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Isn't it sad when...
The girl or guy you want to date is cool with you, but their parents won't allow it since you're not rich or smart enough for their child?
or the girl or guy you want to date, won't date you since you're not handsome or rich?
hahah
lolz
thats never happened to me........
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Well, i know some korean guys who got turned down, cus they dressed like street thugs, but were very smart.
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Well, i know some korean guys who got turned down, cus they dressed like street thugs, but were very smart.
I dunno, I was raised by the philosophy "Women are a nuisance, don't bother with them until you finish college" I think that sucks.
yeah.......
Hehe yeah ur right............. thats really sad but anyway its called life. & If guy (girl) luvs trully then everything`ll be alright!!! Have fun!!!!!!!! & 
I guess thats some reason why asian guys would date non asians, since the asian girl's parents want a high expectation out of the future husband and the asian guy would be like..ok...im not smart nor rich....ah, f**k it..
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Originally posted by KPak-NC
The girl or guy you want to date is cool with you, but their parents won't allow it since you're not rich or smart enough for their child?
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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
I'll argue for both sides of the situation. in your case, they don't have a right to judge your worth by the amount of money you carry or the amount of facts you know in your head. what matters most when dealing with relationships is your character, your personality and the amount of dedication you have in the one you love. as long as you have a good, healthy amount of each, then things as trivial as money or education shouldn't matter to either of you in the end.
BUT. you need to understand one thing here. although they have no right to judge you like that, it IS in the best interests of their daughter that they evaluate you based upon factors such as money and smarts. parents are justified in setting down such strict criteria for you to fulfill in order to go out with their child, because they only want the best for their son or daughter when it comes to love and dating. they want an equal, someone they know they can depend upon. and let's just face the facts, money and intelligence DOES go a long way in solving potential problems that can come up within a relationship down the road. you know what they say... "if your not smart enough to take care of the problem, then you better have enough money to hire someone who can".
basically, just get a job and study harder to prove your worth to her parents. you'll do it if she's really worth it. and if she's not... then stop trippin' and get over it.
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i wanna see you argue with yourself
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Re: Re: Isn't it sad when...
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Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
I'll argue for both sides of the situation. in your case, they don't have a right to judge your worth by the amount of money you carry or the amount of facts you know in your head. what matters most when dealing with relationships is your character, your personality and the amount of dedication you have in the one you love. as long as you have a good, healthy amount of each, then things as trivial as money or education shouldn't matter to either of you in the end.
BUT. you need to understand one thing here. although they have no right to judge you like that, it IS in the best interests of their daughter that they evaluate you based upon factors such as money and smarts. parents are justified in setting down such strict criteria for you to fulfill in order to go out with their child, because they only want the best for their son or daughter when it comes to love and dating. they want an equal, someone they know they can depend upon. and let's just face the facts, money and intelligence DOES go a long way in solving potential problems that can come up within a relationship down the road. you know what they say... "if your not smart enough to take care of the problem, then you better have enough money to hire someone who can".
basically, just get a job and study harder to prove your worth to her parents. you'll do it if she's really worth it. and if she's not... then stop trippin' and get over it.
I've experienced that
Yo....I dated this girl from my youth group for four months. We were all cool and stuff. We liked spending time with each other. Everything was gravy, except her parents. Her mom was ok, but her dad was a hater. Haha!!. My friends told me that he would talk dirt about me during their prayer meetings, like i would be rude to him on the phone. The fact is, that i have never talked to him on the phone for more thatn 10 seconds. He wanted everyone in the church to hate me. It's alright tho, cuz the girl and I are cool. And when her dad talked dirt behind my back and not said anything to me, it just shows how childish he is. And he is the one talking about we are too young. PSSSSH!!
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Originally posted by merdawg
Yo....I dated this girl from my youth group for four months. We were all cool and stuff. We liked spending time with each other. Everything was gravy, except her parents. Her mom was ok, but her dad was a hater. Haha!!. My friends told me that he would talk dirt about me during their prayer meetings, like i would be rude to him on the phone. The fact is, that i have never talked to him on the phone for more thatn 10 seconds. He wanted everyone in the church to hate me. It's alright tho, cuz the girl and I are cool. And when her dad talked dirt behind my back and not said anything to me, it just shows how childish he is. And he is the one talking about we are too young. PSSSSH!!
It shouldn't be that way but sadly sometimes it is.
stupid stupid stupid. shouldn't be like that.
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Originally posted by KPak-NC
Why is it that everyone thinks its about me? I got a gf.
Yea, her father is very arrogant. Just hang in there. Hes trying to break you to up..
yea, her father is VERY arrogant. and we broke up in april.
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Originally posted by merdawg
yea, her father is VERY arrogant. and we broke up in april.
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Originally posted by KPak-NC
So you're dating someone else? Good for you man. If you didn't break up sooner, you're life would've been in hell.
I know this korean girl who you should check out. She has 3 sisters too. 
ionno. i've never had a boyfriend. even if i did i wouldn't go advertise to my mom about it..
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