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psyTeK's story.

my relationship with my first girlfriend has finally come to a close, this night on December 8th.

what started out as a fun, exciting relationship declined into a complicated jumble of emotions and feelings. as we progressed, we both found out so much about the other person, as well as ourselves. through all of this, i have learned how jealous i am, how selfish i am, and how restless i am when it comes to this girl that i have been going out with for these past several months. no regrets, however, since you take what you learn and you use it to improve yourself for the better. i only wish i had learned these lessons faster, but as we will all find out, life does not comform to all of your desires.

we had our last conversation as boyfriend and girlfriend tonight, and we ended on as calm and friendly terms as possible. we never got into a single argument in our relationship, for which im proud, and its comforting to know our relationship did not end because of something petty like that. it ended for us because we are two different people who couldn't make things work simply because we didn't have a strong enough chemistry together to look past one another's differences.

tonight, we both acknowledged each other to be a great, good-hearted person. we both know it's true with all of our being. but two good people in this world aren't always meant to be for each other, and that is a wise thing to remember later on.

memories are all that is left now, half good, half bad... but the experience as a whole was worth it, and regrets will not be made anytime soon. we agreed to be friends, but not good friends as she requested from me, since i personally will find it hard to attach any more sentimental feelings to her after tonight.

life goes on, and so will I. the experience was rocky but enlightening. the results were harsh on my emotions, but good in a sense that through all of this i have learned qualities about myself i probably would have never been aware of if i didn't take part in this relationship.

we never kissed, and we never exchanged "i love you"s. she's extremely conservative (because she's a fob), but i wouldn't have wanted it any other way. the most we did was hold hands, but that was enough for the both of us. there was a good amount of maturity revolving around us, and i'm glad that she was the way she was, because i learned how to be patient and appreciative through her. qualities which younger teenagers these days seem to lose a grasp of as their hormones lead their actions in a relationship instead of their heart.

i'm jealous to think about who her next boyfriend is going to be. i've been jealous for as long as i have been going out with her, since i can tell you all with a bet on my own life that she is very... let's say aesthetically pleasing, heh. cute, pretty, whatever you perceived her to be. but what can i say. i can only hope her next boyfriend is as respectful or more respectful than i was to her. i know she probably wishes the same for me too.

this now-ended relationship is what my life was about for the past several months. it ended far from when i anticipated it to, but the point is i went into it knowing it was going to end one day. that's how this story goes, people. if one person pulled anything remotely useful from this, then my job is done.

face the facts, life goes on. i'm not exactly happy, but i am thankful that i got a chance to experience my first relationship with a great girl. you'd be surprised how many people can reflect back on their first relationship with the same kind of respect and thankfulness. they say you never forget your first love, and in a sense i find that true. however, i won't know until i'm old and grey if this girl was really my first "love". that is something only time can tell upon, but i'm willing to wait and see.

accept the circumstances life throws at you, and learn from the mistakes you make and the experiences you live through instead of bitchin' and moanin' about it to others and yourself. i wrote all of this to simply tell you about what i have learned, and obviously not for the reasons of soaking in self-depression and anger as some of you younger kids have a tendency of doing. no one likes a drama queen, remember that.

this is my story... get something from it if you can. peace.

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wow~ that was very interesting psytek. but im really glad instead of being all sad and stuff you learned from your relationship.

sorry if i dont make sense..just i was relaly moved by it. =)

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dat was very touching..... but do not assume dat all young teens will take it the way you said we will take... cuz young adults are smarter than you think and trust me. WE most ALL of us know dat first love is always the hard ones. ok i just wanted to point out dat one but other wise dat was very touchy story thanks for sharing.

yeah that's really cool that it was a mutual compromise that the both of you agreed too .. and that it didn't have to resort to bashing or name calling


even though this relationship has to come to a close ... i'm glad that you got something more valuable out of it to take with you onto your next relationship ... hopefully with that it mind .. you'll be able to learn and adjust yourself to the next one ..

good luck

OMG! THE MYSTERY IS SOLVED!!!

hahahaa i've always wondered wat the infamous psytek was like, aside from the "fact the facts" stuff..... newayz, it was very enlightening on my part to see a "human" side of u! thanks for sharing ur story. i wish u the best of the luck in the future.

oh yeah... tho u did share a story, i feel like there is more mystery to u. like u dun really share about anything else... like age, race, where u live, etc.....

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yes... i was suprised, i didn't think you would ever come out to show what kind of person you really are, besides the frightningly decisive and calculating psytek... its easy to say that everyone learns something out of their relationships... the real test is applying what you learn about people and yourself to future relationships... thats what i learned anyway...

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Originally posted by TyGer STyLe
yes... i was suprised, i didn't think you would ever come out to show what kind of person you really are, besides the frightningly decisive and calculating psytek... its easy to say that everyone learns something out of their relationships... the real test is applying what you learn about people and yourself to future relationships... thats what i learned anyway...

