Essay of a response...
I read a lot of the posts here in this thread, and was impressed by how many of you guys were "non-shallow." heh heh, will I be the first to say that looks do matter? It does, I'm not saying I base my relationships on looks, but I'd be more confortable talking to a good looking girl, only because she's a pleasant sight. And because I'm comfy looking at her,...it's easier for me to get to know her more.
It also has to do with the standards of each guy. What if each of these guys thinks their "avg" or "okay" looking girl is hyo ri or something, you know? But anyways, when I first look at her, I notice her smile, because if you meet someone who isn't smiling, it isn't very inviting...*maybe she's trying to hint something. But after that, would definitely be her eyes. If her eyes are locked on yours, and yours on hers...it means a lot...and makes you feel more...dare I say "wanted." But that brings a special connection between you two.
And then afterwards, when walking with her, of course you'll notice her body. But again, it really depends on the standards...
Like, myself, I'm an avg. heighted guy, so I like petite women,...shorter, thin,...in general, more cute than pretty/hot/gorgeous.
Interests. When you do something you like together, like dancing or swimming, gracious,...it can be very enticing ...and that's where looks come in also. (so I think) I would like a girl who can move...move very very well.
Anyways, I just thought I'd write a little about what I like in a girl. And just wanted to say that from the first moment to the last, the aspects of 'looks' and 'personality' intertwine. So in a way, I'm not ashamed that I look for looks as much as I look for personality. Because in a sense, having a long relationship with a girl...you'll always notice new things about her looks,..."wrinkles on her nose when she smiles," and you also notice new things about her person...which is, of course, enchanting.
lost adonis
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