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hm, just a question...if you were giving birth to a child, or if your wife was giving birth to your child, and the doctor told you only you (your wife) or the child could make it through, whhat (who) would you choose?

for me, i'd try to save my kid...

i would save my wife.. if i was to marry her.. obviousli i would want to be with her for tha res of my life. a child.. ugh if that happened.. than i would never want her to get pregnant again.. instead we'll hopefullli agree to adopt a kid.

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Originally posted by Street RSX
i would save my wife.. if i was to marry her.. obviousli i would want to be with her for tha res of my life. a child.. ugh if that happened.. than i would never want her to get pregnant again.. instead we'll hopefullli agree to adopt a kid.

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I'd try to save my child.

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you save child, child ends up growing without a mother. through the younger years the child will probably get made fun of for not having a mother, and as he grows older, people will show pity for him. the child will probably grow up thinking to himself why is he different from others, yet he does not know that others like himself are among him. the father will probably make up a lie that his mother died in a car accident or something acceptable, and not tell him that she died while giving birth, for the child will take that way too seriously and become depressed. instead, the father will tell the truth to the child when hes older, thus crushing him mentally even more. he will probably go through the years hiding his feelings towards other people, not expressing the pain within him. his life will probably be different, knowing that he does not have a mother, and therefore be more independant.

id rather save my wife because i dont want my child to go through all the pain and suffering throughout his life.

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seriously i dont know anyone who has ever made fun of anyone for not having a parent. and why would u lie to ur child about that, its not like he would be more traumitized by hearing his mother died by the hands of someone else than that she died for him. (noble cause)

i would save my wife cause u can make more babies with her, not that its a good thing to just kill a baby or nething, but i doubt the doctor would ask your decision in this matter. he would do the best he could to save the two of them, he wouldnt choose one or the other. if he had to choose one (like in a quick decision) i think he would save the mom cause it just makes more sense to me. also i cant think of situation that there could possibly be where you would only be able to save one of the two. if the baby couldnt get out, the would have a cesarian section neway so neither would die.

i dunno..itd be hard and all..but i think id save myself..it sounds selfish but the baby would have a harder life without a mother and then your leaving the dad to do it himself and i dont kno lol thats just how i feel..i dont kno

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Originally posted by .aS.|5p!7f!|23
seriously i dont know anyone who has ever made fun of anyone for not having a parent. and why would u lie to ur child about that

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Originally posted by Ladi Jay
there has been situations in both cases... for example, my friend was lied to about her mother... but I'm not saying that I totally agree with YaaMaKoh about his/her story

who ever or what ever it may be, it's all in the wife, husband, and doctor's decision... just be glad that we don't have to think about those kinda things right now and hope it will never happen to us...

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