This is a very hard question. Even I can't decide which I would choose. Here is my reason.
If I marry someone that hates me, but I love them, it would only add more heartbreak on my part. Obviously, if that other person hates me, they can careless about the way I feel. Indifference, apathy, impassive, and insensitiveness towards my feelings would only leave me cold in the end. Why should I be torn because I love someone? True that loving them is enough, but face it, it's life. I don't want to go through pain and hardship when it comes to love. So, I'd rather just love them from afar where less damage would be done.
But if I marry someone that loves me, and I don't love them, that's just pity. I don't want to pity someone that loves me. In the end, I'll only end up hurting him. It's never my intention to hurt someone in the first place, even if I don't love them. I don't want him to give and never get in return. I don't think I'm worth enough to shatter the heart of someone that loves me.
It may be true that in the end, I might end up loving him, but I don't know if I want to risk it.
See why it's so hard to answer a question like this? :)
My answer would be neither.
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