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tm11
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the end of a relationship

Feeling wierd, but relieved now, this is what happened. We were friends for over a year, and nothing more, then we got closer as the school year started, but too close, and we decided to be more than friends. She was a nice girl, not like any I had known, very optimistic and happy, and she was cute too, not my ideal type but she was really nice, and I was feelin' her, so we became a psuedo-couple. It started at the end of october, and I saw her every day and we talked, but I never called her very often, and I was rather complacent. Haha, it's funny looking back at it, over the span of nearly 3 months, we only did like 3 things together where it was just her and I. It was definitely different, as we had already been decent friends beforehand, and that was something that we had both been hesitant about. Lately, I had lost almost all interest in a relationship with her (I'm not sure why this happened, but I became rather pessimistic about everything, and it was easier to look back at the time before we started dating and see how it was better, and how we never spent anytime, and how things were always slightly awkward as we had already been friends), I had stopped caring and hadn't told many people, I was trying to work up the courage to finally set up a place to talk to her, but it had never happened. Christmas came and passed, we had exchanged only a few words in the past week, and then tonight after chilling with friends, I got an e-mail, and I was so relieved. She had felt awkward too and wanted to just be friends. It was fun to try it out, and no regrets, but I'm glad we're just friends now.

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ah, sorry to hear about the rough road ma'

glad everything turned out for the better seemingly though, yah? tranquilo ma ma'.

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its good that the breakup was mutual

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my wasn't very mutual.. he sed he couldn't handle long distances.. breaks up wif me den goez after anuder gurl thats LONG DiSTANCE..WTF is that..

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[edit] i kareless now he was a big fat ass liar in the whole relationship anywasez~

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@.@ that sounds so..i donno the words to describe..but one word in there is easy. @.@

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quote:
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my wasn't very mutual.. he sed he couldn't handle long distances.. breaks up wif me den goez after anuder gurl thats LONG DiSTANCE..WTF is that..
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[edit] i kareless now he was a big fat ass liar in the whole relationship anywasez~



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quote:
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ah, sorry to hear about the rough road ma'



O.o i could of sworn tm11 was a guy... ne ways sorry to hear about that!

leesa take it easy lol you can find another man neways

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O.o i could of sworn tm11 was a guy... ne ways sorry to hear about that!

leesa take it easy lol you can find another man neways



heh, sorry. He is a guy. It's a colloquialism we use when me and him talk, saying "ma' " is the same as man, but it's kind of accented...like "hey man" is the same as "hey ma' ". It started out mocking someone else, but we still use it now cause it's fun. It's not "mom" or anything hehe. So yes he is a guy.

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heh, sorry. He is a guy. It's a colloquialism we use when me and him talk, saying "ma' " is the same as man, but it's kind of accented...like "hey man" is the same as "hey ma' ". It started out mocking someone else, but we still use it now cause it's fun. It's not "mom" or anything hehe. So yes he is a guy.



ok haha i though u were callin him a girl "hey ma'" "hey girl" lol

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yes, I am a guy haha. We say ma' (pronounced like man, but with an Indian accent and sort of trailing off after the a) as a joke for two reasons, making fun of this really perverted, ill-mannered kid who graduated last year that went to our school, and also from reading anna karenina, they refered to each other as maman, sometimes, and we had to do a video for it and David played one of the characters and he used that accent to say that word, so it stuck.

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sorry to hear that mate! well it wasnt love in the first place, looks to me like infatuation! [but what would i know] well cheer up ma! you'll find someone you really love in the future and then you can really tell the difference!!

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its good to hear that your break up was nice and clean... its never nice to have a messy breakk up... all the relationships ive had ive tried to break them off leaving each other with a good feeling yah know? i can't stand having someone mad at me, or just disliking me... i can't stand it...

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quote:
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O.o i could of sworn tm11 was a guy... ne ways sorry to hear about that!

leesa take it easy lol you can find another man neways

loL.. i kno.. its jus yu dun understand.. all the words he sed.. i thought were real.. pshh.. der were all fake.. and thats hurts.. very much sho.. i thot he was different.. puhaha.. boi wush i rong.. but wutever.. i got sumwhun else now.. and yeh.. shoooo.. wuuheverr.. LOL.. im okae.. [;.. kinduh.. a lil? okae.. im jus realli pissed at him.. puhaha.. okie.. gunna stop typing.. righ... NOW!

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aww... that's sweet to noe that u guys are still good friends... and your break up wasn't like over a fight or something.

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