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niggoreanboi
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"i don't wanna be like my dad"

Does any of ya'll dad treat you or other people bad and you say to yourself "damn, i don't want to b anything like my dad" prob is most likely that your will end up treating your child almost prob not as bad as your dad

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01-01-2003 01:51 AM

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KpSwEeTiE143
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my dad isnt really the problem its more my mother ... its like nothing i do makes her happy i reall REALLY hope i dont end up treating my kids the way she treats me n my sisters...

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ajy
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cant say thats ever happened to me. i dont really pay attention to what my dad does

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i'm sure i won't treat anyone like my dad does. He's a bad person i think,..caring about little more than himself and being succesful and i hope and am pretty fixed on not reciprocating any of his behavior. Oh, and the way he treats us...more like the way he doesn't treat us haha. We're kind of invisible and insignificant haha, more or less trophies if we do well, the opposite if bad.

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quote:
Originally posted by KpSwEeTiE143
my dad isnt really the problem its more my mother ... its like nothing i do makes her happy i reall REALLY hope i dont end up treating my kids the way she treats me n my sisters...

ya my mom is the problem too my dads pretty cool tho

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Nojeel
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do i want to be like my dad?

hell no

nuff said..

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Ladi Jay
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alex, this is what I think... what you perceive as wrong, you must learn from and try your hardest not to do...

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KeN VeRsUs RyU
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i thought pretty much the same thing when i was all yall ages.. my view kinda changed after some growing up on my part. i love my dad . even tho he has his faults i would still be proud to be like the man and the father he has become.

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daNNy LuV 1TYM
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i luv mai dad and if i hav a husband i hope he'll be like mai dad. i luv mai mom too, but if i hav kids i definitely do not want to treat them like she treats mai sis and me. she duzn't realli do nethin bad to us, but she yells and nags and wut she says is hurtful and brings down our self-esteem. i hope i dun turn out the way she did.

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iTsmeehLita
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even though my dad hasn't been there for me when i needed him most ...

it's not because he wouldn't want to ... its because he's trying to make money to help support his family ...

he loves all of us .. even if he doesn't show it much ..

he's doing the best he can .. and best thing i can do .. is tell him how much i love him .. and how much he means to me .. i wouldn't be the same person if it wasnt for my dad

[sorry but i think i went off topic ? ]

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niggoreanboi
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quote:
Originally posted by Ladi Jay
alex, this is what I think... what you perceive as wrong, you must learn from and try your hardest not to do...

O.o is this message directly to me? lol i was juss asking a question T___T

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01-04-2003 12:29 AM

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i wouldnt wanna be my like my dad too. hes just..not that great. but i wouldnt wanna be like my mom either..

its not that how i they are to us..its just their personalities..=\ thats it. haha

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