What's the hardest thing you and your family have been thru?
If it's too personal to you, then ya don't have to say it. But for the ones who wish to, share all.

Here's mine:
I was around 8 when my mom almost died.
She had kidney/pancreas transplant because of her diabetes.
She had to have the surgery in another state and every weekend our family would go up and see her (long drive too).
the pancreas didn't work and she stayed in the hospital for months and months.
When she'd have to go back to the hospital, my heart would break every time.
it's still not easy to say this. let alone type it. but oh well. *tear

well, taht's about as detailed as i'll get.
if ya wanna share, share.

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way too much to say..my family's life has been hell..so has my own life..i can truly say that i've been through hell and back...and kinda still in the pits of hell...

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she was my fave grandma. i was one of her favorites too. when i was little, i lived in singapore and both my parents worked so my grandma (my mom's adoptive mother) took care of me. i remember how she use to hold my hand and take me to the morning market places and buy me my fave breakfast! we've had many, many special memories.....
but when i moved to america, i kinda lost in touch wit her. 3 years ago i had a chance to go on a tour to Europe. i always wanted to go. i also had a chance to go singapore wit my mom and my sisters to visit my grandma who diagnosed wit ear cancer. it was a tough decision, but i chose to go to Europe since my mom said we'll go to singapore again the next summer.
when we all came back from our trips, my mom told me how my grandma kept asking for me.... asking where i am and how come i didnt visit her.. and my mom also said my grandma kept talking about the past when i was little. my grandma kept repeating my name too.....
summer ended.... school started. fall and winter past. on Valentine's Day February 14th, my grandma died of cancer. i never got to say goodbye........

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i've been through alotta shiet with my parents... our relationship is like.. realie messed up.... and.... my life's messed up too.. buh ya know.. iSs SAll gOOd

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Originally posted by UnisMuiMui
she was my fave grandma. i was one of her favorites too. when i was little, i lived in singapore and both my parents worked so my grandma (my mom's adoptive mother) took care of me. i remember how she use to hold my hand and take me to the morning market places and buy me my fave breakfast! we've had many, many special memories.....
but when i moved to america, i kinda lost in touch wit her. 3 years ago i had a chance to go on a tour to Europe. i always wanted to go. i also had a chance to go singapore wit my mom and my sisters to visit my grandma who diagnosed wit ear cancer. it was a tough decision, but i chose to go to Europe since my mom said we'll go to singapore again the next summer.
when we all came back from our trips, my mom told me how my grandma kept asking for me.... asking where i am and how come i didnt visit her.. and my mom also said my grandma kept talking about the past when i was little. my grandma kept repeating my name too.....
summer ended.... school started. fall and winter past. on Valentine's Day February 14th, my grandma died of cancer. i never got to say goodbye........

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my uncle's health is very poor. his eye sight is so bad. the doctors say that if his health goes on like this, then his eyes will eventually fall out. he divorced his wife, and lives to support my grandmother and his daughter. if hes gone, and my grandmother gone, whos gonna help raise my cousin? the doctor bills are piling up on him, we send him money every month so help him pay for them, but what we send are pennies compared to the total cost. i remember when i was young, id always used to play with him. he was my role model, my favorite uncle. and to hear that his health is bad...its makes you wonder if there really is a God.

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well. technically, my parents are still married. but my mom n i just left the house. i remember that day my mom told me that we're never goin back to the house.

it was around noon and i left the house to meet my friend at the library. before i left, i saw my sister on the couch. she looked pretty sad, i couldn't even say 'bye' to her. i regret bein such a crappy sister to her.

but i met my friend at the library.. then we walked to another friend's house. my mom picked us up there. she took my friend home. then she told me that she just couldn't handle it anymore. n we've been livin outside the house from then on.

it's been almost 2 years since i saw my sister.. i don't want to think about it. because if i do, it just makes my heart break all over again.

there's not a day that goes by that i regret how i treated my sister. i lay awake at night thinking... what is she doing right now.. how is she... the curiousity just kills me. all i can do is pray that she'll be alright until the day i come for her.

