do you think it's possible? does it work? what does it take to maintain a long distance relationship? are you in one or have been in a long distance relationship?

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i was all prepared to be in one.. like in my weekend post.. but i guess it doesnt work out according to the girl i asked out.. oh well.. there are alot of things i didnt consider.. its really hard .. but if he or she is like 2 hours away.. i seriously dont consider than long distance unless the only means of transportation is wakling..

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wow.. and i thought six hours was tough.

dude.. its inevitable. sucks tho. yo lets huddle in a corner and cry together and afterwards we can eat some jjajangmyun with kkohmool dripping in our bowls and drink beer till we throw up. WAAHHH GIRLS SUCK.

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when in a long distance relationship, you can't be there to watch the person change. trust is good blah blah BLAH, but, face the facts: when seperated, destiny conforms to your solitude and things will happen which u cannot stop because your too far away to stop them.

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boy please, you dont know anything about our relationship. long distance relationships can work out, i've seen it with my own eyes. face the facts - though i agree with some of your opinions, you're not this big love expert you've pumped yourself up to be. and half of these people are young and they wont listen to you anyway, so why waste your time preachin when they dont give a shit about what you say anyway.

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when seperated, destiny conforms to your solitude and things will happen which u cannot stop because your too far away to stop them.

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when in a long distance relationship, you can't be there to watch the person change. trust is good blah blah BLAH, but, face the facts: when seperated, destiny conforms to your solitude and things will happen which u cannot stop because your too far away to stop them.

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destiny conforms to your solitude? what kind of crap is that..... destiny doesn't conform to anything but your actions in the world...

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Ahahahahaha, this has probably got to be the stupidest thing i've ever heard. Try doing some brian excercises before you post so then you don't put up asinine crap like this again.


oh yes and

FACE THE FACTS- you're stupid. Cross apply all my arguments from other posts as justification for this statement.

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boy please, you dont know anything about our relationship. long distance relationships can work out, i've seen it with my own eyes. face the facts - though i agree with some of your opinions, you're not this big love expert you've pumped yourself up to be. and half of these people are young and they wont listen to you anyway, so why waste your time preachin when they dont give a shit about what you say anyway.

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why do you have to SEE them change?..... you don't need to see anything... a real relationship is all about the communication.... not just about "oh wow you look hot today let's make out"


and your face the facts thing... that's just crap... do you even know what you said? why do you need to stop things that they do? everyone changes.... you can't keep things the way they are... not even if you have a relationship that's right infront of your face... what? destiny conforms to your solitude? what kind of crap is that..... destiny doesn't conform to anything but your actions in the world...

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i would have attempted to clarify my statement for everyone to have understanded it a bit better but like yellow mellon here is saying, seems people will ridicule my statements without trying to compromise an understandable meaning to any of the shit i dish out. what kind of crap is that? when your somewhere else with your partner far away, you have different options and different opportunities which change the course of your emotions for the person miles away. without the physical aspect of your partner there with you, a strictly voice/mail relationship can put strains on how you view the relationship and there will be an important piece missing from the unity of it. i don't mean a lacking piece in terms of kissing, sex, etc, but in terms of comfort. well whatever.
i guess i did try to clarify it.

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my name is MellowYellow it's plain as day up there... not yellow mellon ..... and if you were being sarcastic again... doesn't work

okay clarify it further please... the comfort part..... can't you comfort by talking? and it's not like you'd never see each other again.....

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face the facts
did i self-proclaim myself a love expert? i don't post to put myself up on a higher pedestal to any of u on the topic of love. no one in here is a 'love expert', if he/she was one then they wouldn't lounge around this forum. and if these peeps are all young and dont give a shit what i have to say, then ill say what i have to say for my own self-satisfaction. and yeah, why would they care what the hell u say either then.

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i agree with psytek on da comfort thing..

i dunno how to explain wut i'm thinking..but its sumthing like wut psytek sed

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i was in a long distance relationship. actually my first bf was. he lived in artesia, in cerritos while i lived in orange. it was somewhat of a 30 min. drive if it was traffic and 20 min. if it was an okay day. i mean, it was far for me since i had no car and no one would take me. plus all the long distance phone calls ran up my bill. i didn't mind because i'd see him once a week at church, but it was at church which wasn't a place i considered to be a "dating" area. so we barely saw each other. and when we did, we barely did anything. then he broke up with me, bla bla bla.. buh if you really like this guy you wont let distance get in the way. i mean, i didn't buh he broke it off. *lame reason* like, you can always call the guy, you have communication, that's a key to a relationship. as long as you have communication then you're good. but the whole seeing thing is another story. but like i said, if you really like this guy you wont let distance get in the way.

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seems people will ridicule my statements without trying to compromise an understandable meaning to any of the shit i dish out. what kind of crap is that?

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shut up crazydeb8ter, your more like a h8ter~ i never directly attacked ur ass in any of my posts. ur trying to pick a fight and face the facts, i don't give a shit how asinine you think my opinions are. my posts should be tolerated if not accepted and if they are so atrocious and untolerable then tell me to leave and i fucking will. but if not, i'll continue to have my say without your ass telling me otherwise. and why was that statement i made so 'stupid': tell me because you just saying that it's stupid is completely invalid and i have no respect for you until you give me ANY legitimate reason backing it up instead of "uhh, its stupid". got it?

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and why was that statement i made so 'stupid': tell me because you just saying that it's stupid is completely invalid and i have no respect for you until you give me ANY legitimate reason backing it up instead of "uhh, its stupid". got it?

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