declare to the world your ready for your 'true one', but the facts are you don't have enough experience to even contemplate how love works. experience can be gained at an early age i'll admit, but for the most part it comes with time, time which u haven't gone through so much as you think you have. your reply shows how your clearly impatient to know how love feels, but that just translate for the most part you whining for the red popsicle. why can't you be patient like everyone else? why can't you take your time and learn how to love first before wanting love to happen to you? and in your second reply, you said it yourself. your a kid, just starting to go through this relationship stuff. what gives u the right to long for something you cannot handle?
in the post about unrequited love:
so I'm guessing that requited love means that you love someone buh they don't love you back???
If it's that... hmm... I've had plenty... about two... well, I'm sure not love buh something similar to that...
analysis: first of all, two does not equal plenty, just thought i would point that out. and you also go out to say its not love but "something similar to that". theres nothing similar to love, girl. sex, crushes, infatuation, simply 'liking', they are all branches of love but none come too close to embodying the full essence of love. and next, ask yourself WHY u so-called "loved" someone but they didnt "love" you back. please, do ask yourself that.
Ever hate someone so much but like that same person so much??? I've felt that way...
Tell your ironic relationships...
analysis: like my reply, you think there's something existant in this world called a "love/hate" relationship. yes that can easily happen with friends, but when it comes to relationships, that kind of stuff only happens in the movies. would u use "love/hate" to justify a wife-beating husband? i think not.
this poll topic was about which one is worse, lonliness or losing a loved one. her reply: I didn't vote because I don't understand the question... Butta, loneliness??? I think that those who have never loved before, wish they knew what it was like... I hear that it's like no other feeling in the world, and I wanna feel that... I know it's not gonna happen soon though... And those who have had lost love... err... probably hurts like ever before... iono... like I said, I've never felt love before so I wouldn't know...
analysis: i'll give you credit for not voting, because u cant really vote until youve experienced both feelings and weighed how much each one emotionally hurt you. voting upon assumption isnt too wise. but why i found your reply distasteful: u again bring up your longing to know what love feels like. again, it shows your impatient. your not READY for love but u constantly talk about wanting it. u say how u "heard" it was like no other feeling in the world, so u want it. you come off as a person who comes across a piece of merchandise and you long for it because the commercials say its like nothing youve seen or used before. love isn't material, u shouldnt want it because the media says its good.
*sigh* why do people care so much about long distance??? I know what it's like to not have someone to hold, kiss, be by your side, etc... but why does it have to matter so much??? Shouldn't it work out if the two really feel like they can make it? I'm sure that if the two are really commited, they can make it...
*sigh*this thread makes me... *sigh*
love feelings sicken me... why does it have to be this way?
her reply when i told her she shouldn't mistake her ridiculous "internet forum love" with real long distance love: again... I don't think you know your facts...
I promised that I wouldn't post in here again... buh I just had to... what he says is just wrong...
dude, you don't know your facts at all... believe me when I say that I NEVER thought or considered an online relationship... I thought it was kinda weird too... buh when it happens, there's no way you can stop it... again, you don't know unless you've been through it... so don't be so harsh when you don't even know...[i]
analysis: ok I don't know *my* facts? im smart enough, believe it or not, to point out your blatant connection to your own problems (which you always seem to do... always relating everything back to you, since its all about you you you). you got mad because i said u shouldnt compare your internet crap to the actual long distance relationship. am i really wrong to say that? u say you never thought or considered an online relationship, but when it happened it was unavoidable. thats bs, for the most part. u seeked cheap "love". the easiest possible love, which is little text flashing on your screen which resembles compliments, love poems, flirtatious AIM messages, etc. you posted about this in a intelligent topic discussing a REAL LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. your thing has NOTHING to do with that. and you say i don't know unless i've been through it? why would i WANT to go through an online relationship to fulfill cheap love?
[i]what I meant is... he's 18... like... legal age... iono, buh it seems just like yesterday he looked like a lil' kid... (the pic anyways)... I mean, think about it... Vic, you and I are 15... in three more years, we'll be 18... That's like... old... iono how to explain... iono, I guess I said that because Jusun looks like a kid to me... not 18
analysis: this is just a LOVELY reminder to all shes only 15 years old.
hmm... iono about being played... buh I've fallen for guys sooo easily about... three times... haha... and I thought I'd learn...
i replied with saying: once is a mistake, twice is foolishness.
she replied to my response by saying: You've never felt it before have you??? because if you did, you'd know how easy it is to fall again... you believe it's so real... you don't suspect things like that... so obviously, you have not really felt that special feeling for someone...
analysis: ok, ok. ive never felt it?!?! felt WHAT. please dont say its the "love" you yourself have never felt before. but oh of course, mah bad if you were talking about "warm and fuzzy non-love feelings". and i dont know how easy it is to fall again? NO. you dont know how GULLIBLE you are to fall for it again and again. ive never really felt that special feeling for someone... right. lemme just say i have and do, but that doesn't blind my COMMON SENSE. your such easy prey, its shameful.
[i]Hmm, I think that maybe you waited a little too long... buh iono... if I really really liked this guy, I'd kiss him a week after we started dating... Buh it's good that you waited... buh three months Mebbe just me buh that's a teeny weeny itzy bitzy too long... heh[i]
analysis: who are YOU OF ALL PEOPLE, to tell someone else they waited TOO LONG in a relationship to do ANYTHING? who are YOU OF ALL PEOPLE to say to someone three months is a "teeny weeny itzy bitzy too long"? love is patient, but obviously YOUR NOT. you'd kiss a guy within a week after u started dating if u really really liked him? well other people would say otherwise because they are sensible enough to know not to dive in head first unless they are sure the relationship is solid. your so immature to think just because u "really really like him" u are ready to fast forward the relationship however fast u feel is necessary.
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I was so like... *Ugh and Err*
08-04-2002 03:02 AM
still creeps me out. 
