is jealousy good in a relationship? afterall, it just shows that he/she really cares and wants their significant other... right?

just a thought.

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jealousy is a bitch. most times it is what makes most couples break up. a VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY SMALL ATOMIC AMOUNT OF IT might be healthy. but all it really is, is lack of trust.

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well yeah people say its lack of trust..and i still trust my bf but i can get jealous sometimes, but what i dont do is make a big fuss about it and complain to him .. its just something i think in my mind now and then but wouldnt start an arugment over it cuz its not worth it, iono, i think everyone gets jealous and i think as long as ur not makin a big deal about it, u should be fine

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Originally posted by marvinOPPA
jealousy is a bitch. most times it is what makes most couples break up.

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well i think there are different variables contributing to jealousy. Lack of trust being one. But also self-confidence issues, self-esteem issues, or just plain ole competition i.e. animals fight for territory and/or they see a female with a nice ass so they get jealous and testosterone is flung, all contribute to jealousy.

But for some reason some guys and girls prefer a jealous type person. I guess it makes them feel wanted or like they should be worth fighting over or some dumbshit like that.

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i guess the insecurity & self esteem thing works too... never thought about it that way.

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Originally posted by KeN VeRsUs RyU
But for some reason some guys and girls prefer a jealous type person. I guess it makes them feel wanted or like they should be worth fighting over or some dumbshit like that.

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exactly... well, the "feel wanted" part anyways. it's nice to know my boyfriend gets jealous.

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i guess the insecurity & self esteem thing works too... never thought about it that way.

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nobody play mind games please.

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what came first, the chicken or the egg?

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Originally posted by acidbreeze
what came first, the chicken or the egg?

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i think if you're religious it's the chicken but if you're not it's the egg

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Originally posted by acidbreeze
what came first, the chicken or the egg?

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can someone explain to me what this has to do with jealousy???

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Originally posted by Ladi Jay
can someone explain to me what this has to do with jealousy???

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