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annabanana
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Post Korean Table Manners

Table Manners
* Lifting a spoon or chopsticks before the elders do is not considered mannered.
Finishing meal before the elders do is not considered mannered, either.
* When pouring wine or any kind of beverage to the elders, use both hands to hold the wine bottle.
When your cup is poured by the elders, use both hands to hold the cup.
If you are drinking in front of elders, turn your torso a bit (20 degree) to the side and drink .

Before the meal, always tell your hostess, " Jal Muk Get Sup Ni Da."
-I will have a good meal- (Thank you for the meal.)
After the meal, "Jal Muk Ut Sup Ni Da."
-I had a good meal - (That was very good.)
Don't get confused with one from the other!!

Facts about Korean Meal
* In old times, having meals was the most important thing for a Korean.
In Korea, people still asks each other "Have you had lunch (or dinner)?" instead of "How are you?"
* Most of the Koreans love to eat hot and spicy food.
But, Korea started importing chilly peppers from 18 Century.
Imagine! Koreans eating white Kimchi (Baek Kimchi) everyday, instead of red Kimchi.
* Chinese and Japanese use only chopsticks when eating rice.
Somehow, Koreans use spoons.
When eating rice, lifting a rice bowl close to one's mouth is not considered mannered in Korea, while it is OK in China and in Japan.

credits to http://www.geocities.com/ypmljulia/table_manners.htm

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haha thats funnie... i didn't know half that stuff till i read it now... funnie how americanized koreans become... only thing i knew outa that list was the drinking ettiquet

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hm.. i do the *jarl muk get seub ni da// jarl muk uh seub nida* thing

but my parents, grandma dont mind if i eat first or finish first.

but my mom gtes really pist when i burp after i eat.
but i HAVE to burp in order for my food to digest and go down.
or else i'll have a full stomach, but when i burp it feels like i ate nothing at all..

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i must be really rude cuz i don't do any of that stuff. i kno i'm SUPPOSED to but... o well. whatevers. i don't even use jon dae mal to my mom.

ha. i do wait until other people start eatin tho.

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i dont use jon dae marl to my parents or my grandma either.
i use ban marl.
talk to them as if theyre my friend
theyre okay with it
cept when theyre pist(mad) i gotta use the formal respectful talk

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man... it's juss WEIRD if i use jon dae mal to my mom..
i juss talk to her like my friend~
n i don't even talk to my dad.. so whatevers.

same with my grandma.. i juss have to use "nae.." a couple times. the only time i use jon dae mal is when i talk to other adults.. like adults who scare me.

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hahaha my korean is so bad... so its like a mix of jon dae marl and formal... hahah but usually i can still bs my way through a conversation HAHA... even though i know wat they say... i can't form sentences very well :sad:

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wow.. thas so strict.. i dun do that... jahl muh guh sihp nih dah.... or shiet... ionna.. i feel weird...... guess i have bad manners

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i go by chinese mannerisms

spoon for rice? wut the... :huh: understandable if you have the rice on a plate or somethin but in a bowl? hmm..

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i dont eat at the table. haha and if i do i have my own ways of eating at the table

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Re: Korean Table Manners

quote:
Originally posted by annabanana
Table Manners
* Lifting a spoon or chopsticks before the elders do is not considered mannered.
Finishing meal before the elders do is not considered mannered, either.
* When pouring wine or any kind of beverage to the elders, use both hands to hold the wine bottle.
When your cup is poured by the elders, use both hands to hold the cup.
If you are drinking in front of elders, turn your torso a bit (20 degree) to the side and drink .

Before the meal, always tell your hostess, " Jal Muk Get Sup Ni Da."
-I will have a good meal- (Thank you for the meal.)
After the meal, "Jal Muk Ut Sup Ni Da."
-I had a good meal - (That was very good.)
Don't get confused with one from the other!!



yea i do all that... my uncle would hit my hands (like with a back scratcher on the back of my hand) if i didn't... and also when you are making food and ask an elder to come to the table you have to say "jin jih deu seh yo" ... like a special way to say "come eat" lol..

MANG.... i got so much "training" from my uncle... like i have to bow... LOW ... when you say "hi" to adults...and i ALWAYS... ALWAYS ALWAYS talk in jon den mahl to adults... NEVER EVER EVER do i speak ban dehn mahl..... that's another wack.. -_-.... a lot of krn parents here are like so amazed that i talk jon dehn mal to them..........

i don't think he made me do the drinking one.. but i see ppl doing it... only when they drinking soju or sumthing....

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quote:
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spoon for rice? wut the... :huh: understandable if you have the rice on a plate or somethin but in a bowl? hmm.. [/B]


haha... i use a spoon.

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quote:
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i go by chinese mannerisms

spoon for rice? wut the... :huh: understandable if you have the rice on a plate or somethin but in a bowl? hmm..


heck, chinese manners......i juss eat my food at home by the comp....spoon for rice....wutever u want, works fine too......i personally prefer a fork for rice, since we dont use rice bowls, juss plates....fork can be multipurpose

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