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an ex friend

I have this friend, let's call her "A" and I'm Liz. See we had a huge fight over something totally dumb. And now she's like really really popular because she hangs out with different people now and is very well known around the school. I guess you could say I'm jealous, but not of her popularity, but i'm more mad that no one knows what she's really like except for me and my old friends who she totally ditched. We both play the flute and she's good at it, she's also really smart, and fun to be around if she likes u. we've been friends for a loong time and i dun think it's fair for her to ditch us so easily. i was just wondering if any of u can help me w/ this problem.

stop being so selfish and move on, make new friends

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Originally posted by AjY 2k
stop being so selfish and move on, make new friends

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"Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable. " - Bruce Lee

well sometimes friendships are worth pursuing and some are not ...

i think you should make an attempt to contact her outside of school ... and since you've drifted apart i think it's going to be difficult to start up the friendship again .. but if you see that she wants to be friends like you were before ...

then pursue it ...

but if she doesnt seem like she cares ... then you'll see she's not the friend you thought she was ... and move on

play da drums.

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Originally posted by KeN VeRsUs RyU
play da drums.

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drums maracas

but yea i agree what andrew said

welcome to the real world.

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immagijibae: seons a hoeeeeeee, he wears them g-strings, and i also knowwwww, they hurt his dinga-lings~ la l alalala~ nanannan~ oh~ seons a hoeeeeee, he wears them g-strings..............
immagijibae: liiiiiiiiiiiiiike my new 1-minute-made-up song???????

maybe your just growing apart?? Thats what happened with me and a couple of my best friends when we got into like middle school. We just went our own way realizing we werent as close as we thought we were....o well....i got new best friends now and im happier!!!

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its better to lose a lover, than to love a loser

make more friends

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immagijibae: seons a hoeeeeeee, he wears them g-strings, and i also knowwwww, they hurt his dinga-lings~ la l alalala~ nanannan~ oh~ seons a hoeeeeee, he wears them g-strings..............
immagijibae: liiiiiiiiiiiiiike my new 1-minute-made-up song???????

she ditched you but you still want to be friends with her? why bother? go make friends who appreciate you for what you are. so what if she's "popular"? no one's gonna remember these things five years from now, believe me. and you said you know what she's "really" like; do you WANT to be friends with that?

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Originally posted by AjY 2k
stop being so selfish and move on, make new friends

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"Those womyn that seek equality with men, lack determination."

"I beseech you, in the bowels of Christ, think it possible you may be wrong."
-Cromwell

i guess so...

after reading all the advice from a neutral standpoint, i guess this problems seems stupid and dumb...
i'll try to take all ur advice
thanks