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quote:
Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0

face the facts... you made your post longer than you had to. i'm fine with you arguing with me, but DON'T go off trying to be smart, immediately answering questions you supposedly think i was going to ask you in a rebuttal argument. your argument was good (i'm sure that's what you like to hear), but i don't like reading about what you presume i'm going to say in a counter-argument. i wasn't thinking or asking any of the things you extrapolated on... so don't flatter yourself as to think that you know how my train of thought works. well u can save yourself the reply, since i DID mix up the meaning of a crush and a serious love interest. so you "win" by default. just know in the future that i'm not here to argue; i'm here to give criticism with justification.



oooh psytek is offended. haha . I thought you of all people would be able to evade this feeble emotion, since you are so critical and such in the forums, seeminlgy devoid of most useless teenager like emotions. But, whatever.

"DON'T go off trying to be smart, immediately answering questions you supposedly think i was going to ask you in a rebuttal argument." Why not? I cover it more later, but i'm not trying to be smart, it's called good debating. We're saving time by answering dumb arguments that could come up. And, if you weren't going to say any of those things, other people can read it and learn more about the discussion from it. There's really no reason for me not to. I do that a lot, and it's not just a special case with you. Have you never been to the debate forum? I don't see you there too much cause i know you don't want to argue, but if you want to view it you would see similar things being done by probably not just me. It's common practice. You don't like reading what i thought you might say? Ok, you don't like it, tough.

"It's what i like to hear"? Hmmm, i guess, who doesn't like receiving compliments? I'm sure you do, but don't act like i'm out to get them. I don't take too kindly to when you said it though...oooh! maybe it's the stigmatizing way you said it in! yes! that must be it! Don't flatter yourself either (i'm only saying that so much cause you assume i'm flattering myself when i think it's hypocritical of you to say so), i'm sure you like to hear people who say "yeah i think psytek is right!" or "yeah, thats a good post psytek" or whatever people always say after you post. It's not as if i go around to your posts and post sardonic compliments when you respond to what i have said in the past.

umm, i think you shouldn't flatter yourself instead of me. I didn't gain some sort of satisfaction from preempting arguments, it's a common practice. It's not just your train of thought, it's everyones including mine, i was just answering arguments that didn't seem that good so we could save time.

Furthermore, you give yourself too much credit, as you boldly state: "wasn't thinking or asking any of the things you extrapolated on... so don't flatter yourself as to think that you know how my train of thought works" When in your post you go and start a "love" trivialization argument, that i did foresee. So, who needs to not flatter oneself?

Yes, i made it longer than i had to cause i was bored and at my computer and couldn't sleep, simple reasons. I wasn't thinking i was smart, i was pre-empting arguments and answering them so we didn't waste time arguing stupid points. It does make sense.

I'm not out to "win" like you presume, i don't know why you have some sort of stigma about it. It's not as if you didn't go out of your way to "criticize" julie several times. Even again after the big one, julie said something adn then you went off...yet again. So yes, you did "win" as well. Why did you even say that? trying to victimize yourself just because i "lectured" to you? You have been known to type posts even longer than me, beyond the character limit. So why be hypocritical and say "it's longer than it had to be" when you've done the same thing? No, i'm not thinkilng i'm smart, i'm asking becuase it seems rather hypocritical of you and because you took offense to my post haha. Here, i'll pull a psytek:

face the facts...i always post like that, and i was only saving time by pre-empting possible stupid arguments and answering them. Simple as that. My posts are ALWAYS this long. Look in the debate forum, or anywhere, don't get offended you weren't a special case.

Finally, i wasn't here to argue either no matter how much you think so. I was here and saw you "go off" in a way on something that was really not necessary at all, and was like "what the hell?", was bored again, and decided to post. Arguing takes two people budday.

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quote:
Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0

and don't even go there trying to defend his reasoning of putting the word "love" into his post. that is an argument YOU cannot win, master debater. i think from the context which YOU did not pay close enough attention to, he views "deep caring feelings" and "love" as the same thing. therefore he DOES purposely use it in a useless way since he is mixing up meanings of what love really means with something he's fabricated in his head. crushes are usually placed on a high pedestal in one's mind, meaning they DO have a correlation with "the ideal love" which one would seek to obtain at that stage in their life.



There's an easy way to resolve this, we're both just implicating what he could mean. We can just ask him

Spartan: Do you really think that it is real love that you have for this crush of yours? or is it just used in the context of having deep feelings for her? And, are they synonymous?

