i'm gonna tell you guys something really personal so here it goes...
my dad was never aorund much during my childhood, he's an importer/exporter so he was always off in other countries doing business and such, but when he got home he was always so angry and bossy to both myself and the rest of my family...i think of him as a lazy hard worker, he works hard for his company, but i'm not sure how much likes to work for the family.. he would always scold my mother for going out to help my sister and I yelling at her and saying "You like to just go out and have fun right?" my Mother being the person she is never spoke back very much and just lived a solemn life. I started penting up anger against my Dad, as alot of you know, physical punishment comes alot with a Korean dad, and my Dad wasn't too physical, but when he got REALLY mad he would get very violent with me...it wasn't until i turned 17 that I really grew balls and talked back and fought back, some of you may say "respect elders" but I knew that it wasn't right when I got hit or punched for something as little as tell him to "Go do it yourself"....I fought with my Dad, i actually threw a punch and just defended myself when he came at me...I don't know if what I did was the right thing even now, My Dad and I will never have a close relationship because I have lost alot of respect from him...a person who hits or even touches his child in a way that is WITHOUT love is wrong...because Love DOESN'T HURT physcially...it never should and there is no justification to this...I look back and never want to be like my Dad and I know that sometimes I show the same temper he has, but I try to better myself everyday...
Today my Dad is still the same angry person that needs to grow up, I'm still learning about life and growing up too, but I don't think anyone deserves to be beat for anything. Life's experiences and mess-ups should not come with the consequences of a stick for things that require that usually already comes with some punishment.... So think about what you do and I regret at times for fighting back, but most of the time, I think what I did was right, cuz it was hurting me to be oppressed in that fashion.
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and i thought the cop was a prostitute...
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