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Crazydeb8ter
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quote:
Originally posted by TyGer STyLe
lets try being more "constructive" rather then "critisizing" in our comments... still...

being constructive allows her the opportunity go with her original course, which should not be open to her regardless. I will explain that a little later.

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Originally posted by LiL_HyeSung
guyz around my place arent dikheds and go on abt who they had sex wif...(only those really dikheads out there) only what happened when they had sex...(guyz talk..)

yea right, you keep telling yourself that, you're just not paying attention. Theres something called talking behind peoples back.

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Originally posted by TyGer STyLe
hey you can be blunt... but theres no need for name calling... even by being smart about the name calling... vic... your last msg... seems to imply shes a complete idiot... :huh: thats no good is it?

yes perhaps that was my intent, but only after she assumed that "i got pissed off" at her decision did I ever think about typing something like that. I don't give a fuck if you (Lil_Hyesung) go hump some dudes brains out and walk around all sore because you lost your virginity, I am only speaking out because your motives and your reasoning is bad.

But then again at this age, you shouldn't even have a good reason to go have sex to begin with.

Take the advice from people your senior, it is not worth it. Take a look at that thread, "do you regret losing your virginity?" Most if not all the people who've responded have regretted it. Save yourself the misery and keep your hormones bottled up.

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Originally posted by Crazydeb8ter
But then again at this age, you shouldn't even have a good reason to go have sex to begin with.

i think u would make a good brother... or dad... hehe.

u should have sex when your ready... it sounds too me u onlie want to because the people around u are. u should save your virginity until the rite person comes along... i'm assuming your relationship rite now is probably juss puppy love-- i'm sorry if this sounds offensive... and i really don't want to sound mean... but i'm sure u would regret this decision in the future. if u get pregnant... your family and friends would look at u in disgust... i knoe i would if one of my friends got pregnant.

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there are ways to get your point across with the same intensity, while still not seeming like a complete ass... but psytek has his own style of dealing with people... personally i don't like that approach... i feel sympathy for those who psytek does decide to reveil the truth too... haha he puts it a bit uHm... not bluntly but... like "what are you thinkin dummie" eh... but its all koo...

i know your intentions are well vic... so its all good

all i ask... slap sense into people, but do it with some sense of what is an apropriate way of totally not making em feel like a dumbshit...

Huh... this threads turning into a netiquette debate...

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13? damn. horny lil kids dese dayz. u live in one fucked up area. as for me, im 15(will be in 2 weeks), im a virgin, n damn proud of it. i dun give a fuck wat everyone says. dont go wit da crowd. all my homiez have had sex n shit, dey all tellin me its great n everythang, but i aint like dat. so. watevaz, das wack...13? shit wats dis world comin to.

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i'm waiting... of course until i get married.

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i'm waiting... of course until i get married.

yea me too. Sex is supposed to be a sacred thang.

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i dont think sex has anything to do with love...i might be weird or whatever...but im not really into it...

im not gay either, if anyone of you are thinking that....

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yea me too. Sex is supposed to be a sacred thang.

thats tyte Josh...

reallie... i dont noe dat manie guys who think lyk dat...

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Originally posted by Street RSX
your thirteen and yoo think your readi, im seventeen and i still think im too young for that, why yoo in sucha rush for... well itz your choice, buh if yoo do lose your virginity at that age ppl are gonna think.....sumthin thatz not good.

that's really true...have you thought of the responsibilities that comes along with it? i personally think ppl should wait till their wedding day cause it's more intimate that way...well, i believe in sex after marriage...dont want to regret anything! LOL

but it's kool, that's ur choice...just thought i might let u know...

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Originally posted by sangxjin
and let me tell you, i dont even think you know what real love is.

i dont think anyone knows real love till way later on...i personally dont like it when someone uses the word 'love' cause it seems like they're just abusing it...it's such a sacred word...u should say it when u really mean it from the bottom of ur heart. ok, i'm outta here...it's getting real nasty

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quote:
Originally posted by LiL_HyeSung
HmMz..
me and mah fwen were discussing abt sex...you know things like...
wen is the rite age...n why would you hab sex..
she's 13 as well.. she's even been pregnant and have had an abortion...

ok just want to say one last thing...what EXACTLY did u guys talk bout? i mean, u guys make it seem like sex is no biggie...it IS a serious issue...although ur mind says ur ready, ur body's not <-- there's a difference there...just think bout it

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i think itz freakin wrong to hav sex your age, buh if yoo think your reallie readi and think yoo can handle tha responsibilities, go ahead no ones stoppin ya. and if yoo reallie do hav sex, hit us bak, did yoo like it?? wuz it fun?? haha yoo kno.. jus curious...

