quote: Originally posted by jusunlee
i think its an act of self denial. nothing is like the first experience in everything, and subsequent efforts are usually done to reach the effects of that experience. maybe not so with girls, who usually bleed the first time and may not have the best of time, especially if the guy doesnt know what hes doing. but in anycase, abstaining until marriange after experiencing sex doenst quite make the person a virgin again. it would be the same as a girl experiening sex for the first time, then to undergo hymen reconstruction surgury, so that she may again appear as a virgin. some girls actually undergo that kind of surgery, in cultures like latin america where virginity is sacred. 'phony', as holden would say in the catcher in the rye.
once an eel finds a cave, the cave will never be the same, because the eel, while living there, will do things to make it home.
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moving to sex
I agree~
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