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jini
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ever hear your parents fight?

how do you feel when they do? what goes through your mind?

what about when people you dunno fight?


*when my parents fought.. i felt so helpless. i juss... all i could do was blink. my mind goes blank.

when other people fight? i feel twice as helpless.. and i feel really bad...

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i get really scared when my parents fight... i always pray afterwards for everything to be okae... same with when other people fight... i dunno... its too hard to explain... but i always feel helpless since i can't do anything to help them.

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i also feel like running.... reeeeally fast.. but i can't since they usually fought at night.

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my parents haven't fought ever since I was really young... which is good... so if my parents ever fought in front of me, I'd probably say something to them... make them stop... or I'd call my near by relatives to come over right away... buh again, they haven't fought since the ancient times so I have nothing to worry about

if others fight, I try to stop it... I yell and yell and yell at them...

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my parents haven't fought for a really loooong time... not that i knoe of

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quote:
Originally posted by RaCeR_LaDi_MoOn
they haven't fought since the ancient times so I have nothing to worry about




you're lucky. at least now that my parents are separated they'll stop fighting. all i remember when i was child was my parents fighting. i've never seen them smile at each other. except in their wedding pictures..

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my parents had a physical fight like when i was in 3rd grade
my dad was pulling my moms hair..
she wsa hitting back..
my dad kinda threw a glass vase at her (t hit the wall, thank goodness!)..

i didnt really feel bad..
cause i was at a young age..
but my parents get along just fine now

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mai parents used to fite a LOT. like every weekend. i remember seeing broken china lying on the floors, holes in the walls, and blood on their shirts...i remember mai sister and me crying and huggin in the dark and feeling so helpless cuz we were so lil and powerless. but then we joined a church...things are MUCh better now. they rarely fite....wen they do, it's usualli w mai sister and me instead of each othr :sleepy: i like that better tho, cuz i'd rather hav them yellin at me then at each othr. neway, wen they fite these dayz, i still get scared but i just pray and pray that they'll stop. i wish i were brace enuff to yell at them to stop :sad:

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when my parents fight... i always say something negative about my dad in my head cuz its always his fault

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my parents rarely fight.. wen they do... i realie hate it~ seriously.. i reallllie hate it..

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when they fight, i just go 'oh another one' and do watever i was doing. haha

i just get annoyed cuz they yell and its madd distracting.

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i tune them out... put on the music real loud and read a book

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i myself feel helpless and damn scared cause of all the yelling. my parents would never physically hurt each other, just yell but i dont like that so...yeah, i feel pretty much helpless and usually end up crying and praying that it'll all be ok. but that was ages ago...now it's all koo

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i hate when my parents fight. they have huge fights. my dad usually throws something and breaks it. one time he threw a glass plate at my mom. he missed tho and the shards flew over and cut me.

after that night i swore that id never get in a fight. i do everything i can to avoid them.

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yea..my dad used to throw things tOo..
he had a very bad temper =T
..whenever my parents would fight..
me and my brother would be upstairs on the balcony typa thing..
looking down..hearing everything..we'd just sit there..
hoping it would be over soon..
den after..my dad would leave the house..
and me and my mom would cry together..
one time..my dad asked me if i wanted to leave with him..
it was sOo hard..how do they expect me to choose?
and i was only in elementary skOol..what da hell do i knoe?

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damnz mah parentz fight almost everyday!! their such babiez!! i alwais hafta go to them and stop them... if i dun do anythin about it they go on for daiz, itz fukin endless!! im alwais goin up to mah parentz and takin hitz from mah dad for mah mom.. damnz i get bruises buh totali worth it.. betta then them gettin divorced, i alwais yell at mah dad for alwais gettin pissed about dumb thingz... and if itz mah momz fault i tell her to jus let our dad calm down and make her stay awai from him by tellin her to stay in tha guest room... so without mee this famili wouldnt last...

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jini
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when i was young... i thought it was just my family. other kids seem happy with their parents n stuff. i was always so jealous of them. i always wanted a NORMAL family. but i guess it's not juss me... but my family's pretty screwed up.

i juss want to live alone.

all the fighting in my family ... impacted my life since i can remember.

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