I mean, they do by tryin to get you a good education and things like dat but, you know they never say sorry when they get pissed off at you, or they don't say the "L" word to you ( love hehe) And why is it so tuff to have a good friend relationship with the azn father at an early stage (teen). Is it your fault to piss him off and get a beatin by his baseball bat or is it his fault for bein so hard on you?

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erm... you get beaten with a baseball bat by your dad?

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i get whipped by belt when i was like 7 but then after i was 10 he stopped... i think they do that cuz it was how the ppl in olde times were

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i guess its because they were like that with their fathers too.. u no? and maybe they're too sorry to say sorry cuz they beat u when u were so young and too ashamed to say the L word..heh molla

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well...it was a plastic bat haha and I was 10

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naw im still gettin hit and im 16 :sad: and hell it still hurts ur ass
but thats the thing their fathers were lik that 2 so i guess they learned from the only father they could and ever will hav.
God strike me wit lightnin if i ever hurt my child.

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hell yea. God knos my so-called dad showed me any affection. if he did... he was probably drunk. but i should forget the past.

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"discipline and obedience makes a man" or whatever my taekwondo teacher said. :sleepy:

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I know exactly what you mean... my dad never shows any affection... well, he doesn't show any of his feelings at all... :huh: I feel sorrie for my dad sometimes... I mean, I love him and all buh there are times when he gets on my nerves... mebbe it is because of how they were raised up...

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i think its the korean culture... where males arent supposed to shed a tear, show affections etc

my dad also doesnt openly show his affections but i do know he loves me... and the thing is... EVEN I cant openly show my affections... like their are times when i feel like i want to HUG or CRY but instead i show no emotions

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i think its the korean culture... where males arent supposed to shed a tear, show affections etc

my dad also doesnt openly show his affections but i do know he loves me... and the thing is... EVEN I cant openly show my affections... like their are times when i feel like i want to HUG or CRY but instead i show no emotions

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they got too much damn pride

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yea... same here. i was really close to my dad when i was little... now we aren't anymore... and its kind of awkward when he's around-- i dunno... but its juss is. my dad doesn't show emotions either... i knoe that he loves me... its juss that he never says the "l" word.

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i dont think any korean father says the "l" word... am i wrong?

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i dont think any korean father says the "l" word... am i wrong?

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i dont think any korean father says the "l" word... am i wrong?

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i'm asian and my dad constantly tells me he loves me. before, yeah he used to hit me but then he stopped and has apologised since...so yeah, it's all koo now cause i love him as well but it's hard for me to show my emotions...but he knows that i'll always care bout him

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i'm asian and my dad constantly tells me he loves me. before, yeah he used to hit me but then he stopped and has apologised since...so yeah, it's all koo now cause i love him as well but it's hard for me to show my emotions...but he knows that i'll always care bout him

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well my parents dont say they love me but i know they love me to death, but yeah, i guess it would feel a lot better if they said they loved me out loud

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