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Posted by i<3 jusun oppa on 03-31-2002 05:16 PM:

agee..

age shoodnt matter if yooh liek a guy nd if he liekz u back rah?
i dun understand whie liek.. 10 yrz wood beeh bad..
.. ish awl bowt dah heart iznt it?

Posted by SoundCtrl on 03-31-2002 05:29 PM:

Re: agee..

quote:
Originally posted by i<3 jusun oppa
age shoodnt matter if yooh liek a guy nd if he liekz u back rah?
i dun understand whie liek.. 10 yrz wood beeh bad..
.. ish awl bowt dah heart iznt it?


10 yrs apart..now are the two people both adults or an adult or teen or a younger teen and older teen?

Posted by i<3 jusun oppa on 03-31-2002 05:32 PM:

letz sai.. 16 nd 26..

Posted by SoundCtrl on 03-31-2002 05:40 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by i<3 jusun oppa
letz sai.. 16 nd 26..


hmmm, well, even though love comes from the heart, you have to understand that society feels that it's immoral when a child and an adult love each other in any other way than family or friends.

If the younger person truely feels in their heart that they are in love with the older person, I'd suggest they make sure that the older person loves them back. I mean, is the younger person absolute?

Posted by WhiteLee on 03-31-2002 05:43 PM:

Re: agee..

quote:
Originally posted by i<3 jusun oppa
age shoodnt matter if yooh liek a guy nd if he liekz u back rah?
i dun understand whie liek.. 10 yrz wood beeh bad..
.. ish awl bowt dah heart iznt it?


Are the misspellings on purpose or...?

It shouldn't matter if you both love each other.
But there's always that minor law about an adult and minors....

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Posted by SoundCtrl on 03-31-2002 05:45 PM:

Re: Re: agee..

quote:
Originally posted by WhiteLee


Are the misspellings on purpose or...?

It shouldn't matter if you both love each other.
But there's always that minor law about an adult and minors....


LOL. The misspellings are a type of Ebonics.

Yeah.
Those laws would probably make it extremely hard for the couple.

Posted by i<3 jusun oppa on 03-31-2002 06:23 PM:

lol.. im sorrie~ its just the way i type.
^^ ill try to stop for you people.
lol.. wow.. its hard xP

Posted by i<3 jusun oppa on 03-31-2002 06:24 PM:

how would the law know though?

Posted by SoundCtrl on 03-31-2002 06:29 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by i<3 jusun oppa
how would the law know though?


Hmmm, well if you guys ever decided to get married? haha
or.. if a family member or like someone close to you knows they could tell..You'd have to be real secretive about the whole thing..

Posted by KeN VeRsUs RyU on 03-31-2002 06:38 PM:

lets just say.. if you're 16 and he's 26 ... it probably wont work out.. why? too many differences.. not just between you two guys .. im sure you guys have many things in common.. but things like maturity level and having different friends.. all contribute to the fact that you guys might be in over your heads... but im sure it has worked out for other people.. they just found the right kind of people.. y'know?

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Posted by bigChubuff on 03-31-2002 06:45 PM:

but there isnt a big difference between a 46yo and a 56yo

and if i was goin out wit a girl 10 years younger i would be datin a 5 year old

Posted by Jet on 03-31-2002 06:48 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by i<3 jusun oppa
letz sai.. 16 nd 26..


that's a bit much. i mean, let's assume that the girl is 16 and the guy is 26. the girl is still in high school. the guy is mostly likely working. he's passed college and high school already. she's worrying about prom, college applicatons, etc.

so there's a large age difference with a large experience gap. the maturity gap may or may not be there. people may like to beleive that it's "all about the heart" but tha'ts not always true. youth doesn't always realize that there are a lot of different factors that must come together for a relationship to work.

i'm assuming the worst so bear with me. the girl probably likes "older" men but that's not always realistic. she' probably sees guys her age to be "immature" which is why she is drawn to the 26 year old. it's most likely an infatuation with the idea of being with a "mature" person. not a boy, but a man. but when she reaches college, she'll probably see many guys that she'll be interested in. she might see that guys her age can be just as interesting. now say she only wants older guys. she'll be dealing with men in business and working positions which she'll have minimal experience with at best. how acan a relationship work with so little in common?

