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Red Lobster incident...

I live in charlotte, nc..the south state. Alot of crazy rednecks in pickups and ford cars...

Anyway, my family went to red lobster tonight and went inside, we had to wait 10 minutes for our seats. While we were sitting on this bench, there were these white couple who were staring right at us. The girl was whispering to her man about US and the guy was staring dead at my father.....


Im a short tempered korean guy. If someone looks at me strange, talks about my race or my family,..i go berzerk. I will destroy anything....

Don't you hate it when people stare at you? I know, stare back at them..but, im different and can't help it.

i'm also short tempered..
but i can sometimes be patient [depends on my mood]
but if someone was staring at me and whispering..
first..i'll just maddog em...if they keep staring and whispering..
thats when i'll say somethng..

I laugh.
Over the summer while on vacation, I went to a place where the only off white race was my family and friends. We went for a walk on the boardwalk and two adult women came up to my mother and her friend(they were speaking to each other in Filipino). The two adult women asked my mother if this was America, they were like.. Is this America? Are you sure this is the US? Because if it is, speak English.
My mother and her friend just laughed as so did I. They spoke Filipino amongst themselves.. what harm was there in that? It's funny to see there are people in the world that still think like that, so

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there are a lotta azn pplz where i live so thaz never happened....but if sum1 wuz starin at me like that i'd just flip them off. simply enuff solved

Of course there would be alot of asians where you live, its california.lol

I want to get tinted windows on my car, but you cant get them on driver's side or passenger side in charlotte. I hate people staring at me at red lights.

it isnt too bad around here.....but ppl lyke that, if its in skoo, get backup n then a fight.....

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why bother cuz gettin angry just puts you on their level.

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thanx huby40

well, it aint rite, but thats the first reaction for some ppl

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Originally posted by nas
I laugh.

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Originally posted by seung ju
why bother cuz gettin angry just puts you on their level.

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My Indian Friend once said "I was just walking to the store and then these Korean people started staring at me and talking in Korean, I just knew they were talking about me"

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Originally posted by Alchemist
My Indian Friend once said "I was just walking to the store and then these Korean people started staring at me and talking in Korean, I just knew they were talking about me"

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Originally posted by KPak-NC



Tell others that asians are not quiet, shy, people.

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Originally posted by KPak-NC
probably one reason why some asians don't make a big scene. Tell others that asians are not quiet, shy, people.

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Originally posted by seung ju

so you'd rather come across as loud and obnoxious?

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Originally posted by KPak-NC


No. What i meant was that we should stand up against racism or anything that makes asians feel insecure in the US. If a person makes fun of you , dont walk away...stand up against him or her.

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Originally posted by seung ju

but the way you said that you handle it by "going bezerk" and saying that you'd "destroy anything" is an immature way to handle the situation, and can do more damage than good. all you do is fan the flames of their stupidity and give them more to work with. there are other ways to stand up for you rights than blowin up in someones face.

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yup

TRUST ME when i say i am very short tempered. . .
you can even ask my brother, he knows better than anybody -

but . . . i've been the punchline of many jokes at school for what i am . . . i've been subjected to public humiliation b/c i am half asian and ppl around here aren't used to that, i guess -
stuff like guys askin me how much i cost - and so on . . .

dude, they'll get what's coming to them, it wasn't for me to get upset b/c the way they act proves how intelligent they are.
the only thing that stopped stuff like that for me was to prove to them with my actions that i was better than that.

keep your cool, and keep your head up - life goes on.

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thanks mother.

niggahhh please..i live in a cracker land..i have a business here too..and being the only korean family that owns a donut-shop in this town..and also the fact the only korean male in this town..i hear the snicker and the talk and staring all the time..and i just play it off and just chill..and jus keep my cool...you know why..cause its a small town and almost (im sorry to say) but alot of these crackers know me..so it will make me look bad if i did anything or say anything..i just smile and walk away..cause it puts my shop in jeopardy if they try to retaliate..life is like that..just got to learn how to suck it up and just walk away..

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