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my current situation

well... things have been looking up for me in my love life i guess... ive been talking to a girl... haha... she just appeals to me haha to say the least... i think im really falling for her... but i seem to be facing the same problem as i always do... i don't know when to draw the line before a potential girl friend becomes more into a friend... for me i find it very difficult to move past friendship into a dating relationship... its just hard... im put in a dilemma when i like a friend... im just really afraid of making things awkward by saying what i feel, and losing a friend... so when im going after a girl... i try not to get too involved for fear of becoming a friend... any suggestions? or do i need to just grow some balls and ask her out? is that coming on too strong?

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Enter My Head!

i always do the same thing. if im not with a girl who will make the first move, i end up losing my balls and becoming first her friend but then i lose touch with her and end up just not talking to her and losing the relationship totally. if she does make the first move tho i always work from there and end up making some kinda relationship out of it.

hiyaz
yeah eyah dats happened to me lots of tyms alli can say ish dat u will noe when ur girl relali likes u or she's just being freidnly de signs will come and yeah al u have to do ish ask her out BUT BUT BUT BUT BUT if u guys break up den all hell breaks loose cuase der will be no freindship i learned it de hard way so DUN GO OUT WID UR BEST FREINDS EVER UNLESS DEY WANT TO. U JUST WASTE FREINDSHIPS BY DOING IT

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u are my vivian my onli vivian
u make me happy when skys are grey
u never noe dear how much i love u
so please don't take my vivian away
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that is a tough decision you have to make. The hard part about these situations is there are no clear cut answers and every situation is different. The thing is if you hold back from trying to make a new friend that is a gurl, it would be kinda hard to ever have another friend that is female, u know? Even if it is hard for you, I think becoming friends first and then moving on is the best way, because you get to know them first.