I have concerns about my friend. He deeply cares about this girl, he want to make her happy, but the thing is she cheated on him, they worked things out. Should he stay with her? I mean he really love this girl. If she cheated one, you think she will do it again? She say she broke it off with the other guy, he beleives her, but could she still be seeing him? Maybe im asking all this because I really care about this guy, even have feelings for him. I really want those two to make things work and last. Ive never seen him happy like this. If he found out that she cheated on him again, I think he would be absolutely crushed. Any words of advice? Thanks

EDITED: I was on the phone most of the night with him because he has trouble sleeping. He wanted me to bore him or something, all he really talked about was his gf, how great she is, then I realized I really like him alot, he is so kind, nice, he is very smart, and he is one of the best looking guys I have seen. I want to tell him how I feel, but he is moving in three months to be closer to his girlfriend because they are having a long distance right now. I am planning on telling him tonight after I pick him, Im going to tell him and try to kiss him, is that right? I mean he does have a girlfriend. Any words of the wise?

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hmm... i guess he can try it again... but i'm not really sure about the girls loyalty to him... Tell him how u feel about him, that ur concerned. if she cheates on him again...be there to confort him

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man u dont giv a cheater another chance! i say wit all honesty f&$# her! that lil....i mean if she really luvs him y did she do it?! i wouldnt trust that lil b&$#@ ever. she did it once she can do it again i mean she obviously didnt care much the first time if she did it. i dunno about u guys but where i live we call that a slut

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wow this girl that you are talking about, in my opinion, has lost her trust to her bf. I mean if they were in love, how could she do something like that. If something like that happens, maybe it just wasnt meant to be, I mean that is possibly the worst thing that you could do to your partner. As for you, I think you should tell him how you feel, whether or not you guys will start something, but it is your decision to make. I dont know exactly what the situation is and neither does any1 else, so you have to trust yourself and your heart, however cheesy that may sound. good luck

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thats so wrong of you to post this on some forum, and what you did tonight was wrong, I trusted you, you totally broke our bond as friends. Im glad that you cared about me, but i told u everything and you should have left it at that.

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this is like....korean mini-series in the makin....scp should get to work on this one quick

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this is like....korean mini-series in the makin....scp should get to work on this one quick

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Really? What would it be called? lol

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this is like....korean mini-series in the makin....scp should get to work on this one quick

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if i was the guy i would have dumped dat bitches ass.... but i guess dat guy did really love dat girl alot... i dunno wat to say to this situation... but all i can say is... Sarah stay out cuz i dunt think ur doin anything better.... i mean COMON girlie... you noe he still has feelings for her... why try to kiss him? i guess dats ONE way of telling him how you feel about him... but you also didnt respect HIS feelings... dat was ur fault


o btw yeah his gf does sound like a total bitch... ask him why he still loves her.. and if he says he just does... You noe its true love...

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EDITED: I was on the phone most of the night with him because he has trouble sleeping. He wanted me to bore him or something, all he really talked about was his gf, how great she is, then I realized I really like him alot, he is so kind, nice, he is very smart, and he is one of the best looking guys I have seen. I want to tell him how I feel, but he is moving in three months to be closer to his girlfriend because they are having a long distance right now. I am planning on telling him tonight after I pick him, Im going to tell him and try to kiss him, is that right? I mean he does have a girlfriend. Any words of the wise? [/B]

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I have concerns about my friend. He deeply cares about this girl, he want to make her happy, but the thing is she cheated on him, they worked things out. Should he stay with her? I mean he really love this girl. If she cheated one, you think she will do it again? She say she broke it off with the other guy, he beleives her, but could she still be seeing him? Maybe im asking all this because I really care about this guy, even have feelings for him. I really want those two to make things work and last. Ive never seen him happy like this. If he found out that she cheated on him again, I think he would be absolutely crushed. Any words of advice? Thanks

EDITED: I was on the phone most of the night with him because he has trouble sleeping. He wanted me to bore him or something, all he really talked about was his gf, how great she is, then I realized I really like him alot, he is so kind, nice, he is very smart, and he is one of the best looking guys I have seen. I want to tell him how I feel, but he is moving in three months to be closer to his girlfriend because they are having a long distance right now. I am planning on telling him tonight after I pick him, Im going to tell him and try to kiss him, is that right? I mean he does have a girlfriend. Any words of the wise?

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You give people chances because you love them, it don't matter how much they break your heart.. just as long as they're by your side you don't care... My advice to you is ... Go for it, don't wait around cause if you don't tell him he'll never know and you'll live your life with regret.. cause you'll never know if he is the one or not... You just gotta understand that if you kiss him and he doesn't feel the same for you.. things between you two will be vary different... Trust me i dated my bess fren and know we don't even talk.. plus its so hard to forget him.. after waiting 2 years for him... I think if you do it now you'll feel better about yourself and be able to move on, as for me i'm one depress gurl without a heart... its so hard to get back and date again knowing that i have someone else clinging to my heart... one more thing you kinda don't wanna rush your fren into anything, becasuse if he really loves this gurl and he has feelings for you.. he'll eventualy end up hurting you later on... i hope you kinda understand..

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You give people chances because you love them, it don't matter how much they break your heart.. just as long as they're by your side you don't care...

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yea so ur sayin the girl took a few brakes being next 2 him and decided sharin is carin
yea u giv chances but i dont keep givin them chances. i giv them a chance to prove themselves. if people giv a 2nd or 3rd chance that's their choice. but we r talkin about CHEATIN. we rnt talkin about not showin up 2 a date or lettin someone down. she left his side and went to go get banged by someone else.
am i the only one thinking that cheatin is a big deal and that u just drop the whore like a bad habit or hav the rest of the world find a whore as perfectly fine???

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DUN GIVE A CHEATER ANOTHER CHANCE, cause they will do it agains and agains and again DON"T DONT" DONT'. tell the dude how u feel cause he obviusly needs some loving . his gf cheated on him and he neds a shoulder to lean on probs urs so go for it :D

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am i the only one thinking that cheatin is a big deal and that u just drop the whore like a bad habit or hav the rest of the world find a whore as perfectly fine???

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hell yes i agree totally

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mal tahn wangjah....good name huh?

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yo "sarah" get my pix off yo dam profile!!!!!!! stop jacking my shit! n i dont c any other pixs of u!! when i have a whole bunch

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yo "sarah" get my pix off yo dam profile!!!!!!! stop jacking my shit! n i dont c any other pixs of u!! when i have a whole bunch

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