prOtective or nOt?

i hab a questiOn 4 us grlz...

dO yOo guyz lyk yO b/f's 2 B overprOtective of yOo or dO yOo perfer yO b/f's 2 B very loOse abOut yOo lyk kickin it wit bOiz (freNdz onlie of course nuthin mOh den dat)?

cuz i perfer LOOSE since im clOsest wit mai hOmebOiz... but a lOt of mai g/f's lyk der b/f's 2 be prOtective cuz it mayks dem feel lOved 4 or cared 4 or sumtin lyk dat... nOt shur thO

i'd luv 2 hear sum different respOnses!

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i think overprotected is better than loose (in other words not caring)

however.. i'd like a boy that was kinda in-between...)

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hmm, when you said overprotective... I thought totally strict about everything that I do... so I dun wanna use that word

I like... he knows his limits... is that better???

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ahaha daz fine~ by overprOtective i meant lyk he trips over da stOopidest things... ya nOe hOw bOiz R....

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i'd perfer a guy who knew when to be protective and when to be loose..being over protective would just irritate me and would make me want to do something to make him mad =¨_ ..

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my guy was like that. he was really protective of me cuz i have ALOT more guy friends than girl friends so like he thinks imma do something wit someone else cuz he thinks hes ugly and doesnt deserve me and there are alot better guys for me or something..i dont know hes wierd but now i cant say T.T ARGG! @.@

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its good.. in some way.. cuz it kinda shows how much he cares about u... but .. if u cross the fine line there.. nuh uh.. thas like.. a breakup waiting to happen

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Originally posted by HHxEliTE
its good.. in some way.. cuz it kinda shows how much he cares about u... but .. if u cross the fine line there.. nuh uh.. thas like.. a breakup waiting to happen

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Originally posted by hip hOp Yu Ja



yea it realie ish~ diz ish y i nOw hab an ex...Grrr

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lol .. iSs sAll gOOd.... we dont need guys like that!!

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Originally posted by HHxEliTE


lol .. iSs sAll gOOd.... we dont need guys like that!!

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haha of course!! ^^ i luv yO quOte~ "iSs sAll gOod"

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Hmm... okai... I think I kinda like protective guys... buh not too over protective where he won't even let me hang out with my girl friends and he has to know everything I do...

I actually like it when he cares that guys friends are talking to me... Makes me feel special and more wanted because I get the feeling that he's jealous... hehe

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i'd like a somewhat protective guy. to me, it's a sign that he cares. but if it's like, 'WHERE WERE YOU? WHO WERE YOU WITH? WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL? WHY DIDN'T YOU PICK UP?'
i don't need another mom.

i want him to trust me and i want to trust him too. i don't like to be jealous

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Originally posted by jini
i'd like a somewhat protective guy. to me, it's a sign that he cares. but if it's like, 'WHERE WERE YOU? WHO WERE YOU WITH? WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL? WHY DIDN'T YOU PICK UP?'
i don't need another mom.

i want him to trust me and i want to trust him too. i don't like to be jealous

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yup yup. i'd want sum1 hu liked to hold me close to reassure him that i'm real and all but not sum1 like jini wuz describing

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yeaa..protective iss good..buh then u dont want ur guy to be krazyy and tOOo protective...iss lyke he has too muCH controL then :T oOfz...so in between iss gOod haha

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this reminds me of a guy called anthony -

when we were together, i told him about the guy that . . . took advantage of me before - and he didn't say much about it then, he just held me and stuff, he was great -
i got a phone call from him - this guy came to HIS house to pick up our other friend and anthony came damn close to straight up killin his ass -
that made me feel good tho, cuz he wasn't trippin about anything else except for . . . my honor.
and when that's what the protectiveness is about - it's all good -
if it's about insecurity - fuck that!

btw, we're too young to be with guys that are all up in our business like that - dammit man, we're young - so be young and enjoy it!

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personally i think jealousy is good... it means that they care... better than some bf who doesn't even care. i'm not talking abouttoo much thoe.

i would prefer a protective bf rather than loose... but if it was in between would be better my bf is loose and personally i don't like it... he never shows any signs of jealousy-- maybe that's good and i'm looking too much into it... but it bothers me and it seems like he doesn't care... so yea.

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hmm this is pretti good advice for tha guys.... now i kno wen and wen not to be over protectiv to mai next gurlfriend...shouldnt yoo gurls be sharin this to let the guyz kno, this would help us kno how gurls want to bee treated... i like bein protectiv cause i dun want to lose her or wuhtever else, buh i never knew about sum stuph thas here...

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i would like too... its juss that i'm scared of talking about things like that to my bf... its juss uncomfortable.

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