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AzNmAgE
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When making conversation...

when makin serious convo with a person, where do u look at? personally i hate looking into people's eyes cuz its wierd, i dont know why, it just is for me...

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same here but if its something that makes me feel sad sometimes i look down at my shoes xP

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HAHAH i have that problem!.. i seriously dont know where to too.. cuz if i look at their eyes,,, i dont want that person to think im staring,,, and if i dont then thats just rude

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eye contact
it's a form of respect and politeness in a conversation

than and you want the person to know you're talking to him/her and not to yourself.

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i look at my shoes too... then i look up pretend to think about it but really playing cs in my mind..

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looking into someone's eyes demonstrates confidence.

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the only people who i can look in the eyes while they talk or while i talk is my family and my bf..neone else i dont really like to or i guess i dont feel comftorble enough so i like gaze somewhere else lol

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when in convo, I always use eye contact.

sometimes, it's awkward, but it lets the other person know that you're engaged into what he/she is talking about and it shows interest.

it use to be a bad habit of mine to look away or look at my feet, but I had to get over it so I worked on it!

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hmmmmm quite interesting. I'm trying to get over the fact that i have a hard time looking at people in the eye when i make conversation with them. Granted that its easier to look people in the eye when i am friends with them, but i'm getting to that level when i talk with teachers or other adults. And speaking of adults, ITS SO FRIGGIN HARD TO TALK TO ONE! haha, in the sense that you can't really use your "school lingo" to talk with them because they'll b like "what the heck are you talking about...?" soooo i have to keep thinking about what i have to say....well for me anyway....

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hmmmmm quite interesting. I'm trying to get over the fact that i have a hard time looking at people in the eye when i make conversation with them. Granted that its easier to look people in the eye when i am friends with them, but i'm getting to that level when i talk with teachers or other adults. And speaking of adults, ITS SO FRIGGIN HARD TO TALK TO ONE! haha, in the sense that you can't really use your "school lingo" to talk with them because they'll b like "what the heck are you talking about...?" soooo i have to keep thinking about what i have to say....well for me anyway....


hahah i had that problem 2 where it was hard for me 2 stop using slang... eh i just watch wut i say now

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Ack. I have that problem too.. I try to do it, but it's sometimes annoying to have somebody starring you down. It bothers me, I don't know why either..

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Ack. I have that problem too.. I try to do it, but it's sometimes annoying to have somebody starring you down. It bothers me, I don't know why either..


This is the attitude you need: Fuck ‘em, you graduated from elementary school and don’t need to take shit from anyone.

Keep trying to look them straight in the eye when talking to them.

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