the guymight have a thing for younger girls. but that's another problem. she's technically a child. not even a legal adult. he can get into a lot of legal trouble. sex is statiatory rape. he should be looking for women, not girls. if he's 26, then he most likely already knows all this. why he goes for younger girls, we can't know. but that's a big deal. i would definitely question his motives. i don't mean to sound pessimistic, but i think a guy like that is probably looking for some young trusting girl who would fall for an older guy so that he can take advantage of her.

i question the guy more than the girl, but i still think that age difference at that age is wrong. the older you get, the less it becomes a difference, but 16 and 26, that's pretty important.

just my thoughts...i hope that the 16 yr old isn't you.

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Posted by girl0verdose on 03-31-2002 08:37 PM:

Personally, I think age difference does matter. It's to do with maturity, of course... the close the age gap is, the more people can understand each other (but of course that doesn't happen in some cases)

Posted by daNNy LuV 1TYM on 04-03-2002 08:37 PM:

for pplz hu are young (under 20) i think it matters...like, 5 yrs mite not be that bad btween a 22 yr old and a 27 yr old, but think about a 15 yr old and a 20 yr old!! age shudn't matter that much, tho...celine dion and her hubby are 30 yrs apart! if 2 pplz realli care about each othr, then sure. mai grandma and grandpa are 9 yrs apart. danny and i are 7 yrs apart. it's all good

Posted by krnxswat on 04-03-2002 09:05 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by bigChubuff

and if i was goin out wit a girl 10 years younger i would be datin a 5 year old


haha werd i could juss imagine u wid a 5 yr old

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Posted by loser on 04-03-2002 10:16 PM:

15 and 20-25 yr old equals oldman watns some young pussy...
this does not hold tru for 20 and 30-35 year oldman becaus e by then girls pussy ain't young
so wait couple years
b4 you get fuck by some1 ten yr older

Posted by krnxswat on 04-04-2002 08:40 AM:

erff...ure saying age matters cuz of pussy? --;

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Posted by KeN VeRsUs RyU on 04-07-2002 10:24 PM:

ok anyway ignore mr. loser.. even tho he might be right ..

i myself knew a guy who was much older than this girl he liked.. about 8 years.. he was around 22 and she was 14.. kinda weird right?.. yeah it is.. but bear with me..
when he first tole us about it of course there was the initial shock.. and then disgust.. but then that went away after realizing this is our friend whom we care and love.. but.. i couldnt find myself to encourage this.. its just too much.. i thought i would be neutral.. not saying anything to discourage nor encourage.. he tried to convince me that it would work out.. and the girl too.. this gone for about a year and a half.. and i almost believed them..
4 years later they dont really talk.. they hardly care for one another.. there wasnt a bad breakup or anything but it just didnt work out.. why?.. because the odds were stacked against them.. and they gave in.. i would too.. they're much better off now.. each dating someone closer to their age and they love their companions very much so..
i didnt write this to discourage or encourage.. i just wrote this because i know about these things from witnessing it before my eyes.. it'll be tough.. it'l be hard.. and you'll be criticized.. i hope this helped..

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Posted by CiviC_BayBi on 04-09-2002 01:48 AM:

well my parents are 20 yrs apart..my dad is 69 and my mum is 49 ...make u think huhz...? they've onli been married for 19 yrs....and my dad has neva been married b4 my mum.....so i guess it has work out for them..because..i guess that they were matured and done wat they wanted to do... which left not room for jealousy...etc....but for sum couple that was lets say 16 and 36.....that would be very difficult to make it work....my bf is 3 yrs older than me..but i can rememba wen i was still 15 and he was 18..it was goin fine...till....i turned 16..he was 19...we encounter many difficult situations!! but we worked thru them..so it all depends i guess....except for maybe extreme cases...*16 - 36*

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Posted by Grace1o04 on 04-09-2002 11:32 AM:

i think it depends...you know?? well my bf is 17 and i'm 14
and everything is going good wit us..we've been together for over a year now...well hope things work out?!? :satisfy: peace~
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