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What's your fault when it comes to dating?

My fault is... I give and give and give and give... then he leaves me :sad:

i worry too much..heh..and i *sometimes* expect more from the guy..but i never tell him..cuz yah..hahah =X im wierd like that. -__-;

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my fault is that i just cant straight out get no date ...

i need a man!

im so lonely -_-

hehe ..

I don't care. That's my problem. In a relationship she can give all she wants but it doesn't mean nothing to me. Its because I don't care what she has to give, I care what she has. If she is trying to sell me something that means she's either a Jahova's witness or a door 2 door salesmen.

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well i havent dated anyone for about 3 years.. but some of my problems then...

1.if the girl doesn't call me back i tend to think of the worse case scenarios and even get jealous
2.if the girl appear to lose interest in me i usually get worried and indulge in self pity when in actuality there was no loss of interest and it was just all in my head.. i keep doing that and i feel stupid.
3.i used to always apologize for everything. i hated that about myself
4.i tend to rely on the phone to build relationships ..i mean when i have her to myself in a car ride or dinner.. it's just not the same. why? because of reason no.5
5. someetimes i have very low selfesteem when it comes to my looks.. so i rarely make eye contact because that means she has to look at me.. so i'd usually look away when i talk.. but sometimes it would have an affect where they would feel ugly.. so at the end.. we all just feel ugly.. kinda silly huh
6. i over analyze
7. i get nervous (even if its my girlfriend of whatever months) and always have nothing to say or i say something stupid.

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i sometimes expect too much from my girlfriend.

and on a side note reply, face the facts, you can't buy someone's affection with kind gestures and gifts if the interest just ISN'T THERE.

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Yes, gifts are an added extra. You should never base anything on them. You should never give that much. I know they say love like you've never loved before. If you do that, your heart will be broken into a million pieces. My suggestion is don't care so much. Its just a relationship, you know there are gonna be many more.

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Re: What's your fault when it comes to dating?

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Originally posted by Ladi Jay
My fault is... I give and give and give and give... then he leaves me :sad:

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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
i sometimes expect too much from my girlfriend.

and on a side note reply, face the facts, you can't buy someone's affection with kind gestures and gifts if the interest just ISN'T THERE.

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i don't talk out to them i usually just listen to them. I'm also very worried and usually call everyday.... i guess i annoy them or something

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i hab diz disability tuh be able to open up about meeh or mai lyf or wut i feel... its hard! :huh: eben in freNdships... jOsh noes... :satisfy:

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Originally posted by hip hOp Yu Ja
i hab diz disability tuh be able to open up about meeh or mai lyf or wut i feel... its hard! :huh: eben in freNdships... jOsh noes... :satisfy:

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hahahaah

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well when girls break up with me they all say the smae thing as a reason lol "you're a nice guy, but you act to dorky" or "you're always jokin around" o well

there's already a thread like this.

mine is... jealousy... and i get too emotional...

im not very affectionate/lovey-dovey and i also dont put that much effort into the relationship

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mynes.. jealousy too.. i get too paranoid.. wen jus a LIL thing happens...

not paying attention to him
ignoring him
not very... affectionate
affectionate more towards friends than him
aigo..

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Originally posted by niggoreanboi
well when girls break up with me they all say the smae thing as a reason lol "you're a nice guy, but you act to dorky" or "you're always jokin around" o well

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my fault....I expected very little back...meaning that if I gave 100% on a relationship and they give 50% back, I'll find some stupid excuse to accept that....

thank goodness it's not like that anymore....