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why is it that...
real reason why i posted this... im very hurt from my recent ex that broke up wit me..... and im hurtin so much but it seemz like he'z not hurting or feeling anything at all...... so i wantd to ask.. if u.. doesnt matter.. guy or girl.... broke up wit sumone.... would u atleast be hurt a lil? :sad:
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It'z hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does....
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cuz the guy prob wants to break up with the grl already if he breaks up with her
but bout when the girl breaks up wit the guy?
how does the guy feel now ??
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Originally posted by LiLbLuEaZnBoY
cuz the guy prob wants to break up with the grl already if he breaks up with her
but bout when the girl breaks up wit the guy?
how does the guy feel now ??
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It'z hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does....
"Come to me all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28
I think that's a terrible generalization... not all guys are like that, and that doesn't always happen, despite what you mave have experienced/seen in your life. Granted, I know guys who don't really seem to care after their relationships end, but I think it's dangerous to paint that as a blanket statement. If a guy doesn't seem to care, it is possible he doesn't care. However, he may just not be showing it.
There are a lot of factors that can affect this though, the length of the relationship, the type of relationship, the extent of emotional investment, and others as well.
What happens in a mutual break-up? who's unhappy then? Would it be just the girl then?
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uhm, Im sure that this goes for both sexes... I mean, I'm sure there are relationships where the guy is being dumped and is all down about it and the girl is all laid back... yah, it hurts a lot to go through all that pain buh everyone goes through it... tommy's right though...
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quote:oh my god..that's one of the most generalizing statement i've ever heard...that is a bad accusation your making toward men..of course the men get hurt as well..it all really depends on the situation. if the guy played the girl..yea of course he wouldn't be hurt cause hurting her was his main intention..if it was just a clean break..and the girl is going through alot of emotional pain and stress..then why did they break up in the first position? i dont understand..men have feelings too you know.. were not all pigheaded and savages..i guess the guys in your area are jackasses..not much more i can say..
Originally posted by sTiLLcarefOryOu
when a guy breakz up wit a girl... the girl has to go through all the pain and the guy is juss okayy... that hurtz the most.... :sad:
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Originally posted by tm11
I think that's a terrible generalization... not all guys are like that, and that doesn't always happen, despite what you mave have experienced/seen in your life. Granted, I know guys who don't really seem to care after their relationships end, but I think it's dangerous to paint that as a blanket statement. If a guy doesn't seem to care, it is possible he doesn't care. However, he may just not be showing it.
There are a lot of factors that can affect this though, the length of the relationship, the type of relationship, the extent of emotional investment, and others as well.
What happens in a mutual break-up? who's unhappy then? Would it be just the girl then?
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It'z hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does....
"Come to me all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28
quote:like i said before..the guys in your area must be jackasses.. there all pretty young and immature also.. don't worry..they'll get their *do* sooner or later...
Originally posted by sTiLLcarefOryOu
i agree with u on wut u sed.. even after wut i sed.. but to me.. itz seemz like it alwayz the girlz.. not only me.. but my friendz too.. alwayz the girlz... and i have sum guy friendz that are like that too.. but they're the onez that have feelingz.. unlike otha guyz...
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Originally posted by Nojeel
like i said before..the guys in your area must be jackasses.. there all pretty young and immature also.. don't worry..they'll get their *do* sooner or later...
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It'z hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does....
"Come to me all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28
i don't think its like that thoe... i think ur generalizing this too much... i mean... okae... some guys may be like that... but not all... maybe their juss good at hiding their feelings... it all depends on the situation... wut the reason was... all that.
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Originally posted by sTiLLcarefOryOu
most guyz are immature anywayz.. it takez them longer to mature.. oh.. when will they grow..?
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i broke up with a girl last april. the reason was that her parents didn't really like me. Altho we didn't want to do it, we had to becuz we were getting seperated more and more. so we chose to have a mutual break-up. After that, i showed more emotion about it than she did. I don't know but it seemed that she just didn't care. I mean i took it hard for about 2 months, and she got over it in like 2 weeks. So it just goes to say that you can't really generalize guys. We are very different but yet the same. So, i know how aznkid1008 feels wen he says:
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Originally posted by aznkid1008
excuse me i feel extremely hurt over here.
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awww... that's sooooo sad! :sad: : sniff sniff :
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Originally posted by sTiLLcarefOryOu
umm.. i dunno where u come from... but itz not juss in one area.. trust me i kno .... one of my friend.. she likez this guy and that guy likez her too.. but his friendz have sumthing against them going outz cuz he'z koreanized and she'z americanized.. and she lives nowhere near my area... anywayzz.. not my point.. most guyz are immature anywayz.. it takez them longer to mature.. oh.. when will they grow..?
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I don't know. I guess it really depends on the type of the person is I guess. I guess guys can move on with things quicker than girls. ^^;
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Originally posted by sTiLLcarefOryOu
most guyz are immature anywayz.. it takez them longer to mature.. oh.. when will they grow..?
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oh wow! gone for three hours, I come back and this has a lot of posts already... blehs!
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Originally posted by sTiLLcarefOryOu
when a guy breakz up wit a girl... the girl has to go through all the pain and the guy is juss okayy... that hurtz the most.... :sad:
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grow up. you seem to like to think you know a lot, but all you do is make generalizations from your own personal experiences, which are probably childish to begin with, or from what your friends tell you, which is probably childish to begin with.
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Originally posted by tea
u only talk from the girls point of view
and plus..its not their fault that their faggots..and u tend to go out with them
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