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Re: virgin? non-virgin?
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Originally posted by LiL_HyeSung
if you've had sex b4....
wat age did u lose it? did u like it?
if you haven't, what age do u wish to lose it at?
me..
i think i'm getting very close to losing it..
in abt a few weeks or so?
but i'm only 13...
but i think i'm ready..
You think your ready. har har har...
You need to face so many facts that it's ridiculous. You, in all your maturity at the supposedly ready age of 13, think that your ready for sex. your mother must have been one hell of a comedian, because i don't know how else you could have learned to come up with such a joke.
Premarital sex at a young age such as yours basically DAMNS you to a life of being known as a slut. You will never garner respect again from your peers for the rest of your teenage life due to your badly-made reputation. Think no one will find out? Yeah, right. If Bill Clinton can't get away with it, neither can you. You will never be looked upon again as a young intelligent woman, but instead as a piece of meat, as easy prey, and as a quick fix when someone feels an itch in their balls. You think your so mature, yet you can't even begin to understand the meaning of the word 'maturity'. You think your ready, yet you don't even know what your getting yourself ready for.
One in four sexually active teens become infected with a sexually transmitted disease every year. Not one in a million. Not one in a hundred. Not one in every ten, not one in every five. But your young, and like the rest of us, you probably don't give a damn about statistics, huh. Suit yourself.
but wait, want to know how much one drop of semen can contain? let's just say it's not exactly a damn bowl of lucky charms:
gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, venereal warts, chlamydia, pelvic inflammatory disease, and Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS). oh but you don't care about that list, do you? i mean you are thinking smart, you probably have an arsenal of contraceptives... condoms, birth control pills, and so forth. and so in your "maturity" think that your safe as can be... and that you can have sex without facing any risk of getting diseases or getting pregnant. well, face the facts you ignorant girl. there is no such thing as 100% immunity when it comes to sex, and there will ALWAYS BE A PERCENTAGE CHANCE that your gonna get screwed over with something that you really don't want to have. you think there is virtually no chance because the percentage chance might be too small? why don't you be a smart ass and tell that to the 200 million people across the nation who buy lottery tickets everyday. same deal.
all facts aside, i think i've invested enough time trying to convince your pea-sized brain that sex at the age of 13 isn't exactly something romantic like a scene out of Titanic. Here is a final checklist that, if you answer yes to, i will completely and utterly agree with you on the issue that you are indeed ready for the oh so wonderful world of sticking a penis in your vagina.
are you ready to be called a "ho" and a "slut" constantly behind your back by friends and strangers alike?
are you ready to face the excrutiating pains brought to you by multiple types of STDS you can acquire during sex?
are you ready to get pregnant and lose all respect from everyone you've known since the day you were born?
are you ready to live in fear that every and any guy you meet or fall in love with are just using you for sex because they know of your sexual past?
are you ready to go into long periods of depression because you thought you were ready for something when you really weren't?
are you ready to be on Jerry Springer for the "I don't know why everyone is calling me a dirty slut" episode?
well if you answered yes to any of the above, then by all means go and have sex. but. if you didnt- get your damn act together and learn that your on the brink of making one of the biggest mistakes a teenage girl could make. ever.
p.s. - yellow mellow, you have no clue what the hell your talking about. you think your some kind of knowledgeable expert on how young children have the capacity to express true love because you watched the learning channel and read a few magazines? what did they do, follow kids around and count how many check marks they had for each act of love each kid executed? seriously, young people DON'T know what love really is until they get older. its not an issue of maturity, but an issue of enlightenment. some people will get older and still be in a state of immaturity, but never the less they will still know the true meaning of love because it is something only time and experience can reveal to you, and nothing else. if you want a full-blown argument from me, just make a seperate topic concerning the issue and i will pound u with so much common sense it'll make you want to never trust the learning channel again. but all this aside, let us not forget there is a little girl here who is still in need of a little more than common sense. peace.
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but real well-said *gives 2 thumbs up* 
09-01-2002 07:45 AM
"love is felt just as strongly as when you're young as when you're old"
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