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TAIgrr
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would you rather marry...

would you marry somene YOU love?
or marry someone that loves YOU?

to make it clear.. would you marry someone you hate but they love you? or marry someone you love but they hate you?

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hmm really good question..... i would marry someone i hate but they love me... cuz i know i can change my ways to make life better between us but i donno if they can change for me

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hmm really good question..... i would marry someone i hate but they love me... cuz i know i can change my ways to make life better between us but i donno if they can change for me

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quote:
Originally posted by AZN Pinoy BOI
hmm really good question..... i would marry someone i hate but they love me... cuz i know i can change my ways to make life better between us but i donno if they can change for me


worrrdd... i soo agreee =D

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i would marry someone who i love..even if the person hates me i would be always at their side helping them even if they dont like it. pekeke.

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i would marry someone who i love..even if the person hates me i would be always at their side helping them even if they dont like it. pekeke.


until the day they cheat on you, rendering you heartbroken and disillusioned with your love.

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until the day they cheat on you, rendering you heartbroken and disillusioned with your love.


word.

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someone i hate buh they love me~

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i dont think i would get married then...

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merry someone that loves me, it's more secure because u never knoe wut someone elses action is going to be, but if they love u it's impossible to be hurt by them. in addition u are always oing to be aware of ur own actions and if someone is going to love me and i'm married to them i know that i would never do anything to hurt them, so it's a done deal. but if i love someone and they don't luv' me in return it's impossible to know that i am safe. does this make sense?

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This is a very hard question. Even I can't decide which I would choose. Here is my reason.

If I marry someone that hates me, but I love them, it would only add more heartbreak on my part. Obviously, if that other person hates me, they can careless about the way I feel. Indifference, apathy, impassive, and insensitiveness towards my feelings would only leave me cold in the end. Why should I be torn because I love someone? True that loving them is enough, but face it, it's life. I don't want to go through pain and hardship when it comes to love. So, I'd rather just love them from afar where less damage would be done.

But if I marry someone that loves me, and I don't love them, that's just pity. I don't want to pity someone that loves me. In the end, I'll only end up hurting him. It's never my intention to hurt someone in the first place, even if I don't love them. I don't want him to give and never get in return. I don't think I'm worth enough to shatter the heart of someone that loves me.

It may be true that in the end, I might end up loving him, but I don't know if I want to risk it.

See why it's so hard to answer a question like this? :)

My answer would be neither.

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My answer would be neither.

hahahhahahha
wouldn't everyone love to have that answer?

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someone that loves me

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Same here

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its not realyl love if it aint mutual
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