I was just wondering... Many people have told me that it hurts the first time that you have sex.... Is that really true? I mean, just out of curiosity... Not to make anyone sick or sound nasty or anything... I told my friend that I wanna wait until I get married and my hubby and I go on our Honeymoon... But she was like, Umm, you want your honeymoon to be fun... I don't think you are going to want to be hurting the whole time on your vacation!!! :huh:

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i dun think it hurts the first time.
i think it jus depends on the gurl.. how she feels that is.
if she's into it, she'll have her natural juices that'll help lubricate stuff.
but if she's like nervous and all, it would kinda hurt havin that skin constantly rub against your skin.

at least that's what i think and heard..

o.. and other thing. is it called a hymen?
somethin like that..
it's supposed to cover your openins o somethin.
and for some gurls, it'll naturally rip, like when they do exercises o somethin o say like stickin somethin up there..
and bleed a lil.
i dun kno if it hurts tho..

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damn..i really wanna try..
lol

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Why do people rush into these kind of things ? -.-
I don't see it as something that you do just for the sake of experience, etc... that's just my person. view though.

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hmm what a weird topic.. try a banana instead.. d=D

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yes hun, it hurts....and it will hurt the first few times too, don't rush things though, I dont' know how old you are, but.....I find it very honorable that you want to wait until you're married...as for your friend saying you don't want to be hurting your whole honeymoon, she's half right....because well, everyones different, it maybe just be hurtful the first few times you have sex, but then comes the fun afterwards :D And i'm sure when you get married your husband will be gentle and care about if he is hurting you or not, its a great experiance, but DON'T RUSH INTO THINGS YOU'RE NOT READY FOR.

Some girls as young as 14 loose their hymen horse back riding or bike riding or gymnastics or....whatever, usually by the time you're 18 you don't have a hymen anymore, but that doesn't mean you wont bleed, becuse if a girl is tight, she may rip and that is even more painful than breaking a hymen, which really doesn't hurt.

For the first timers, its a good idea to use some type of lubricant, because most girls that are about to loose their virginity are very nervous, therefore are tighter so a bit of help won't "hurt" haha, get it? i'm such a cheese, hehe

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mmmMM cheese

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if da guys gotta big weiner than yes it would hurt..if da guys gotta small weinie it wont hurt

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lol hymen horse..who made that word up...

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yeah, my girlfriend, she got banged first time and she kept saying it hurt so much....
probably cause she was nervous...and she was 20 yr old...pretty amazing!

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c.. u gotta big dick...or she's a virgin at da age of 20...

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i hav no idea since i'm a guy but i respect that u r goin 2 wait until ur married. lately girls r just goin 4 guys just 4 that...(maybe its just in my town) but anyways thats a good decision.

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Originally posted by bigChubuff
if da guys gotta big weiner than yes it would hurt..if da guys gotta small weinie it wont hurt

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Well... My 1st time didnt hurt that much... cause the guy didnt know what the hell he was doing..... :P But 2nd time when the guy knew what he was doing that hurt slightly. But it's nothing too bad.. for me.. HHahhaa but I did have a friend, her 1st time she couldnt even walk straight

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Originally posted by PornStar
Well... My 1st time didnt hurt that much... cause the guy didnt know what the hell he was doing..... :P But 2nd time when the guy knew what he was doing that hurt slightly. But it's nothing too bad.. for me.. HHahhaa but I did have a friend, her 1st time she couldnt even walk straight

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LOL

she musta looked funny trying to walk o.0

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Of course it hurts..gotta pop that cherry you know..but it not TOO PAINFUL! so dont worry about it~ feel like a pinch

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It's different from girl to girl. Most time it doesn't hurt. All my friends told me that they felt something but it didn't hurt. Then my first time came and....ouch..... I needed 10 attempts for the first time.....it hurted too much. I'm not painful but this...... it was hell. After first time was done I was glad that it was done. but next time it hurted again and next time and next... it hurted till the 10th time...ouch ouch ouch..... And sometimes it was blooding.
But don't fear.... I'm always different to others....
Like I just said - for most girls it doesn't hurt!

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well imagine sticking a carrot up ur cunt! of course it's gonna hurt! but isn't that part of the fun? hell if i didn't feel nething i'd be bored as hell i won't fear tho, cuz i noe danny's got a big dick but if it hurts wen u put in condoms, then it'll prolly hurt the first few times...but of course a guy's dick is better than a condom (at least hopefully!!)

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btw i plan to abstain till i marry too

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