Re: isn't it funny
quote: Originally posted by PoeTicXSoRRow
isn't it funny how it's easier to tell someone that everything will be ok, than hear it yourself from another person?
I used to be guilty of this all the time.. I was always the one my friends went to for advice, to rant, etc. And yet when I was the one who was stuck, feeling down, maybe even in a similar situation as one of theirs, I could never heed my own words.
Yes, sometimes when everyone is telling you to calm down, chill and relax, I agree it can irritate you more, despite their intentions of making you feel comforted. It feels like they don't know what to say to you, don't understand, just making things more frustrating.
Try doing stuff that relieves stress, maybe workout, listen to music or call a friend and just tell them u need someone to listen. But, if none of this works, I say, bugging out about your stuff for a little awhile -- it's cool as long as it's not lashing out at people and saying regrettable things.
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