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Posted by Rome0Ls4ever on 04-07-2003 04:17 PM:

I don't Get Female....and how do they think??????

You knoe how most female ram on & on bout how they want a perfect man...but once that perfect man comes along their way they r nothing more then a friend too them...instead they go for the jackasses that treat them like shit ???why???......

Posted by Rome0Ls4ever on 04-07-2003 04:25 PM:

Well........ i am that jackass that treat them lik shit......i just feel sorry 4 the perfec guy out their 4 them...hahahaha

Posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0 on 04-07-2003 05:50 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by Rome0Ls4ever
Well........ i am that jackass that treat them lik shit......i just feel sorry 4 the perfec guy out their 4 them...hahahaha


you know what i think? i think your just trying to bullshit everyone here. you probably think of yourself as the perfect nice guy but once you realized someone would come along and bash you for thinking so conceitedly of yourself, you just changed roles to save yourself in the second post. please, do correct me if i'm wrong.
the reason why girls dislike the "perfect nice guy" type is because they understand that just because a guy is nice doesn't mean he is quality boyfriend material. the majority of "nice, caring, listening" guys that treat girls like gold usually also come with a good amount of negative traits as well, such as over-sensitivity, indecisiveness, trying too hard to please, jealousy, etc. i'm not condoning being a jackass to try and get a girl, but i am trying to offer perspective on why you might be failing in the love and dating field when you think you have everything going for youself as a nice, caring boyfriend.

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Posted by Rome0Ls4ever on 04-07-2003 05:58 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
you know what i think? i think your just trying to bullshit everyone here. you probably think of yourself as the perfect nice guy but once you realized someone would come along and bash you for thinking so conceitedly of yourself, you just changed roles to save yourself in the second post. please, do correct me if i'm wrong.
the reason why girls dislike the "perfect nice guy" type is because they understand that just because a guy is nice doesn't mean he is quality boyfriend material. the majority of "nice, caring, listening" guys that treat girls like gold usually also come with a good amount of negative traits as well, such as over-sensitivity, indecisiveness, trying too hard to please, jealousy, etc. i'm not condoning being a jackass to try and get a girl, but i am trying to offer perspective on why you might be failing in the love and dating field when you think you have everything going for youself as a nice, caring boyfriend.




DUD...i was just messing around beside do i look like the nices guy type??????

Posted by merdawg on 04-07-2003 09:19 PM:

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Originally posted by Rome0Ls4ever
DUD...i was just messing around beside do i look like the nices guy type??????


wtf? so there was no point in ur post?

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Posted by Valor on 04-07-2003 09:33 PM:

hahahaha...I just love it when people contradict themselves. It's just o-so-funny

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Posted by merdawg on 04-07-2003 09:59 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by Valor
hahahaha...I just love it when people contradict themselves. It's just o-so-funny


can i join in with the laughter?

HAHAHAHAHAHA

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Posted by Rome0Ls4ever on 04-07-2003 10:44 PM:

ok..........lets get back on track and answer the question.....

Posted by craziistarz on 04-08-2003 12:05 AM:

acctually.. not ALL girls go for the assholes. .. and not ALL girls th ink of the perfect guy as JUST A FRIEND.. you see.. relationships CAN build from friendships..

Posted by PreshuslilDevil on 04-08-2003 12:36 AM:

wat ur saying ish true, but must case is not.. in some cases gurl juss don't know wat they want.... dats probably why they go foe jackasses........

Posted by Rome0Ls4ever on 04-08-2003 12:51 AM:

quote:
Originally posted by craziistarz
acctually.. not ALL girls go for the assholes. .. and not ALL girls th ink of the perfect guy as JUST A FRIEND.. you see.. relationships CAN build from friendships..




thats true very true.... but in most cases they their not

Posted by s0lotu on 04-08-2003 01:50 AM:

aiite, this isn't true for everyone, but this is what i think based on my experience (unfortunately).

girls don't TRY to go for jackasses. i think a girl falls into a trap when they think there's actually a really great guy hiding inside the jackass that others can't see, cuz that makes it feel special. also, the cockiness (when played in a certain way) that usually goes with being a jackass could be mistaken for confidence and initially be found attractive, despite contradicting all reason. (ew he's so cocky... ew why do i actually think thats cute?)

