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Posted by daNNy LuV 1TYM on 08-06-2002 10:42 PM:

expectations

hav u ever felt that no matter how hard u tried, no matter wut u did, no matter how much u sacrificed, it's never enuff? i realize most parents are demanding in many wayz whether it be in sports, academics, playing an instrument, etc. but hav u evr felt that despite everything u try it never satisfies them?

Posted by HHxEliTE on 08-07-2002 04:36 AM:

i know what u mean.. no matter how hard i fucken tried.. its not enuff.. its like i have to do better it gets so fucken irritating.. im like.. damn this is me.. accept me for me..... thats why i gived up in life... cuz i cant reach no ones fucken expectations..... jess screw it all...

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Posted by Nojeel on 08-07-2002 04:38 AM:

there's a thread just like this..check it out

http://www.jusunlee.com/forums/show...p;threadid=3640

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Posted by jini on 08-07-2002 05:57 AM:

yea. i felt that way for a while. n then i realized, whatever... i'm not living for them, i'm living for MYSELF. i don't need to please anyone.

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Posted by k r n g i r l on 08-07-2002 11:48 PM:

i hate how i feel like this these days. no matter what i do, it never seems enough for them. they think i don't try hard enough...when i do and really get stressed over a lot of things. only if they knew half the stuff i'm trying to achieve...

Posted by HHxEliTE on 08-07-2002 11:52 PM:

yeh.. iss so stressful... they think that ur not trying enuff.. but u are trying ur best... but they never believe u... blurgh... irritating

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Posted by junjinluber33 on 08-08-2002 05:46 AM:

ive felt that way SO many times in my life... SiGh*

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Posted by jini on 08-08-2002 05:55 AM:

yea..

stressed and traumatized. hooo.. o well.

Posted by BoA4ever on 08-08-2002 03:16 PM:

i know what u mean... it seems like my mom is never satisfied with what i do... she always say i can do better and all that... she doesnt understand that i try my best in every way... and all that i do seems to be "not okay"... like , if i have A in an exam... she tells me "hey you could have an A+" and it makes me feel desperate... nobody has A+ in my class , so why should I? Im not able to , but I try , and try and try again.... She is rarely proud of me... so stressing... sometimes it makes me wanna change of life...

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Posted by MC ChOpStiCkz on 08-09-2002 02:03 AM:

ye ai knoe excaltly wut u mean its very stressful i hate it

Posted by daNNy LuV 1TYM on 08-12-2002 07:44 AM:

quote:
Originally posted by Nojeel
there's a thread just like this..check it out

http://www.jusunlee.com/forums/show...p;threadid=3640

i did...but i think this focuses specifically on parents' expectations and is sumwut different

*sigh* i realize mai parents want the best for me, but they're forcing me to spend MORE time and MORE effort even if i am perfectly happi with mai grade or wutever. like if i study for a test for 2 hrs and get a 95, they'll be like "u shud hav studied for 4 hrs and gotten 100." or if i practice the piano for 3 hrs and mess up a lil during a recital they'll be like "u shud hav practiced 6 hrs every day! u never work hard enuff!"

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