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Would You Forgive... your friend if they chose popularity over being with you

Would you?

yea

cause.. i'd understand cause i'm understanding like that~

no jp. um.. i'd forgive cause, maybe i'd do the same thing too if i had a chance.

and i've experienced being rejected by a friend once in a while over popularity.. but it didnt really bother me..

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If it was just a friend I wouldn't care very much...

But if it was some one who I was really really close with, like grew up together and practicially sisters, I'd be hurt...

Forgiving? I don't see why I should be forgiving in either case...

hell no. i say fuck 'em.

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yeah i would forgive, i mean... who wouldn't want to b popular except da few who don't care about about it but everybody wants to be seen as "cool"

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i don't care to be popular

i wouldn't really feel anything. if they were gonna do that, they weren't truly my friends in the first place. better sooner than later.

yeah cuss they usually come back...once the crazy fun is over..and they ned someone when their in trouble...da people they with not there for them...so then they realize..who the real friends were

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i wouldn't care because i don't count that as a friend.....and i'm pretty sure we would say hi once in awhile...and not only that there are many people who do that so who gives a care

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of course i would. If we do not allow repenting to take place, we never allow progress to take place. It then becomes a single elimination game of friendship. Friendship has infinite chances. Grudges are feeble.

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One time this guy who wasn't my friend to begin with started up animosity and held on to it for 4 years, this will make the 5th.

matters on how close we were

no, WTF, that's hella wrong, i don't care who it is or how close they r to me, that's BS.

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Originally posted by PsychoSnowman
of course i would. If we do not allow repenting to take place, we never allow progress to take place.

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Originally posted by bckp
even if the other does not repent, i still would forgive the person

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Long messages do not equal aggravation of any sort,
rather they reflect nothing more than a response of insight
that should always be read in a matter-of-fact tone.

"Those womyn that seek equality with men, lack determination."

"I beseech you, in the bowels of Christ, think it possible you may be wrong."
-Cromwell

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Originally posted by PsychoSnowman
yeah, same here. apologies are not necessary, if you know the other person regrets their action or has wised up. Forgiving can take place without an apology of any kind. But, if we hold grudges and do not allow forgiveness to take place, then we are not allowing progress to take place. We remain entrenched in the past.

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well yea i can forgive them after awhile~i've been on both sides of the situation so i understand..in the middle of highschool, i slowly inched towards a new and bigger group..it wasnt really cuz of the popularity it was cuz they were just more fun to be around with and i clicked with them a lot more than w. my old tiny circle of friends..i felt realy guilty at first tho, but my friends just took it into stride and after time they ended up kind of joining the group too so it turned out good..and rite now one of my best friends is somewhat ditching us for her boyfriend's group of friends..they're older and go out a lot more so i guess that appeals to her..we felt dissed in the beginning but now we're just like "if she's gonna be like that, f*ck her then, we're better off"..i still talk to her but i no longer go out of my way to do so..i'll give her space cuz whats the point in making her choose sides?

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Originally posted by daNNy LuV 1TYM
i wouldn't really feel anything. if they were gonna do that, they weren't truly my friends in the first place. better sooner than later.

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Originally posted by PsychoSnowman
yeah, same here. apologies are not necessary, if you know the other person regrets their action or has wised up. Forgiving can take place without an apology of any kind. But, if we hold grudges and do not allow forgiveness to take place, then we are not allowing progress to take place. We remain entrenched in the past.

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Originally posted by Crazydeb8ter
hell no. i say fuck 'em.

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