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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0


ok NO OFFENSE. but your situation involves someone who you met through some kind of internet forum. the only credible situations involving long distance i can think of are those where the two people physically and personally know each other before or during the time where they have become seperated. face the facts, long distance doesn't even begin to apply to you.

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what's your point??? what I posted in here has nothing to do with my relationships... so, shush you...

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all i got to say..to the people who don't think long distance works....i mean if two people want it bad enough..wtf..i don't understand..maybe im not very intelligent like some of yall..but if two people want it bad enough..they can do it, all it takes is trust..and how much they love each other..yea.. sure its not a easy thing for a person who isn't dedicated in the relationship and to someone who really don't give a flying fuck..but to someone who really cares and wants to really make it work out..its easy..trust me i know...there's gotta be communication though, and both needs to do their part to work out such a relationship..if you can't make a long distance work out with someone who you truly love..i say that's retarded..if you want it bad enough..it can work out, if you dont want that person..then don't be committed in it, and dont even try to work out a long distance relationship

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eh... unless you're REALLY committed, it wont really work out

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Originally posted by junjinluber33
eh... unless you're REALLY committed, it wont really work out

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Originally posted by neXt
its not so much the fact that they may cheat that gets to me... its the fact that i cant hold her hands or have her close.. or just be there for her

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long distance sucks major hairy moose stick
it keeps people who luv each other far apart and many times causes alot of problems for a relationship.
its not a damn small world after all :sad:

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I leaned in my psychology class... that one of the main essential thing in a relationship to make it work is accessibility... if you arent accessible to your partner then it usually wont work.. sure you got phones and the internet, but that isnt the same as being there in flesh... at first your commitment in a long distance relationship will be strong... but then time will make it fade away... and then comes insecurity... and then it just gets worse n worse..

just save your time and emotions....

its not worth it... im speaking from experience

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I leaned in my psychology class... that one of the main essential thing in a relationship to make it work is accessibility... if you arent accessible to your partner then it usually wont work.. sure you got phones and the internet, but that isnt the same as being there in flesh... at first your commitment in a long distance relationship will be strong... but then time will make it fade away... and then comes insecurity... and then it just gets worse n worse..

just save your time and emotions....

its not worth it... im speaking from experience

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so are you talking from experience or out of your ass

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Originally posted by KeN VeRsUs RyU
so are you talking from experience or out of your ass

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tengoku explained it pretty well.. except the.. "don't waste your time" ..... i guess for a lot of ppl it doesn't work out... but why give up something great without giving it a shot?.. that is if you thought it was worth it from the beginning... if you had doubts from the beginning that's where i'd say "don't waste your time"

uhm.... i don't know if this applies but uh.. lol

"If you once believed in the truth, and now you are beginning to doubt the truth, you didn't believe the truth in the first place. What could make you doubt the truth other than your own weak self?"

eh so sue me... i'm reading Malcolm X right now and haha... so i guess if you love someone and then doubt a long distance relationship...maybe you didn't really love them in the first place? (lol i'm trying to APPLY stuff here.. lol.... stupid questions.. why couldn't my teacher just let me read the damn long book in peace
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you wanna know about long distance relationship? i'll tell you. i WAS in a long distance relationship.

im here in CA while my bf well..ex counting from yesterday..lives in NY. we had gone out for more than one year and 1/2 and becuz of the distance apart he couldnt take the stress. this kind of relationship in my opinion isnt only about trust and all that other stuff its based on how much you can take. If you love someone you have to think if the person is worth your pain. also you have to think how much you can take of NOT being able to be wit the person you are wit, ALL the time. It hurts alot to not be wit the person you love and in my opinion trust in this kind of relationship is NOTHING compared to the pain you have to tolerate to kEEP the relationship.


Okay you know wat? i dont make sense. and to Tengoku not ALL long distance relationships end up like how you described it. If you think so, consider me as an exception.

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iuno i guess long distance can wurk
but i would want to have a grl i can hug or kiss or take out n stuff rather than waiting until she visit me or i have the time to visit her and through out d time talk only on d phone it isn't d same as having sumone close to u

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long distance can wreak havoc in a relationship... but hey... if that person's your one and only i have no doubt even the longest distances will make a difference... i mean... thats wat a serious relationship is all about? making it through the toughest of obstacles together

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like i said..dedication and commitment has to be on both sides..love is a 2 way thing...if only one person wants it and the other don't.no use in trying

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like i said..dedication and commitment has to be on both sides..love is a 2 way thing...if only one person wants it and the other don't.no use in trying

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no one can say it better then the way nojeel put it

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hmM i dunnO..if ur really commmited and really love each otha..then it will prollie werk..buht it depends on what kinda situation ur in~ but it'll be madd hard cuz u cant be close to the one u love yaknOz..><

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