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Thoughts on girls/guys who cant go out...

I was wonderin what are your thoughts on girl/guy that cant really go out?..
I mean say you like this guy/girl.. and you find out later that he/she cant go out..not that he/she is grounded but he/she just cant go out

would you wait for him/her or
just stop likeing this person.. or
give this person a chance and be with this person but you guys just won spend as much time together?


GIrls what do you think?
Guys what do you think.. I'd really like to know what a guy would do in this situation....

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i had a problem wen I couldnt go out with my girlfriend. the only time that would be possible was if we went out with a group of friends. we went out a couple of times, but u dont get that same feeling like its just the two of you even tho ur friends leave u alone.

its hard, but it could work. unfortunately for me, it only worked for 4 months

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Re: Thoughts on girls/guys who cant go out...

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Originally posted by LuvSunghoonie
I was wonderin what are your thoughts on girl/guy that cant really go out?..
I mean say you like this guy/girl.. and you find out later that he/she cant go out..not that he/she is grounded but he/she just cant go out

would you wait for him/her or
just stop likeing this person.. or
give this person a chance and be with this person but you guys just won spend as much time together?


GIrls what do you think?
Guys what do you think.. I'd really like to know what a guy would do in this situation....

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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
face the facts, if your not "able to go out" due to parental reasons, it means your too young to be dating anyhow. parents don't restrict their child from going out or dating someone because they don't think it's right, but they do it because they know it's a waste of time at this point in their teenage lives compared to using that time to study and do well in school.

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well i never had a problem with a guy not being able to go out..but if i did come across that situation, it would depend on the reason..if he has a girlfriend, obviously i would back off..and also if it were for religious reasons and parental..but as for the parental thing, if he were willing to break it, i would go along with him but i think after awhile i would feel too guilty and just let him go

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hmm

tough situation...alot of things would have to be considered...def if there were religious reasons then def back off...also depends how much i like this person...if i liked her enough i would wait, def ...but also if i really liked her...i would try to talk to her parents because she would def be worth it

well, i agree with everyone. if you're restricted by ur parents, then it's probably because u really are too young. my parents restricted me in hs, and i didn't listen.... and i really really regret it. i really didn't know what i was doing. but even if u think u aren't too young, then i think its a proof of maturity to just listen to ur parents until ur outta high school or something. respect their authority as ur parents. if u really are mature and what u have is something mature, then it can wait.
so then for the other person... i think they should respect the parents no matter what. if the parents are restricting cuz they're too young but you really like them, you can wait them out.
honestly, i think i would have respected my high school bf more if he had told me he didn't want me to deceive my parents, even if that meant having to break up.
but if you're in a situation where its not about age anymore, if u really like the person then... as kangg fu says, talk to the parents. part of liking someone is being able to respect their parents. honestly, i would know my guy really loves me if he really cared about my relationship and his relationship with my parents and did his best to maintain that, even if it meant having to be more conservative about how he was with me... like seeing me less for a while, or only taking me out during the day, or whatever. i think if my guy said, "just lie to them, who cares," i would see it as a sign of selfishness.
he's gotta see the big picture.

Thx guys for the replies!~~
The problem right now is not my parents, or religion..
It's a much deeper and complicated situation..

Just wondering though..
say you are already with a bf/gf..

isnt it true that with time you will get sick or tire of not seeing ur other half? or you think that.. if love is truly there.. they will wait.. and wait b/c every moment they spend with you is precious to them..

anyone have any personal experiences??

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I'd go out with her anyways.

Re: Re: Thoughts on girls/guys who cant go out...

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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
face the facts

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Im in a situation where I really want to go out wid the girl but i cant bcuz shes my bestfriend.. wtf do ya do there? Im pretty much in love wid the girl but in a way i dont want to go out wid her bcuz it will definitely screw up our friendship in the long run. URRRG the frustration! AND SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW I LIKE HER LIkE DaT.

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move on

I wouldn't waste 1 more second on any person who couldn't meet me halfway. When you could be devoting that time and energy towards someone who would give you what you want.

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