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angel-girl
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Unhappy hlep me

I am 14 years old and i like this guy and my mom said that i could have a boyfriend if i asked so i asked because this guy i like asked me out and my mom said that i can not go out with him do i go out with him behind my moms bake or tell i cant go out with him? help me i dont know what to do

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niggoreanboi
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Re: hlep me

do what you feel you think it's righ tmany people do it behind thier parents back

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Re: Re: hlep me

quote:
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do what you feel you think it's righ tmany people do it behind thier parents back


"do it behind their parents back".....lol that sounds funny.

I don't think you should lie to your mom.

If I were in your situation (which I'm not and I know nothing else BUT if I were in your situation) I would tell my mom. If she got angry with me then that would be that.

I guess depending, I would just stay ... special friends... or break it off. By depending, I mean depending on the guy. I know a couple of guys that, if they asked me out, I'd probably go out with no matter what my mom said... But family is more important than a (you're 14...) probably fleeting relationship.

So there's my view on it but yea... alex is right: you should do what you feel like is the right thing. I don't know where your emotions lie but I don't like continually making my mom upset or worried.

There's no harm in trying to reason with her first but yea... guys come and go... you won't always have your mom around (as depressing as that is probably for you and especially for me and maybe even most everyone else)

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niggoreanboi
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yup a wise man once said
boyfriends and girlfriends are a waste of time, you should concintrate on school work then when you get to college or get a profession the guys will be rollin for you

this wise man's name is sang cheon LOL

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quote:
Originally posted by niggoreanboi
yup a wise man once said
boyfriends and girlfriends are a waste of time, you should concintrate on school work then when you get to college or get a profession the guys will be rollin for you

this wise man's name is sang cheon LOL



ah.. the oh so wise sang cheon. the 4th wiseman in bethlahem. the original morpheus. the hungry hungry hippo. the galbi slayer.

yeah you're only 14. concentrate on school.. or ddr... or whatever else there is to do when you're 14.

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i donno. depends on wut the consequences are when your mom finds out, and if this boy is worth those consequences.

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doop
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life is about risk so take it !!

but then again if ur mom finds out

is she ganna like beat you up or something ??

( not literally )

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school first then boyfriend.

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hnefrdo
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quote:
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school first then boyfriend.


lol. the elderly like to say this, knowing it's impossible.

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quote:
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school first then boyfriend.


this is, also, how yu kno if you're getting old. if yu begin to tell the "younger generation" what your parents told you. lol. marv is old.

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yes..go to scool first, obviously you do not know hot to use proper punctuation.

and plus, you're 14. youre not going to die alone at your age. get over it.

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i never had bf's when i was 14, didnt need one..their SO pointless when your that young, i swear..cuz like 99.9% of the time..you will break up very soon and wont ever end up with them in the long run. if you have feelings for him, then be his friend...and when your both mature enough to date..say 16..then go out..you have a better chance of being together for a long time

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go to school and concentrate on it.
like using punctuation for once.

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quote:
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go to school and concentrate on it.
like using punctuation for once.



hey hey hey! punch you in the face LOL

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how about just hanging adding this boy to your group of friends? you shouldn't be dating one-on-one at 14. causes too much pain, emotion, distress, and distraction. but there's no reason that you, he and 6 of your other friends can't see a movie together.

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ok..i think you should get to know this guy really well. If you already do then i say go for it. Just make sure that you don't do anything you will regret in the long run.

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quote:
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i never had bf's when i was 14, didnt need one..their SO pointless when your that young, i swear..cuz like 99.9% of the time..you will break up very soon and wont ever end up with them in the long run. if you have feelings for him, then be his friend...and when your both mature enough to date..say 16..then go out..you have a better chance of being together for a long time

14..16. not much difference. i don't think the average person can mature so much in just 2 years.

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quote:
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14..16. not much difference. i don't think the average person can mature so much in just 2 years.


oh you'd be surprised. The difference of 2 years isn't the main isn't here.. it's the EXPERIENCES that come in those two years.

I used to think that the difference between a freshman and a junior weren't really.. there. Well they are. The things that "society" (term used loosely) forces you to learn and go throw in those brief 2 years can change a person drastically.

Plus is called... puberty eh? It happens so quickly.

PS. Off subject sort of but helps to prove that ...There is a difference for 2 years.... especially if a girl is 17 and a guy is 19. That's rape mang.

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quote:
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14..16. not much difference. i don't think the average person can mature so much in just 2 years.


puberty xP

mmm i say don't worry about boys now, i dated when i was 14, it was pretty useless, there was no point to ur relationship... it was just like having a friend but u guys just chill out more together cuz ur "going out", then it comes 2 a blreak up and u'll probably cry for no reason. I dating a girl who went behind her mom's bak but she found out and yeah... wait awhile... no need 2 rush in

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quote:
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14..16. not much difference. i don't think the average person can mature so much in just 2 years.

theres a difference..and yeah puberty was one, especially for guyd cuz they mature later, she wouldnt have much luck wit him, and i was a lot more different when i was 14 than now, A LOT like crazy, lol

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