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Originally posted by Street RSX
i think itz freakin wrong to hav sex your age, buh if yoo think your reallie readi and think yoo can handle tha responsibilities, go ahead no ones stoppin ya. and if yoo reallie do hav sex, hit us bak, did yoo like it?? wuz it fun?? haha yoo kno.. jus curious...

wouldn't it be ironic if she gets pregnant

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yea mann, it be reallie weirdd, and if she does hes gon be on all those talk shows and interviews... Itz like 13 year olds havin a Baby... or 13 year old parents... or baby thas onli 13 years younger than parents!! haha

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i knew this girl that got pregnant at 11... i dunno wut happened after thoe.

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11??? what the fuck..u dont even have tits when ur 11!

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on this chinese program i was watchin they came up with these youngest grandmothers...
you knew how old the youngest one was?
she was like 28...
so weird

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woah... 28?! jeez...

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Originally posted by Jj2

i dont think anyone knows real love till way later on...i personally dont like it when someone uses the word 'love' cause it seems like they're just abusing it...it's such a sacred word...u should say it when u really mean it from the bottom of ur heart. ok, i'm outta here...it's getting real nasty

OKAY....i would like to redirect your attention to what i said previously...since you obviously didn't get the point... but from what i learned/heard

love is felt just as strongly as when you're young as when you're old... it's probably even MORE intense when you're between 12 and 18 because you're brain is getting rewired to be an adult... everything is so much more intense during that time... which is why there's so much drama... lol probably...

and guess what... being "in love" has the same effects as being high...

weird huh? it affects the same areas of the brain... yea i know

and just so you know... the parts of the brain that images of your friends trigger and the image of your significant other.... happens in TOTALLY different parts of the brain.... so if you're questioning if it's love it's probably not...

i don't think the real issue in this thread is love... it's that lil_hyesung seems JUST TO YOUNG to handle the emotional and physical struggles that having an intimate relationship comes with... not to mention how morally WRONG it sounds....

just try to understand... that we're NOT trying to be mean... we're just trying to.... keep a foreseeable bad thing from happening.... nothing good can come from you having sex.. sure you could get lucky.. and nothing could happen... but there is a MUCH bigger possibility that something could go wrong.. not to mention the obvious possiblity that you could get pregnant... but there's also... STD's.... then there's dealing with your parents (and if your parents are okay with you having sex at your age.... let's just say.. that.. you know what i'm not even gong to go there but anyway).. and then there's.. "will he (guy you slept with) stay and help me?" .... all these emotional problems... and even if you did get an abortion... and you'd think you would be alright....but there could be psychological problems... you KILLED a person... techincally that baby... could have grown up to be a person..... and you killed it... all because you decided you wanted go and have sex "like every other kid" in your messed up town...
and lets just say.. you decided to go and have the baby... how on earth are you going to deal with having a kid and going to school... there are teenage mothers dropping out of school for a reason... so in the end you could be left as an 18 year old drop out with a kid that is 5 years old... what a great future you guys have....

and after knowing ALL of that... you still decide you want to go out and have sex..... all i can ask you to do......is have the guy wear a condom... and you do everything in your power to prevent pregnancy and getting STD's

but just.... leave that till.. you could atleast handle dealing with all the "consequences"(well if you can handle it.. it won't be consequences) that come with having sex.... which is why a lot of ppl decide to wait till they get married... by then they've found that faithful (or not but yea) partner that will stay with them (umh yea or not) and they're more or less financially stable...

Just tell me one thing though....why do you want to have sex so badly? is it cuz of all the other kids in town? are you just curious?
do you really think you're ready? ready for what?

seriously..... answer that question... "Why do you want to have sex so badly?" ..... Telling other ppl you're ready just shows how much you're NOT ready.... you have to TELL us you're ready just to convince yourself...

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