quote: Originally posted by seung ju
gotta disagree with you on that. its very realistic and logical. like the whole online relationship deal -- your cousin is a rare case, but that doesnt change the fact that its very strange she would do such a thing with someone she never met... which makes it seem cheap and artificial.
and i'm reminded of an old saying - "love comes to those who wait." its not a good idea to try to rush love, or all it'll be is a cheap filler for empty emotions. julie is 15, safe to assume you're probably around the same age. you dont need love now. you should care more about school and your future, its more important in that stage of your life.
yes, some people do meet their one when they're young, but they most likely didnt date for this to be their only one, it just happened to work out that way. this is another rare case -- dating is what helps seperate the sour from the sweet.
believe me, when you get older, and get out in the real world, things are a lot different. you're living sheltered lives now, reality hits you real hard when you're on your own, and you change your view on a lot of things and learn to be brutally realisitc, b/c you need to be if you want survive out there. i sure as hell did, and you will too. maybe then you'll understand where pystec is comin from. but honestly i think all you kids lack the life experience needed to even mumble two words about true love.
well thats my 2 cents. peace out -
it's not cheap love dat my cousin would "do such a thing with someone she never met." yes its true they never met, but they've known each other for 2 years and their relationship was and still is very strong. like i said before, the QUALITY of the relationship is wat counts right? oh and i'm reminded of dat saying... "love makes u do crazy things."
and i agree with you about wating for love. i'm like dat too, but the point i was trying to make in my previous post is... everyone does things differently. if one decides to wait, then good for him/her. but if another doesn't, dats their own decision for their own life. no one can tell them they're wrong, becuz its not their life.
for u to say "all you kids lack the life experience needed to even mumble two words about true love," only applies to a certain number of people. i dunno if u directed to me, but it sounds like it since u said "i sure as hell did, and you will too. maybe then you'll understand where pystec is comin from." well i may be turning 17 tomorrow, but dat doesnt mean i havent experience life and wat true love is about. i'll tell u now dat i have experienced wat love is. and btw, even tho i'm 17 (not as old as some of u on jsl), some people tell me i'm more mature than i really am.
oh and i appreciate the way u commented on my previous post. u were honest and straightforward, but u weren't scolding me becuz u disagree. i appreciate ur manner.=)
-edit- oh and back to the cheap love subject... i have an analogy (sort of) so maybe u'll have a clearer understanding of wat i mean. ok so technology is very advanced nowadays. people use internet for many different things, ie. meeting people online (since we're on dat subject). well it can be very dangerous, but there is STILL alot of people out there meeting people online. and there IS alot of NORMAL (and when i say dis i mean people who arent looking for lil girls to rape or etc) out there who submit personals online hoping to meet someone new. as technology advances even more, people also go online for schooling. they learn online. and who knows in the future... probably schools (buildings) wont exist any longer and our kids will be getting their education thru the internet. do u call dat cheap education.. just becuz its ONLINE?? it can be just as good.
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