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twinkie
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Registered: Sep 2002
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Arrow my dadz an ass

i just need to take my anger out somehwere..so don't mind what i say.
my dadz a fuckin dick...once he startz to drink he can't control himself and can't fuckin stop. he then complainz to my mom about how hard he workz his ass while shez complaining about pains. i know he hatez his job but it izn't our fault that he got himself in this fuckin position. he should shut the fuck up and live life as itz taking him. he doezn't realize we each have our own problemz but he doezn't see us take it out on him. someday... hez so going to drive me insane..and i'm going to pull out a gun and shoot him.

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castle outsider
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dont shoot your dad

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KeN VeRsUs RyU
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Re: my dadz an ass

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Originally posted by twinkie
i just need to take my anger out somehwere..so don't mind what i say.
my dadz a fuckin dick...once he startz to drink he can't control himself and can't fuckin stop. he then complainz to my mom about how hard he workz his ass while shez complaining about pains. i know he hatez his job but it izn't our fault that he got himself in this fuckin position. he should shut the fuck up and live life as itz taking him. he doezn't realize we each have our own problemz but he doezn't see us take it out on him. someday... hez so going to drive me insane..and i'm going to pull out a gun and shoot him.



i kinda thought like that too when i was growin up ..
the fighting, the beatings, the drinking, the yelling, the many nights where my dad would not come home.

i grew up thinking that i was useless and rather than taking it out on him i'd just help everyone out by commitin suicide.. i thought about it a coupla times .. and i guess the only thing that prevented me was that there was always something to look fwd to on that occasion.

many years later i realize a lot of that anger my dad had came from stress and pressure in raising a family .. i guess my dad's parents beat, yelled, and fought with him too.. so i assumed all knowledge of parenting came from them..

after many years of stupid ass jobs i.e. taxi, selling generic perfumes to those shady stores in nyc, selling plants in da subway, working in a fish market, and other demeaning jobs.. its a wonder my dad hasn't had a heart attack or anything .. i look back at the way my parents provided for me and supported me in all the things i wanted to do and become.. they supoprt me in everyway now and lookin back i cry about the fact that living his life for his family can virtually kill a man.. which almost happened but thankfully didn't

i love ma dad.. we've become good friends.. and i'd be proud to be just like him one day..

minus all the beatings and yellings n stuff.. cuz thats kinda illegal n stuff.. d=)

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oh wow... great words of encouragement!! i really glad things worked out between u and ur dad. as for u twinkie, stay strong!! dun give up on ur dad. just dun give up!

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Crazydeb8ter
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good message sang. wholesome to the core :thumbup:

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Ladi Jay
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twinkie... no matter how hard it can be, you just have to give him a break. with your words, I know that he isn't the best dad sometimes buh NEVER EVER think about killing your dad... that's a no no! when I saw that, :omg: was my expression! I love my daddy so much, you wouldn't know how much... don't get me wrong, my daddy is a pain in my ass a lot too, buh I still love him for everything he's done for me. Not juss raising me up with food and a roof over my head, buh also other things too.

Like Sang said about how his dad having to go through all that stuff with jobs, and beatings from his parents and all, juss think about it... do you know if your dad wen through all that? well mebbe what happened to him makes him so stubborn and angry like now... mebbe he does what he does because of how he was raised by his parents...

blah, I'm gonna stop with the rambling here...

I guess all I'm saying is that respect your dad no matter how much he is a pain... he raised you and supported you in some way your whole life, and with him still here, I'm sure he'll support you as long as he lives...

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daNNy LuV 1TYM
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there's no such thing as a perfect father...of course he isn't an angel, but wut wud u do if u were in his shoes? maib drinkin is the onli way he can alleviate his pain and suffering....if he gets like that, just escape for a while (take a walk, watch a movie) and wen he's sober talk to himbout y he duz wut he duz....i dunno if thaz good adivce, but good advice i CAN giv wud be to not hate ur dad :sad:

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