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regret

well, i was with a guy for 29 days [yeah, someone actually counted] and it was going well until i went to sadies. it was a blind date kind of thing. so that meant, i didn't know how the guy looked, how tall he was, or what kind of style he wore. all i knew was that he was a friend of a friends. i talked to him only twice talking about what we should wear. i assumed it was this one guy, not so good looking guy, which meant it was good for me since i had a bf and i wouldn't get attracted. oh boy, was i wrong. sadies day came and we went to my friends place to meet up. once the door was swung open i see these three guys sitting on the stairs. i see the guy i assumed i was going with. i realized he wasn't wearing the same thing i was. i turned to my left and BAM, there's a cute guy wearing the same exact thing that i was. [NOTE: we didn't shop together, obviously] that night i became so attracted to him. no help came from my friends. all i got was, "hey, he's older, he has car, he can drive, what more can you ask for?". boy was i lost. couldn't think of my bf that night. it was so wrong! then i stopped calling my bf. so after sadies i talked to derrick more. he seemed really cool, buh not as talkative as dru, my bf. he seemed pretty much straight forward, a little mean, buh i thought that it was just his way of being "funny". then a few days later, after all that thinking and advice from friends, i broke it up with dru. it was hard. he didn't want to hear it. i wish i could have thought about it more. then i went out with derrick and found out he was a total jerk! i broke up with dru for that! and lately, i've just been missing dru and i want to be with him again. not just cause of what happened with derrick, but because i really like dru. derrick was more of a crush. dru still likes me, buh i'm not sure if he wants to be with me again. should i tell him or wait?

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well i think he's one of these:
A. mad at you
B. still want you back desperately
C. all of the above

if he's A. mad at you, then you should wait a while or talk to him about it.. "it was a big mistake i'm sorry...blah blah" but he might have trust issues so make sure he can trust you again
if he's B, haha then.... go for it girl. but same deal with the trust.
if he's C. then just combine those two things up there...

but what i think is... that you shouldn't have gone on a blind date if you had a boyfriend. yea why did you? why didn't you just take your boyfriend?

yea i agree wit mellowyellow (susan rite? ) maib wait until things hav cooled down a little...man...that is a realli sad story...*sigh* well sumtymz things aren't predictable and u learn from mistakes. but wen ur handling ur ex, be careful and try to make sure that he won't think u'll do sumtin like that again.

i dont think u should've broke up wit dru..obviously..u really like(d) him..so why would u let some friend of a friend get inbetween u guys? i'm kinda thinking..if u really did like dru..u wouldnt have done dis to him. and yea~ why DIDNT you go to sadie with ur bf? it prolly would've been more fun..maybe not..wutevaz.. but yea..i think u should let it go becuz u let go of dru for sum lil person who u ended up not liking anyway..eventually..u'll get over him and find sumone new ..if anything ever happens like dis again.."think before you talk" becuz "you never knoe wut u have until its gone"

sorry for soundin like a bitch

regret

the thing is, dru didn't want to go with me to sadies. as much as i begged him he said that he wouldn't have had fun since he "can't dance". then he just told me to go with someone else and have fun. =\

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Originally posted by mEssEdupFroGgie

the thing is, dru didn't want to go with me to sadies. as much as i begged him he said that he wouldn't have had fun since he "can't dance". then he just told me to go with someone else and have fun. =\

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Originally posted by mEssEdupFroGgie

i broke it up with dru. it was hard. he didn't want to hear it. i wish i could have thought about it more. then i went out with derrick and found out he was a total jerk! i broke up with dru for that! and lately, i've just been missing dru and i want to be with him again. not just cause of what happened with derrick, but because i really like dru. derrick was more of a crush. dru still likes me, buh i'm not sure if he wants to be with me again.

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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0

sorry to be blunt but don't cry if he doesn't accept you back because if i was him... yeah.

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fuck dat shit.. if i was dru.. and i found out about that shit.. i would never ever trust you ever again.. sorry to say but thats how i feel.. if i pour all my trust into a single person.. and she takes that trust and dumps it in the trashcan cuz of some dude with a car .. then fuck that girl.. yeah its all sad what happened to u.. but what the fuck about dru.. how the hell is he supposed to feel.. how the hell is he gonna trust u..

ok now that the angry part is gone.. ok .. nice me is here..
hey.. we all make mistakes.. how old are u? 14 15? yeah i've made lots when i was that young.. but u know what.. arent u being a lil selfish here? like through out your whole story.. you've been selfish.. just let him go.. maybe after a while when u mature.. then give him a ring ok? i think the fact that you ended up with nobody now is affecting your decision to be back with dru.. so sleep on it.. aight?
apologies to u for being so rude.. i didnt mean it.. just pisses me off thats all..

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ouch, that hurts... that's a liddo too harsh.. buh i guess it's the truth.. you guys act like i went out with derrick.. i met up with him because i wanted to chill one day and he was a jerk, that's all.. anyway, no excuses for this... thanks for all the heLp ppLz

oH, yeah, i'm 15.. =]

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