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No Hable. Me no speaka da english.

I have no clue why this is such a big thing. I mean, I like her, it's a crush. I already know I 'm not going no where with this girl. I just stand afar and just wish that I could. Isn't that a crush? Or at least a type of one? I don't know, so confuzed... what?

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quote:
Originally posted by MiGhTy KiTTy
psytek's funny. xP hes a good man. haha =X



Psytek is a guy?

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quote:
Originally posted by Spartan
No Hable. Me no speaka da english.

I have no clue why this is such a big thing. I mean, I like her, it's a crush. I already know I 'm not going no where with this girl. I just stand afar and just wish that I could. Isn't that a crush? Or at least a type of one? I don't know, so confuzed... what?



It's not a big thing, we're just discussing it.

thank you. All right, notice how he substitued the word love for like here. If he interchanges them, we can look at the context of the other one and such that he used love as meaning deep inner feelings, not actual love. His intent was the word like. And, even if he said it before as love the mere mention of the word shouldn't have to constitute a pandemic meaning in my opinion. I don't see why love has to mean true love. I mean love can be a mitigated form of true love. That's what i think and i think his discourse shows that he has a delineation between the two. Anyway, i jsut felt like finishing the analysis even though you don't wnat to "argue" psytek. Not like i do.

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I don't know. she's just different from the girls I've met before, not that I've met all the girl's in the world. But she's so pure, comforting. There's just something about her that I can't explain. ^^;

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quote:
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There's just something about her that I can't explain. ^^;

exactly haha theres just something about HIM (in my case) i cant explain and i havent seen it in neone else

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quote:
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I don't know. she's just different from the girls I've met before, not that I've met all the girl's in the world. But she's so pure, comforting. There's just something about her that I can't explain. ^^;


omygoodness...thats exactly how i feel about this girl. She is just so different from any other girls. she's just amazing

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my first crush was two years older than me, tall, chinky-eyed, spikey hair, played volleyball and had braces! haha! They glistened when he smiled! I like braces!

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i got over him.

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well. he's 1 year younger than me and usually i don't go for younger guys. he dresses nicely, clean. he's taller and he looks a bit older than me. he can breakdance and takes taekwon do. korean. and has a cute smile. makes me feel all good inside when i talk to him.


hm. but i'm not sure i really like him, he's juss someone that's on my mind

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what i like about my crush..
hmm...
i like everything about my crush, hehehe
newayz, he is a lot taller than me, kids around a lot..
1 year older than me...
not that kyoote but its all right..
i like his personality and stuf....

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crushes don matter

crushes suck... all u need is sum1 that sucks dick, and swallow the cum, ladies, u need a guy with a huge wang

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Re: crushes don matter

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crushes suck... all u need is sum1 that sucks dick, and swallow the cum, ladies, u need a guy with a huge wang


Wow, what an extremel vulgar comment.

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i like my crush's clothes style~ really unique! it's not gq, conservative, or thuggish like most asian guys... it's different~ it's like... casual mixed with a lil punky style~ haha! it's cool!

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There is this girl at my church (Not the one I described on my other post) Shes the kind of person that you want to cuddle with Nice smile, a happy go lucky personality. Too bad its never gonna happen

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There is this girl at my church (Not the one I described on my other post) Shes the kind of person that you want to cuddle with Nice smile, a happy go lucky personality. Too bad its never gonna happen


wutz wid da pic? my cruch? i really don't have one right now, glad wid life as it is but ofcourse there are times when i wish i had someone there besides me but donno who

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wutz wid da pic? my cruch? i really don't have one right now, glad wid life as it is but ofcourse there are times when i wish i had someone there besides me but donno who


hahahaha ill be by your side! puahahaha jus jk

i like my crush because hes cute and nice ^_^ i saw him breakdance well not attually because peeps were in my way he has a nice hair cut and smile too >.~ hehehe.
he's the same age as me or maybe a year older but in the same grade but he's on a different team than me

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my crush changed lol well..i dont have a crush nemore..with the help of my dearrr friend lolol i got over this guy i liked for a long time..and now that i look back on it he was a jack ass and things would of never worked out neway..lol

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i like the girl im with rite now a lot cause i feel so comfortable when im with her. on valentines day we spent 9 hours sitting on a couch talking and watching tv at her house. i am calling this a crush because i dont think i know her well enough to say she is a love or something beyond that. i just really enjoy her prescence along with many other things. those r private tho.

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