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junjinluber33
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need of advice from both sex (dat'd be nice))

oiye! well, theres this guy james, i met him not that long ago, n i think im starting to have feelings for him. hes a year older than me which isnt bad, hes real talkative and can keep a convo going, and we totally click! but, i dont really think he feels the same way towards me. we feel the same way about soo many things and alot of other really weird stuff happened, but ahhh! i dunno if i should keep my mouth shut and wait to see what happens, or if i should tell him how i feel, etc. ARG! what do you guys suggest?

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i think you should just tellh im how u feel
sometimes if u wait and see and put it off
he might lose feelings if he had any and think that you dont like him! so you should really just let it out and tell him.
but i know its realy hard sometimes
lol
i cant tell ppl how i feel bout them if my life depeneded on it! altho i did once and..wel...yea. lol.
but i think u should tell him

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maybe you can give 'signals' to him...

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yesh... give him some hints and see how he respond to them..

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Give it some time and when he is ready he might come out of his shell and propose to you~

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Yes... you should try to tell him and you should speak to him through body language too...

BUT.... don't be too obvious or make yourself seem easy and that he can have you just like that (even if you feel that he can have you like that)... You don't want to be too obvious because what if he rejects you when he finds out? You'll be really embarrassed about it... I know... I've been through it...

I guess the best thing to do is ask him straight up if he likes you... That's the best way to approach someone you like and actually get the whole truth... If you are going to do that, DO NOT send someone else to ask him... Ask him yourself... You always wanna know the details... Like how he looks when you ask him...

Iyah, I could go on and on about giving you advice... If you need more consultant, just contact me through Private Messaging... I'll gladly help you!

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just keep your mouth shut, don't tell him directly how you feel cuz that'll just majorly freak him out. the best thing to do is to flirt with him more.

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i've been flirting! ahhh! he does flirt back sometimes buh that's wut makes me unsure of his feelings~ ya kno... since its only SOMETIMES~ OIYE!

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best thing to do is to be upfront with him in a subtle way... ask him to the movies... but just you and him... it's upfront but you don't have to say "i like you, will you be my boyfriend?" ^^

so like " hey you wanna go to the movies just you and me?" sumthing like that.... hopefully he won't be dense and he'll figure it out... the worst he can do is say no... in that case... then don't worry you'll find someone else.... there are bajillion fish in the sea.... literally too.....haha

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i alwaize admire honesty and frankness and pplz, and i try to be the same. wut i wud to is just walk rite up to him and tell him he's being so freakin slow!! goodness if u've been flirting wit him and he still hasn't figured it out maib u dun want a guy thaz so slow neway i say tell him

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i was invited to go to the block this saturday w/ some of my friends n i was thinking about asking james to come buh not sure if he can go yet... im thinking about telling him then buh how do i do it? OIYE!

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Tell him you want to show him your boobs.


btw: this isnt exactly good advice, but then that wasnt exactly what you asked for.

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Tell him you want to show him your boobs.


btw: this isnt exactly good advice, but then that wasnt exactly what you asked for.


hahahaha! icic~

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quote:
Originally posted by junjinluber33
i was invited to go to the block this saturday w/ some of my friends n i was thinking about asking james to come buh not sure if he can go yet... im thinking about telling him then buh how do i do it? OIYE!


yea you should ask him to go wid y'all

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i'm trying to ask him... buh yea... oiye! i still dunno what to do! wait and see what happens, or should i make the move and tell him how i feel? hmmm... i have nooo idea how ima tell him how i feel~ i wanna do it in person... buh we don't exactly go to the same school or anything so yea... grrr! this sucks!

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ok over the past week, we havent talked on the phone once... well one time but it wasnt even a conversation. i invited him to the movies, he already had plans. he couldnt go out today either. sucks... i think im starting to lose interest in him buh i keep thinking, wut if i miss out on something? arg! dunno wut to do? i think ima just tell him straight out... unless something else comes up... dunno SiGh*
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i'm trying to ask him... buh yea... oiye! i still dunno what to do! wait and see what happens, or should i make the move and tell him how i feel? hmmm... i have nooo idea how ima tell him how i feel~ i wanna do it in person... buh we don't exactly go to the same school or anything so yea... grrr! this sucks!


hmm. your starting to lose interest just because he's not responding to you? that's nice. face the facts: don't be like one of those peeps who don't get something and therefore end up being like "well i didn't really want it anyway".

no offense. im just straightforward. you need to get your act together and stop brooding on what to do and just do it. ask him, and yeah i know its not as easy as im saying it, but seriously, the way your tellin it, u should just ask him.

get it over with, it'll be a comfortable closure or a brilliant beginning.

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once again..i agree wit dat "face da facts" dOod~

i think u should juss tell him straight out..he'll either like u tOo..
or he wont..

juss lettin him knoe will do him a favor..maybe den..he'll start having feeings for u tOo~
but dere are alwayz side affects~

but if i were u..i'll tell him..and dont get ur friends to tell him..cuz da situation will only get even more confOozing..

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