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wen i wuz little mai parents used to hav veri violent fights...i remember bein round 5-6 and hudling wit mai lil sister crying and crying listening to our parents yell and scream and break things and slap and hurt each othr. there'd be broken things lying all over the place and blood on their shirts. this went on almost every weekend and mai sister and i were powerless to stop it. sumtymz mai uncle wud cum over to try to resolve things, but it never worked. he just got mad and he wud leave and the fighting wud continue.

well, we all started going to church and things became a lot better we're a happi family now...but then mai dad wuz diagnosed wit hepatitis B and there wuz a period of time wen he wuz very, very weak and he cudn't do nething...it wuz so scary seeing my strong, handsome daddy whom i luved so much lying in bed sleeping all the time and waching him grow thinner and thinner. he finalli had to go to the hospital and he stayed there for a week. it wuz a very, very scary time for all of us....

wen i wuz 7 i broke mai arm. it wuz pretti scary for me (duh) but i had no idea how mai parents and family took it until a few yrs later and they were talkin bout how mai mom and granma stayed up all nite wen i wuz at the hospital and prayed and prayed. they were crying and were so scared...i wuzn't even that scared :huh:

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Originally posted by daNNy LuV 1TYM
wen i wuz little mai parents used to hav veri violent fights...i remember bein round 5-6 and hudling wit mai lil sister crying and crying listening to our parents yell and scream and break things and slap and hurt each othr. there'd be broken things lying all over the place and blood on their shirts. this went on almost every weekend and mai sister and i were powerless to stop it. sumtymz mai uncle wud cum over to try to resolve things, but it never worked. he just got mad and he wud leave and the fighting wud continue.

well, we all started going to church and things became a lot better we're a happi family now...but then mai dad wuz diagnosed wit hepatitis B and there wuz a period of time wen he wuz very, very weak and he cudn't do nething...it wuz so scary seeing my strong, handsome daddy whom i luved so much lying in bed sleeping all the time and waching him grow thinner and thinner. he finalli had to go to the hospital and he stayed there for a week. it wuz a very, very scary time for all of us....

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i feel ya... i'm glad that things became a lot better.
things can only get better from here.. right?

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when i was in grade 3 my parenst almost divorce..... they argue everyday.... and one time my dad took the passport and left..... i thought he's never coming back.... my mom cried all the time..... and all i can do is cry with my stuffed animals..... and from that on my personality changed dramatically......
even tho now they're still married..... i only see my dad bout once every 3 months and for a week........ well..... and i dun really like my dad.......

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Mine was when my old gf, not the one im dating now was shot by a gang member by accident when she was 17 years old. Me and her went thru everything together...i have a picture of her in my wallet.

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Originally posted by PakChunhui1983
Mine was when my old gf, not the one im dating now was shot by a gang member by accident when she was 17 years old. Me and her went thru everything together...i have a picture of her in my wallet.

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Originally posted by Street RSX


oofz.. sorrie to hear mann.. ouch thas sum ruffness fer yoo... damnz.. that seriousli sukz... prollie went thru sum hardd tymz rite?? sorrie to hear bout..

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ahh...sorry bout wuh happened kevin...>.< hope u doin aiighZz...dat muss be really hard for u....nothing lyke datz ever happened to me..but Godz alwayz wid us...to help pull us throo times like these~ i feel so lucky to not have experienced something like that....the most hardest thing for me..im not sure...probably when mah grandpa wuhz siCk..i wuhz so worrieD..buh compared to all these otha storiezz....wow...

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thanks for the comfort. :satisfy:

Things with my current gf are not going well either...

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Originally posted by PakChunhui1983

While attending college the following year in the fall, i saw this korean girl, who will become my new gf, in my math class. She looks exactly like my old gf...and same personality. Maybe it was a sign from god or some shit. Its been 3 years since that incident. Im not going back to Ca in the future because of this.

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hehe npnp~ dont let the past bring u down....although it may be really hard to go on..everyone keep ur chinz up~ :]

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Damn, im sorry about what happened...that is too sad to comprehend :sad:

uh the girl you referenced above isn't your present gf eh?

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my dad died 2 years ago

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Originally posted by bigChubuff
my dad died 2 years ago

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