well, many times, these jackasses are actually putting up a front because they are actually really insecure inside and so they have to play this whole macho jerk thing. this insecurity, girls, is what had been sensed as there being "more" to him. again, this is just my interpretation based on my observations and experience. i'm not claiming it applies in all cases.

so basically, the problem here is immaturity. when a girl is immature, she is more vulnerable to falling for guys who are immature.

once people start maturing, everything falls into place. i've noticed a trend. as girls mature, they learn to judge better. so they tend to get disgusted by the immature jackasses and go for guys who are so secure, mature, and confident (not cocky) that they treat the girl with respect... aka a GOOD GUY! an immature good guy may not have been desirable, but a mature one definitely is. and jackasses can grow out of their immaturity too and go in that same direction of being a good guy... they might have a harder time though? i dunno.

but yea, some people may never really mature; some people may mature very early. *shrug* and this all depends on what u think maturing is. heh.

Posted by kangg fu on 04-08-2003 05:22 AM:

werd

i agree with sOlo tu...i dont think the whole asshole thing is THAT common...i know alot of people who are dating nice people...they may seems more like assholes because they are going out with the person you have feelings for...and anything bad that person does is magnified in your eyes...im not supporting assholes or nice guys...every single situation is different...but usually the assholes are assertive, which usually puts them in a higher position among others, which gurls could see as attractive and what not...but like i said every single situation is different and dont ever change who you are...

Posted by Mz.SeXe_KaYz on 04-08-2003 01:22 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by Rome0Ls4ever
Well........ i am that jackass that treat them lik shit......i just feel sorry 4 the perfec guy out their 4 them...hahahaha

hm....u dun seem lik 1 dem jakasses u koo hm....its ok yea buh dats tru does y do us grls fall foe da jakasses lik mea i broke up wit my bf dat was so swt nice n funny buh now im sittin sad n solo witout him feelin bad!n ders all des wanna b playas dat tryin to go wit mea!

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Posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0 on 04-08-2003 02:11 PM:

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Originally posted by Mz.SeXe_KaYz

hm....u dun seem lik 1 dem jakasses u koo hm....its ok yea buh dats tru does y do us grls fall foe da jakasses lik mea i broke up wit my bf dat was so swt nice n funny buh now im sittin sad n solo witout him feelin bad!n ders all des wanna b playas dat tryin to go wit mea!



in your other post you commented how your ex-boyfriend was feeling like hell and doing stupid things because you broke up with him, and now your saying he's not feeling bad? make up your mind.

also, maybe those "wanna b playas" just want to console you after your broken relationship... don't be assuming that you're some kind of prom queen who has guys waiting in line for you.

face the facts and take my advice from your other post. we're all above elementary school here, so please learn to say things in an intelligent way. typing like that is not "cute".
it's don't, not "dun"
it's but, not "buh"
it's for, not "foe"
it's like, not "lik"
it's me, not "mea"
it's that, not "dat"
it's there's, not "ders"
it's these, not "des"

those were some helpful hints, just in case you didn't know.

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Posted by krnxswat on 04-08-2003 03:08 PM:

pepsi

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Posted by merdawg on 04-08-2003 10:12 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by krnxswat
pepsi


?...coke?

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Posted by PsychoSnowman on 04-08-2003 10:28 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0

also, maybe those "wanna b playas" just want to console you after your broken relationship... don't be assuming that you're some kind of prom queen who has guys waiting in line for you.



Agreed.

Just saying i agree with him in case you may be one of htose people who disregard people who seem to be "after them" or whatever, thinking they are picking on you or something. This is good advice, people shoudl follow it.

Just today i heard someone saying that a guy was "stalking" them. Get over yourself, i know this guy and he is such a good christian and not the stalking type either. It's hard to convey how much of an impossibility this is (especialy since he's not allowed to have a girl friend, nor does he want one it seems). Anyway, this just reminded me of it. Don't flatter yourself please.

As for the actual thread....i'd prefer not to comment on such blatantly generalized ideas that have so much room for fault.

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Posted by eddiee on 04-08-2003 10:40 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by krnxswat
pepsi


you are very random man....


oo psytec didnt say face the facts in his first post!

Posted by PsychoSnowman on 04-08-2003 10:56 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by LiLbLuEaZnBoY
you are very random man....


oo psytec didnt say face the facts in his first post!


he is not. He is trying to mock andrew or something.

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