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Hello H2oBaebe!
Gosh, another one of these questions huh? I've always had my point of view on this, so I'll be more than happy to share it with you.
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is it worth being w/him if i know were r going to break up??
Do you feel like he's worth the risk? Even if you know the end result? Either you decide to save yourself the from lagging heartbreak and move on, or give it a shot and run the test.
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y do people have relationships that aren't going to last, and how can love die?
Some relationships may not last, but it exist for some purpose. Long term or short term relationships gives a chance for two people the experience of being in love. It helps them discover what they prefer in life when it comes to choosing a mate. It teaches them the lesson of maturing and growing to know what it feels like to be a part of someone.
I don't think love can ever die. Maybe the flame out passion is worn out, but it can never die. In your case, your love is not dead. It's being put through a test.
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tonight we were talking on the fone and he inderectly told me that we r going to break up after high school no matter what.. but i don't want to know that
I don't understand. Is he initiating the break up? It seems like he's leaving you with no option of trying to work this out when he says, "no matter what". Ask him if he wants to give this relationship after high school a try.
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If you two feel strongly for each other, then it might be worth it to give the college love life a try. Afterall, you'll at least have no regrets knowing that you did something to hold onto the person you love.
You know, if you two really do love each other, college or distance shouldn't be a factor. I mean, if the both of you can't handle being away from each other and grow independently, then how will you ever mature? How will you ever be able to know what it's like to be apart from each other? I'm sure if both of you stay strong and understand each other, nine months or even four years isn't even a problem.
And on another note, if your relationship doesn't work out, you'll always meet someone in college. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. There are many more things you'll learn as you grow. You might even be able to pick up a keeper. ;)
Until then, take care of yourself and love wisely,
Ane~
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is college worth breaking up?
ok, so we've been together for almost 15 months and we've been through so much together that i couldn't imagine being w/anyone else. k, so we have another school year ahead of us, but wut's going to happen after that? is it worth being w/him if i know were r going to break up?? y do people have relationships that aren't going to last, and how can love die? Tonight we were talking on the fone and he inderectly told me that we r going to break up after high school no matter what.. 
then wut am i going to do..? do u think that college is a reason to break up something that could last and be something more serious? 
08-18-2003 10:34 AM
