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ahh young grasshoppa, you have much to learn :D
my advice would be this;
Actually no.. before my advice I have a question. How confident in your personality/image are you?
Now that i've asked the question, I give you my advice;
First, start off by changing the way you talk.
[It's hard to be charming when you sound ..immature.]
Second, compliment when you shouldnt compliment, kiss ass, try to be as sweet and.. persistant? as possible. Oddly enough this works.
You would be suprised at how many complete strangers you can get to flirt back, with a well placed smile or comment.
and actually, here's some general knowledge.
PEOPLE LIKE TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES.
Remember that, it's important. And, if you can constantly make someone feel good about themself, they're more likely to want to keep you around.
Make sense? Thought so.
So next time you talk to her online or something,.. instead of saying "Hi" "Hello" "Hey" "Sup" the dreaded "Wassaaaaa" etc..
say, "Hey beautiful :)"
it's as easy as that. Now all of a sudden, you're flirting in a mild subtle way.
Now it's time to be creative. Dont ever use the same one the next time.
Try to rotate, shuffle.. and be creative.
"Hey Gorgeous" "How are you tonight sexy?" "Sup babe?" etc.
Compliments strengthen all relationships.
Now, this is where we wait. Continue to compliment her daily etc.. until she becomes so used to it, that she starts to flirt back.
You: "How are you tonight beautiful?"
Her: "I'm good, how about you sexy?"
It's a normal natural conversation between two close friends who joke around... or two people dating/seeing eachother.
Now you'll notice that some girls dont like to be told they're pretty. This is a ruse. I like to call it 'fishing for compliments'. Unfortunately there isnt anything to do in this situation, but continue playing.
Example;
Melissa: i'm very dissapointed in myself! don't laugh! >:o
Me: >_<
Me: aww
Me: I'm sorry cutie
Melissa: no cutie
Melissa: shush
Melissa: asdifja;sdfva;sda;sdjfa' xkcsflsl a'ck ]asp
Me: lol okay okay, no cutie..
Me: I'm sorry gorgeous :D
Melissa: ;AJ; SDJFLKDJG;JGSIJGLKSDJFIJD
Melissa: SHUSH
This conversation took place about two minutes ago. Melissa is infact a very cute girl.. and her anger is feigned. I bet she smiled.
Natural charm isnt something that can be taught. It has alot to do with self confidence, self esteem, and.. charisma.
This is how ugly kid's get in the "in-crowd".
If it werent for charm and charisma.. the in-crowd would be strictly beautiful and talented people.
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04-30-2002 08:05 PM