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hmm.. first relationship huh.

now that you've revealed a lil bit of who you are.. i can tell you to face the ass and say "i love you jsl people"

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im glad everything between the two of you is well she seemed like a very special person. its true that over time you will find someone new someone maybe someone who will always make you smile and just the thought of them can brighten your day...i hope everything goes well in your future and thanks for sharing.

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nice.

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Originally posted by LiLbLuEaZnBoY
nice.

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wow. I like ur story. interesting. It KINDA in a way relates to whats happenin to me andstuff, kinda. You're a really strong person or atleast it seems like it. Thats cool that you can deal with the situation that you had like that, i wish i could do it that easily. Yea, I have learned alot from breaking up with my first girlfriend also. I guess younger relationships are there to learn from and to experience.

Re: psyTeK's story.

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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
my relationship with my first girlfriend has finally come to a close, this night on December 8th.

what started out as a fun, exciting relationship declined into a complicated jumble of emotions and feelings. as we progressed, we both found out so much about the other person, as well as ourselves. through all of this, i have learned how jealous i am, how selfish i am, and how restless i am when it comes to this girl that i have been going out with for these past several months. no regrets, however, since you take what you learn and you use it to improve yourself for the better. i only wish i had learned these lessons faster, but as we will all find out, life does not comform to all of your desires.

we had our last conversation as boyfriend and girlfriend tonight, and we ended on as calm and friendly terms as possible. we never got into a single argument in our relationship, for which im proud, and its comforting to know our relationship did not end because of something petty like that. it ended for us because we are two different people who couldn't make things work simply because we didn't have a strong enough chemistry together to look past one another's differences.

tonight, we both acknowledged each other to be a great, good-hearted person. we both know it's true with all of our being. but two good people in this world aren't always meant to be for each other, and that is a wise thing to remember later on.

memories are all that is left now, half good, half bad... but the experience as a whole was worth it, and regrets will not be made anytime soon. we agreed to be friends, but not good friends as she requested from me, since i personally will find it hard to attach any more sentimental feelings to her after tonight.

life goes on, and so will I. the experience was rocky but enlightening. the results were harsh on my emotions, but good in a sense that through all of this i have learned qualities about myself i probably would have never been aware of if i didn't take part in this relationship.

we never kissed, and we never exchanged "i love you"s. she's extremely conservative (because she's a fob), but i wouldn't have wanted it any other way. the most we did was hold hands, but that was enough for the both of us. there was a good amount of maturity revolving around us, and i'm glad that she was the way she was, because i learned how to be patient and appreciative through her. qualities which younger teenagers these days seem to lose a grasp of as their hormones lead their actions in a relationship instead of their heart.

i'm jealous to think about who her next boyfriend is going to be. i've been jealous for as long as i have been going out with her, since i can tell you all with a bet on my own life that she is very... let's say aesthetically pleasing, heh. cute, pretty, whatever you perceived her to be. but what can i say. i can only hope her next boyfriend is as respectful or more respectful than i was to her. i know she probably wishes the same for me too.

this now-ended relationship is what my life was about for the past several months. it ended far from when i anticipated it to, but the point is i went into it knowing it was going to end one day. that's how this story goes, people. if one person pulled anything remotely useful from this, then my job is done.

face the facts, life goes on. i'm not exactly happy, but i am thankful that i got a chance to experience my first relationship with a great girl. you'd be surprised how many people can reflect back on their first relationship with the same kind of respect and thankfulness. they say you never forget your first love, and in a sense i find that true. however, i won't know until i'm old and grey if this girl was really my first "love". that is something only time can tell upon, but i'm willing to wait and see.

accept the circumstances life throws at you, and learn from the mistakes you make and the experiences you live through instead of bitchin' and moanin' about it to others and yourself. i wrote all of this to simply tell you about what i have learned, and obviously not for the reasons of soaking in self-depression and anger as some of you younger kids have a tendency of doing. no one likes a drama queen, remember that.

this is my story... get something from it if you can. peace.

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*clap....clap....clap* kudos kudos
its completely true that u will always remember ur first luv, not some immature crap relationship but someone u actually luvd. congrades 2 u psytek and gl wit ur next gf. but a warning, when ur ex does get a new bf careful of ur emotions.

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Originally posted by aznkid1008
but a warning, when ur ex does get a new bf careful of ur emotions.

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wow.. dats really moving psytek =]

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"we never kissed, and we never exchanged "i love you"s."

you kindle a strength many simply do not and will never have.
I respect that.

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wow... thank you 4 sharing that bit of your life with us. i hope everything works out 4 you in the end and yia... the part where u said... no, nvm.. all of it was touching! thx 4 opening up

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that was awesome.
Thanks for sharing.
You're a huge help (even if some disagree) to this section of the forums.
Thanks for your help too!

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