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Posted by MaGiKToToRo on 03-03-2004 11:20 PM:

another problem.....

er....my friend is really good friends with this girl and likes her a lot, but he is afraid to tell her cause he doesnt want to risk ruining the friendship. but this girl likes my other friend...my other friend kind of likes the girl but not completely...sooo what should my friend do? Tell her how he feels and risk ruining the friendship or simlpy wait until my other friend falls head over heels for the girl and miss his chance???

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Posted by hnefrdo on 03-03-2004 11:35 PM:

ahh.. HS drama. i can'r say i missed it.

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Posted by niggoreanboi on 03-04-2004 12:42 AM:

if the girl lieks another person then it's prob useless for ur friedn to ask ehr out right? said it before it's a waste of time just study study study LOL

Posted by sweetthing on 03-04-2004 01:13 AM:

sounds like a soap.................theres more to life than a little crush

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Posted by AZN Pinoy BOI on 03-04-2004 01:49 AM:

ur story confuses me... can u explain it better for me plz?

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Posted by MasWusHot on 03-04-2004 02:28 AM:

hmm, well if the girl has her eye on another guy...wether he likes her or not..she still likes him so shes prolly not gonna be feelin for ur other friend that much..so he should wait till maybe their over with..or move onto another girl

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Posted by MaGiKToToRo on 03-04-2004 02:39 AM:

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Originally posted by MasWusHot
hmm, well if the girl has her eye on another guy...wether he likes her or not..she still likes him so shes prolly not gonna be feelin for ur other friend that much..so he should wait till maybe their over with..or move onto another girl

hahah shit....

Posted by H2oBaebe on 03-04-2004 03:18 AM:

ok. number one, never let anyone know who ur crush is. number two, is it the right thing to do, probably not, getting into relationships in high school is stupid, look at it this way, if it's meant to happen, it will. three, don't get involved, it is an issue for ur friends to deal with, not for u to intervene. Believe me, i've gone in and out and way to many boy/girl (hehe) troubles. conclusion, let time tell... don't let this high school crush ruin a friendship.. as hard as it can be to keep emotions in, i reccomend not acting on a fling..

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Posted by MellowYellow on 03-04-2004 06:10 AM:

Going against everything let me just say something that everyone might want to shoot down:

I did not enjoy high school enough.

<<Chicks over dicks... pals over gals. >>

Fuck that shit man.

Do what you feel like you want to do. Friends matter I suppose but high school friends pass just as quickly as the ones from elementary and junior high school. You can always make more friends (talk about cynical).

So if you want to "involve yo self in drama" go right on ahead and do it but really... is that going to make your "high school experience" better? Some people like the drama. They claim they're tired of shit and blah blah drama but unconciously they create even more drama than they started out with.

Seems like you the drama... because as far as I see... I don't see anywhere... where YOU directly are affected by anything. This matter is beyond you. Sure it relates to your friend but those are their problems... You want to be the mediator? GO RIGHT ON AHEAD, you know you want to so don't ask.

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Posted by wolleylabel on 03-04-2004 07:37 AM:

o.O there are people who seek drama? oh man... i always avoided things like that... i hated high school... so routine and form fitting i couldn't stand it... but then again that may be because i avoided drama... instead i actually gained a close bond with just a few people which is nice... and i seriously can see hanging out with these people the rest of my life... strange... i sound like an old man...

anyway... my take on the whole situation... step a side dear... let the things run their course... its kinda like the chicken pox... things might get progressivly more uncomfortable as things go on, but the thing is people usually come out looking better then they used to, or rather wiser then they used to after such fits of drama... honestly in my opinion, don't waste your time in high school relationships... chances are you guys aren't ready for a relationship yet anyway... honestly you can't really take a HS relationship THAT seriously with all your concerns in getting into a good college and academics and such... its really hard to juggle all that... you don't need to juggle a relationship too... anyway there are plenty of more people, and most probably more compatible people to meet in college anyway...

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Posted by MasWusHot on 03-04-2004 05:37 PM:

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Originally posted by MellowYellow
Seems like you the drama... because as far as I see... I don't see anywhere... where YOU directly are affected by anything. This matter is beyond you. Sure it relates to your friend but those are their problems... You want to be the mediator? GO RIGHT ON AHEAD, you know you want to so don't ask.

unless hes talkin about him but dont wanna say..hahaha..i have no idea if its true or not..it just crossed my mind

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Posted by MaGiKToToRo on 03-29-2004 05:01 PM:

ahh i just wanted to update u guys on what happend:

My friend did not tell the girl how he felt about her... And the girl and my other friend got together... But the weird thing is my friend helped them get together even though he felt hurt. Idk i thought it was kinda brave of him to do that and he was being a really good friend to her... but it kinda sux now for him because hes starting to feel all sad, but he knows that shes happy with the other friend, so he doesnt feel all bad

Posted by KeN VeRsUs RyU on 03-29-2004 08:46 PM:

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Originally posted by niggoreanboi
if the girl lieks another person then it's prob useless for ur friedn to ask ehr out right? said it before it's a waste of time just study study study LOL

HA! YOU'VE BEEN CONFORMED!

yeah, listen to the only two who actually finished h.s. and can look back at their high school life. The only thing that can make your FUTURE better is to get good grades and work hard. Sounds old fashioned indeed and a little cliche as far as advice from old people go... but there's always room for improvements and working a little extra never hurts.

as for h.s. drama. I say people go through them one way or another. Might as well have'm in high school where they belong and keep them there. Live and learn. Without the latter you'll be stuck in drama mode for a unnecessarily long time.

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